Jude welcomes Jonathon Aslay founder of Understanding Men Now at jonathonaslay.com and the What Would Love Do? podcast to discuss the topic of his recent podcast titled, "Men Need to Grow the F Up When Dating." Timestamps: 00:00 Jonathon Aslay founder of Understanding Men Now at jonathonaslay.com 2:00 Emotional Maturity 16:29 Learn about yourself before going out into the dating world 24:10 Self Discipline Resources discussed: Jonathon's website - http://www.jonathonaslay.com Eight Dates: Essential Conversations for a Lifetime of Love - John Gottman The Power of Committment: A Guide to Active, Lifelong Love - Scott Stanley The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/ Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ Music credit: Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate) ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjH4TsVz5Ug

When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 4 which is to Optimize Your Environment. Jude also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount! Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Contact/Schedule. Timestamps: 00:00 Step 4: Optimize Your Environment 8:58 Controlling your environment 19:35 Make goals Resources: Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 4: Optimize Your Environment https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-4-optimize-your-environment-275d7ebf61ae Willpower Doesn't Work - Benjamin Hardy - https://www.amazon.com/Willpower-Doesnt-Work-Discover-Success-ebook/dp/B073P421QC The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/ Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate) ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVzeoGfD8wE

Father of two and creator of GreatDad.com a website written by dads for dad and the podcast Great Dad Talks, Paul Banas, joins Jude to talk about ways and strategies for dads to stay engaged and not self isolate during the challenging period of divorce. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com. Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ Other Resources: The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/ Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/ Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate) ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ullmhUk7Qqs

Every moment there lies a choice. The choice of your thoughts, the choice of your words, the choice of your actions. All of these moment-by-moment choices add up to creating our reality. It is critical to realize that every choice is directed by one of two states of consciousness – love or fear. And each choice you make in thought, word or action determines your life during and after your divorce. Do you want yours to be one of fear or of love? Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/ How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html *FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com. Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ Other Resources: The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/ Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/ The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/ Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate) ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4742pwr4qf8