Victim mentality: the persecutor-victim-rescuer triangle
Just some thoughts on the persecutor- victim-rescuer dynamics that often happen when someone has an external locus of control, which is usually a warning sign for immaturity and/or personality disordered people.
Any comments/feedback is welcome, and if you have questions regarding my counselling services in the area of post BPD partner break up, please email me at melanieprsvp@gmail.com ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=weyiFeJF5l0
Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=giRug2j6RRs
Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3TXYBsaU2hE
Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rEdm1U5EgN0
In part three of this interview with Padmapriya, he shares with us some tips on how to implement daily (and hourly!) meditation and mindfulness strategies to help overcome addiction.
We also discuss that, although labels guide us and are helpful, they do not define us, and there is a danger in building your identity solely around the label(s) you give yourself (or have been given to you). We discuss the importance of letting go of attachments to labels in order for go deeper with self-exploration.
If you want to get in contact with Padmapriya, he is based in Lingfield UK, and his website is
deqi-acupuncture.uk
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQ2ct3TKwbc
In this video I discuss how a parent(s) with mental health issues can result in children who grow up with difficulties expressing their "negative" emotions with future partners and friends. And why they may find themselves in relationships in which they have to censor their true thoughts and feelings.
Want to know more about the online counselling services that I offer? Email me at melanieprsvp@gmail.com
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1z7kiUHGQyU
Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lzPnzLm2QpU
Get to know more about me and my weird goth ways: I used to be a belly dancer and snake charmer (one who belly dances with snakes) and found the symbology of serpents to be rather fitting in the path of personal growth. We need to "shed" what's no longer needed in order for us to develop and grow, yet most of us resist letting go of our old skin and habitual ways...
Check out Jared's channel (Mello Mentoring): https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRNzdjdckqFa29BxrDRKYcQ
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Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yAnEQ2JjfVk
Feeling alone after a break up? Want help and support from someone who's been in a relationship with a Borderline? And to be able to ask any questions you want about your relationship?
We can talk about your specific problems and pains stemming from the borderline woman you were/are with, and help get you relief as soon as possible in 1-on-1 Counseling (BACP Registered).
If you'd like details?
Email me at MelaniePRSVP@gmail.com - and I'll send you the info.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLzIYGZL73g