The Myth of BPD Remission - what you could be mislead into thinking it means. Even when a person with an re-assessed BPD 4 trait count doesn’t mean they can’t be healthier in relating or relationships because at a BPD trait count it of 4 each intensely strong trait that takes years more therapy is a very primal core trait. It’s always the core traits that make a recovery from BPD take 8-16 years - BOD remission in most with BPD is often pained and described so erroneously and so misleadingly. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZy_EkCWPuU
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The Secret Key To Heal From Cognitive Dissonance after a Borderline or a Narcissist. Another, deeper part of the work to free yourself from this pain. I help clients work through this deeper key part of recovery from Cognitive Dissonance. It is often pushed down into the subconscious or added to what you don't yet know that is present in your subconscious driving negative core beliefs and thoughts that lead to compounding the pain of cognitive dissonance.
http://ajmahari.ca/contact for Sessions to truly heal from Cognitive Dissonance and other woundedness after relationships with those with BPD or NPD (or co-morbidly both).
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#cognitivedissonance #ajmahari
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Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups. Codependents need to heal. A.J. Mahari's walk and lived experience as the Ex of a 3 Cluster B partners in the past.
I have walked as many miles as anyone in the shoes of a codependent after 2 Ex's with BPD and one ex BPD/NPD. I don't just talk the talk, I've walked the walk and I know what that healing and recovery journey requires of anyone who needs it but may be equally as afraid of it and its pain that is the only way to healing.
#IamExofBPD #ajmahari #Codependency
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4KX6IdLa8ss
BPD Devalue to Discard Codependents Is it Reasonable To Try To Solve Repeating Conflict?
BPD Devalue to discard once or multiple times the question is why and is it reasonable for Codependents to keep trying to solve repeating conflict when it can't be done?
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Non borderlines, loved ones of those with BPD in all various forms of relationships to someone in their lives with Borderline Personality Disorder need their own recovery. This recovery is needed whether you stay in a relationship or in contact with the person with BPD in your life or not. Life Coach/BPD Mental Health Coach, and Author, A.J. Mahari, has effective coaching strategy that helps non borderlines in their own coping and recovery.
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Codependency 12 Core Signs & Understanding Dysfunctional Relational Patterns
Codependency 12 Core Signs that indicate codependency and understanding the
dysfunctional relational patterns of Codependency that have their causation in
childhood woundedness. More on what codependency is too.
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Loving a Borderline The Borderline Cant Love You - BPD Narrative of "Love" is Cognitively Distorted
Loving a borderline the borderline can't love you. Their is no mutuality. There is no give and take. A borderline imparts her cognitively distorted "narrative" of "us" (all borderlines) again no use of an "I" statement while right-fighting and devaluing others and showing their own lack of awareness.
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#BPDcan'tlove #BPDdenial #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uQPWcAtPpsM
Surviving BPD Relationships: The Importance of Therapy - Why Knowledge of BPD Matters
In surviving BPD Relationship Breakups take your Codependency and recovery seriously it is important to go to therapy not any 12 Step Group. Why knowledge of BPD is important for you to understand and does matter and is not useless.
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Surviving BPD Relationships: The Importance of Therapy - Why Knowledge of BPD Matters
#BPDBreakupUnderstandBPD #CodependentTherapy #ajmahari
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BPD Ex or Lived One - In pain? Confused? Wondering why they do what they do?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEOAXR2xmGc