BPD Loved Ones - The Rabbit Hole is what you get stuck in trying to “diagnose” the BPD partner, Ex, family member. So many people are convinced their Borderline is a Narcissist (too) or co-morbid with Anti Social Personality Disorder when only 1.2 females and just under 2% of all men diagnosed with BPD are thought to potentially also have ASPD or psychopathy. This rabbit hole will keep you focused on & obsessing on the Borderline and it won’t help you heal your Codependency. Often your Borderline is only a Borderline. ajmahari.ca/sessions - Get to know you better - not them! ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkmAElO1GlI
Codependency rises out of Childhood Abandonment Betrayal and Rejection | AJ Mahari Live Stream Clips
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The seeds of codependency are sown in childhood with the adverse experiences of abandonment, betrayal, and rejection and set the likelihood of
trauma bonding in adult relationships.
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Borderline Personality First Trauma Bond From Cluster B Mother
People who go on to be diagnosed with Borderline Personality suffer their first trauma bond from a Cluster B Mother in 87% of all that could be or have been diagnosed with Borderline Personality.
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Borderline Personality First Trauma Bond From Cluster B Mother
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Codependency Is Rooted In Childhood - It's Not Your Fault
Codependency is Rooted in Childhood - It's Not Your Fault - Why you have Codependency is not your fault because nothing is ever a child's fault. It is your responsibility now to get into therapy to heal and recover and find and know yourself in an independent way for the first time in your life.
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BPD Breakups Codependent Man Had 6 Borderline Relationships | A.J. Mahari Interview
BPD relationships and breakups are like no other, so painful, and therapy is required to heal and recover from them and Codependency. In this interview A.J. Mahari talks to a man who has been in 6 relationships with 6 different Borderline women.
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BPD Breakups Codependent Man Had 6 Borderline Relationships | A.J. Mahari Interview
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[0:00] Introduction Mikael
[0:57] Mikael on BPD Relationships
[2:53] Isolation & Marriage Breakup
[4:25] Vulnerability Eggshells & No Control
[4:49] Loss of Self
[5:46] BPD Split To Rage[
[6:40] Codependent Not The "Bad Guy"
[6:53] BPD Patterns Split Rage to Silent Treatment
[11:08] BPD Ultimatum Ends Relationship
[13:14] Cycles Good/Bad
[17:11] Codependent Pain
[21:40] From One BPD Relationship to Next One
[24:29] Mikael Reverse Hoovers
[27:48] From Another BPD To Last BPD
[28:41] Codependent Stays Knowing w/BPD
[31:49] Codependent Avoids Self
[32:28] Mikael Realizes Codependent Responsibility
[41:07] Codependent Escapism - Self Abandonment
[44:35] Codependent Emptiness
[46:04] Illusion Trauma Bond Hook
[49:15] No Contact To Heal
[52:35] Amber Heard/Johnny Depp Lessons
[54:24] Men - False Accusations of some BPD Women
[1:00:22] Emotional Physical Abuse of Men
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BPD On/Off Relationship - Why Still Taking To A Borderline Who Isn’t Listening & Can’t Hear You?
BPD on/off relationship cycles don't work and are very painful and unhealthy. Are you still in contact, going in circles and feeling more and more lost and hurt? Are you still talking to a Borderline who isn't listening and can't hear you?
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If you are, were, or become the victim of a Narcissist you are not even seen by that self-supply agenda of what they want to take from you. False promises of what they will give you are as unreal as the fact that the only person they think about or see in any luring of a victim is their empty, dark, lacking self that endlessly needs and that will not ever see you, know you, care about you or value anything they take from you for supply as "good enough". Narcissists do not even see those they target. You are invisible and that hurts from the start but you might not feel that right away.
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Borderline Personality and Codependent's Trauma Bonds are Not Rooted in Addiction But are rooted in Trauma - A Deep Dive to help you understand the Trauma Bond, it's underpinnings for those with BPD and for those with Codependency. It's not addiction that makes a trauma bond so difficult to break yet it can feel like that.
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Borderline Women and Hypersexuality What Men Need To Know
Many, not all, Borderline Women are very hypersexual. This is very addicting for men. What do men need to know about the hypersexuality of the borderline woman?
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BPD Breakups Codependent Pain, Loss, Trauma and Complicated Grief & BPD Suicide
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Please check for my MasterClass In Depth videos series, courses and more coming to https://ajmahari.co If you resonate with me you will want to get even more depth that I have to offer that won't be on Youtube. I will be going deeper in these MasterClasses than the aggregate of all my work to date, which is pretty deep, on Youtube. Many more facets of Borderlines & Codependents Match Made In Hell BPD Codependency and the borderline illusion of love and relationship and Love Addiction in how to Break the Trauma Bond.
The MasterClasses that I will make available at cost, that will be very in depth, will be on BPD, the BPD/Codependent Dynamic, Surviving a BPD or NPD Relationship Breakup, and will include in depth information for those hurt by a Narcissist, adult children of a Narcissistic or Borderline Parent, family members, and siblings or friends and favorite people. In depth, MasterClasses to inform and educate you.
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BPD Breakup Codependent Idealist in Denial
After a BPD Breakup a commenter asserts he is an Idealist not a Codependent. Codependents are Idealists. Why do so many still remain in Codependent Denial?
Idealist is not a meaningful delination between it and a Codependent.
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