**Tips** Know your own limitations and what triggers you to "lose it" when in a disagreement. For many people who actively avoid disagreement, it can be easy to take offense too easily and to get riled up emotionally, precisely because avoidance of disagreement has prevented you from learning how to tackle disagreement more constructively. If this is the case, it's recommended that you spend time with self-help guides on such things on non-violent communication techniques or attend a course on dealing with disagreements to learn constructive phrases and ways of responding whenever you feel too pressured during a disagreement. Try a technique where you and the person you're talking to agree to only ask questions in response instead of making comments or passing judgment. This will help foster a more productive discussion. Article Referenced: https://www.psychological-consulting.com

**Why do asexual people go to the sexology consultation?** There are several reasons why a person of the asexual spectrum can attend the consultation sexologist or sex therapist . Here are a few: In the case of people with a partner: asexual people and their partners often come for difficulties in sexual relations, fearing the breakup or trying to avoid certain disagreements. One of the people who make up the couple can feel sexual attraction and not feel reciprocated in this regard. In some cases it is confused with the lack of desire (we have already commented above that it is not the same, although, depending on how it is managed, it may be related). The above is also applicable to people who maintain some other type of relationship (such as polyamorous relationships), in these cases they are usually consulted to obtain guidance in relation to the management of sexuality with other people. In the case of people who do not have a partner or other type of relationship , there are times when they come for consultation because, to a certain extent, they identify as asexual, and they want to learn to know and manage themselves, since they notice that it does not attract them nobody and they feel different from the rest. Sometimes they also want to find a partner and consider how to deal with it with the partner, or wonder if it would be appropriate to “come out of the closet”. "Is my partner asexual?" Special mention should be made of the consultations that sexologists sometimes receive from people who classify their partner as "asexual" , when in reality what happens is that the couple shows a low erotic desire, sometimes due to problems in the relationship, or that their sexual relationships are not satisfactory, for example. Article Referenced: https://www.psychological-consulting.com/l/what-does-it-mean-to-be-asexual-video/