Have you ever been swallowed by a snake? I bet you have. This story, which has that title, is about the experience we have when we face trauma. It's about a man who intentionally is swallowed by a snake and how he gets out. His experience offers us a template for the crappy experience of being traumatized and also offers some hope of getting out.
The protagonist found that repeated cuts to the snake's belly eventually got him out of the trouble. What do you do to take a chunk from the snake's belly? ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFIvcUyO9b4
Paul, Tom, and Janice discuss the reasons for mass shootings that you won't hear from the mainstream media.
Democrats Blame Trump in Blunt Language for Mass Shooting in El Paso - time.com
time.com
https://time.com/5644361/el-paso-shooting-donald-trump-democrats/
Tom's piece on Relational Aggression
https://menaregood.com/wordpress/relational-aggression-is-it-a-trap-for-men/
Tom's Subscribestar
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
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The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kEQJnTRSDkk
You Can't Make This Shit Up!
1. https://townhall.com/tipsheet/timothymeads/2019/03/16/woman-calls-cops-over-excited-cleveland-browns-fan-celebrating-odell-beckham-jr-signing-n2543211
2. https://fox17.com/news/local/nashville-woman-calls-cops-after-husband-refuses-to-get-her-ice-cream
3. https://www.foxnews.com/us/woman-calls-police-on-husband-after-he-brings-home-wrong-type-of-chicken-cops-say
4. https://nypost.com/2017/06/12/woman-calls-911-about-waiting-for-nuggets-at-mcdonalds/
5. https://www.unilad.co.uk/life/man-chooses-to-live-like-dog-eats-from-bowl-and-barks-at-friends-in-street/?source=facebook
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_gRpdeIy69Y
Join us for a high stakes quiz show about Sexual Assault on campus. Respondents include President Obama and VP Biden. Watch as the White House misinformation is debunked and the truth about Sexual Assaults on campus comes into focus. We are living in an age where stats are grossly inflated in order to push ideologies and myths.
The 1 in 5 myth is just one of many myths that we now live under. Feminists have made a career out of creating myths with catchy phrases and numbers, tied themselves to the railroad tracks in front of the legislators and watched as congress and the media fought to white knight themselves and come to the rescue. All the while huge bureaucracies are erected that have enormous budgets. This has left us with a lop-sided culture that caters to women and girls but refuses to see the pain of men and boys. A great book was written on this titled "Feminist Crusades: Making Myths and Building Bureaucracies." Excellent book and only 3.99 on kindle http://www.amazon.com/Feminist-Crusades-Frank-S-Zepezauer-ebook/dp/B00646XHKY/
[shameless plug lol] Then again....you could have a look at my new ebook on the way men heal for only 4.99 http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Heal-Thomas-Golden-ebook/dp/B00B0OKZ3W
To see the original White House press conference go here: http://www.whitehouse.gov/photos-and-video/video/2014/01/22/president-and-vice-president-speak-preventing-sexual-assault
To see the RAINN web page go here: http://www.rainn.org/
To see the Clery web page go here: http://clerycenter.org/
I would encourage everyone to go to your local university's web site and in the search box type in "clery report" or something similar. It can take a little searching in the results and the report may be titled something like "Campus Fire and Safety Report." once you find the report scroll to near the end and you will find the tables of crimes for that university. Behold! LOW NUMBERS!
Please also feel free to visit my blog menaregood.com.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhAtUEqyUfY
Janice Paul and Tom have a look at the age old question of women being better leaders and have a look at a study claiming women leaders did better with preventing deaths from covid-19. And near the end Paul announces some of our plans for building a Red Pill Community.
Here are some of the links we talked about today:
Pauls History Link
https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men/
Study 1
https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3617953
Study 2
https://www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2020.06.06.20124487v2.full
Wired Magazine Article
https://www.wired.com/story/what-the-data-really-says-about-women-leaders-and-the-pandemic/
Search
https://www.startpage.com/do/dsearch?query=women+leaders+better+with+covid+decisions&cat=web&pl=opensearch
Tom's Subscribestar
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Tom's Patreon
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Tom's web site
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TLXh_1o7ViU
Equality: A Step Down for Women?
I was talking with Paul Elam after his interview with Elizabeth Vargas on 20/20. Paul mentioned that one of the things he had told Vargas was that equality would be a step down for women. He said it stopped her in her tracks. She was speechless as he explained his reasons. This video is a youtubue version of that conversation. Many thanks to Paul for his help in writing the script.
I remember as a boy that I really wanted to be a pro baseball player like Harmon Killebrew. I dreamed and wanted the accolades, the fans, the home runs and all the good stuff but was not the least bit interested nor even aware of the workouts, the grueling practices or any of the lifestyle that would be necessary even if I had the necessary talent. I think some of that is going on today. More importantly, in today's world we need to get jobs in baseball or in other workplaces based not on skin color, sex, religion or just about any other category other than the talent and skills that are needed to get the job done. Finding the most qualified candidate is a win for everyone especially when we do it based on character, skills, knowledge and talent and not on skin color or sex or religion.
See what you think of the video.
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1.4 to 1 ratio of men dying from disease http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr61/nvsr61_04.pdf Deaths in 2010 2,468,435 men 1,028,510 women died and 1,439,920 men difference is 411,000
circumcision http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/births.htm
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/mm6034a4.htm?s_cid=mm6034a4_w
21 million college students http://nces.ed.gov/fastfacts/display.asp?id=98
percent female http://www.forbes.com/sites/ccap/2012/02/16/the-male-female-ratio-in-college/
females are about 57% of all college students = about 12 million girls. and 9 million boys. about 3 million would need to go.
Murder 2010 males 10,978 females 3044 difference 7754 almost one murder an hour http://projects.wsj.com/murderdata/#view=all&y=2010
Garbage collectors NYC 200 out of 7000 http://www.wnyc.org/story/77923-city-honors-female-garbage-collectors/
sewage 5 of 426 http://www.nydailynews.com/news/agency-man-world-women-sewer-workers-sue-dep-unfair-treatment-article-1.418539
workplace fatalities 4383 93%=4073-male 310 women 10 per day 3763 needed to be equal with men every two hours http://www.bls.gov/iif/
Prisons - total 2.418 million women=113 thousand men = 2.305 million total needed to catch up 2.192 million
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Incarceration_in_the_United_States
Mental impairment - 4.6 million have intellectual disabilites need nearly one million girls to make things equal
http://mn.gov/mnddc/parallels2/pdf/80s/82/82-PMR-ARC.pdf
life expectancy - l
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=icV-V73ZjRI
Paul, Janice, and Tom discuss the unique and rarely acknowledged paths that men take in healing from loss and trauma. Rather than admire men for their differences, most people point at men and claim he is not dealing with his feelings. Find out why most people are totally wrong.
Men's Issues Video - same video, updated for the post Red Pill Movie era
https://youtu.be/buGasjsFS_4
Tom's Patreon - Come on and join us for as little as $1 a month! Check out the private videos from Tom's online international course on healing from loss and more
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Tom and Paul have put together a site that helps men with Red Pill Knowledge to deal with their relationships with women. Join for as little as $1 a month. Get nearly twenty talks from Paul and Tom on Shit Tests, Money Issues and lots more:
https://patreon.com/redpillrelationships
Maryland Reports - Three reports when I was vice chair of the Md Commission for Men's Health. Suicide, DV, and Health
https://menaregood.com/wordpress/maryland-reports/
Toms Books - This page offers longer descriptions of each book:
https://menaregood.com/wordpress/toms-books
Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing - Tom's original book on loss. Meant to be a map for men about the terrain of loss. - buy on amazon
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The Way Men Heal - buy on amazon
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys - buy on amazon
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Tom's web site
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sY7j8mOcEIk
Regarding Men
http://regardingmen.com
Newsletter
http://regardingmen.com/newsletter
Candace Owens talk
https://youtu.be/JtPfoEvNJ74
Tom's Patreon
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D1G-TN3XHHI
We live in a world that assumes men are guilty simply due to being accused by a woman. Just how did we get to this point? Look no farther than the Violence Against Women Feminists and their work to disrupt due process by campaigning that accusing women should always be believed.
https://patreon.com/menaregood
https://www.innocenceproject.org/about/
http://www.prosecutorintegrity.org/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Believe-the-Victim-FINAL.pdf
https://harvardlawreview.org/2015/02/trading-the-megaphone-for-the-gavel-in-title-ix-enforcement-2/
http://www.evawintl.org/library/DocumentLibraryHandler.ashx?id=43
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gccPLybbSrQ
Tom, Paul, and Janice discuss a new study that identifies the Tendency for Interpersonal Victimhood (TIV) as a well-defined personality disorder. It's a bombshell development in psychology that could revolutionize the field--and it's a must read for every man seeking to avoid relationship grief.
REASON Article
https://reason.com/2020/12/10/tendency-for-interpersonal-victimhood-trauma-research-study-trigger/?fbclid=IwAR0gMcXxq0_KO1fqSUeKxKFctM1Mbc8AAUQz-EyDNmxwBG9Q6hX-fb29MEY
STUDY
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886920303238
Tom's Subscribestar
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Tom's Patreon
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Tom's web site
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Toms Books info:
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Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing
http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm
The Way Men Heal
http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO
Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys
http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo
Huge Men Are Good Mug
http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr
Men Are Good Hat
http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt
...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0dc936c8U4