There are many habits that are very good for us, for example meditation. We can reasonably predict that if we practice meditation, over time we will gain more presence of mind, increased concentration, greater understanding of our emotions.
We know that by practicing exercise regularly, we will improve our health, feel strong and gain confidence.
We might even guess that by meditating on our own death, we will be able to leave the fear of death behind, something like exposure therapy.
If we know these things, the only question that remains is: Will we do it?
Now meditation is known throughout the world to have many benefits for our physical and mental health, for our concentration, reduced anxiety and clarity of thought.
Yet we stand to gain much more in terms of inner peace, easy acceptance of new situations, self-knowledge, and even deeper mystical experiences.
We fill our days with work, play and distraction, and often not feeling fulfilled by any of it. A habit of 30 or 60 minutes a day can give us rest from the world, and also show us the world anew - bright and glorious.
In Mos Def’s song Fear Not Of Man he tells us that people always ask him where hip hop is going. His response is that hip hop is about the people, so if we’re wondering where it’s going, we can simply ask ourselves: “Where am I going? How am I doing?”
In this monologue, everything that Yasiin Bey says about hip hop also applies to the world in general. If we are worried about where the world is going, we don’t need to do anything but look within, examine our goals, our emotions, our mental state, our momentum.
Bey also tells us that he isn’t worried about governments trying to present an inflated vision of their power. In the end they are mortals just like us. So perhaps there is nothing on Earth to fear.
Read the transcript and find important links on the site: [A Beautiful Thought - Fear Not of Man: Episode 289](https://beautifulpodcast.com/fear-not-of-man-episode-289/)
Especially in confusing times, we can be fooled into thinking that we might be defeated. In reality, there is no defeat - only the illusion of defeat.
In difficult times we may even find strength that we never knew we had, reaching deep into our soul to find a source of hope and guidance to aid ourselves and others. One of the finest ways to be strong is simply to be happy.
In the past month I've been doing a lot of Facebook Live videos with the intention of calming the fear that's present all over the world. I hope you tune in, and I hope they bring you greater peace and perspective in your life.
Original title image by Devanath: https://pixabay.com/photos/horse-soldier-warrior-war-battle-4596827/
Many people suffer because of the unbroken cycles of their parents, learning patterns of behavior that may be repeated throughout their lives. When a girl grows up receiving abuse from the hand of her father, and seeing her mother support it or passively accept it, that girl might learn that this is normal.
Later in life, that same woman seeks out partners who are emotionally manipulative, because that is the vision of love that has been impressed on them.
Fortunately, many people manage to break the cycle of abuse, to step out of the previous pattern, even though it might be scary to venture into the unknown.
In this episode, Natasha Charlton tells Kurt a story about childhood trauma, about repeating patterns, and finding freedom from those patterns, freedom to be oneself.
Marsha Linehan, creator of dialectical behavioral therapy, assembled many different mental exercises to help guide people to greater emotional clarity. These are techniques that people can use even if they can’t stand meditation.
One exercise involves simply looking at an object, for example an egg. We observe the egg for five minutes, noticing the light and shade, the textures, wondering about its internal form, how a yolk might grow into a chick or any other aspect of the object we can imagine.
When we use this technique, we might find it interesting how objective or dispassionate we can be. Or to put it another way, we can be very curious about the egg, exploring its form, without judging it at all.
Perhaps we can see ourselves with that same light, the light of curiosity.
Psychologist R.D. Laing used to tell a story of a prisoner who was sitting in his cell. One day the guards come and open the gate and say “Your time is up. You’re free to go.”
Unusually, the prisoner says “No, I’m not going anywhere. I’m not leaving this place until I understand the exact circumstances which lead to my being here.”
It might sound strange, but many of us take a similar course of action when we find ourselves in depression, anxiety, or other unfavourable mental states.
We might not know how we got there… But we have the power to walk out.
Before beginning a journey, we might pray that we stay safe throughout, and that the purpose of the trip is fulfilled. Then we can go one step beyond, and pray that we will learn a great spiritual lesson in the process.
In that initial prayer, we might feel that we have been heard, that there is nothing to worry about, that we will be successful. We are as sure as we could be.
Later, when we confront all of the challenges of the journey, perhaps faith escapes our hearts. We doubt our intuition, and think that maybe we were mistaken. Maybe our prayers were never heard, and maybe we were deluded.
Finally, in one form or another our venture is a success, and we wonder why we ever doubted. How much suffering we can save when we surrender to faith.
At certain times we might feel different and we’re not sure why. Perhaps we are more anxious, paranoid or excitable than usual, and our mind might start racing to find reasons to justify why we might be feeling that way.
There can be important personal lessons from these feelings. They also might be less personal than we realize.
Often the cause of these feelings is heliophysics or “space weather”. Solar flares affect the magnetism of the earth, and in turn that can affect our central nervous systems. For example, some studies show that there are correlations between high solar activity and human breathing, melatonin levels, and hospital admissions.
We don’t need to blame ourselves for feeling strange. All we need to do is note those changes and adjust our actions accordingly.
Read the transcript and find important links on the site: [A Beautiful Thought - Crazy Energy: Episode 407](https://beautifulpodcast.com/crazy-energy-episode-407/)
Socrates famously said “The only thing I know is that I know nothing.” Socrates noted that others labored under the illusion of knowledge, but they weren’t aware that it was an illusion. His awareness of his own illusion was what made him, reputedly, the wisest man in the world.
Many times during our lives we might get the feeling that we don’t know what is happening in our lives, that we’re not really who we try to be, that we’re just pretending we know how to be an adult.
We might be very uncomfortable with that idea. However, it surely beats the alternative of being certain in foolishness.
[Read the transcript and find important links on the site: A Beautiful Thought – You Don't Know Jack:Episode 442](https://beautifulpodcast.com/you-dont-know-jack-episode-442/)