Petulant BPD Rage Uses You - The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline
Petulant BPD Rage Uses You - The Why Insight of a Recovered Borderline
Petulant Borderlines use you when they rage at you. A borderline rage does make them feel better at your expense. They are often not aware of what is happening for your or how you are affected by them. Self-awareness deficits in untreated BPD mean that Borderlines are too engulfed and absorbed with their own dysregulated feelings to even be aware of how they are using you - this does not excuse what they are actually doing to you. How you are not seen or heard by them. Often after a Petulant BPD rage the person with BPD feels much better while you are left reeling. They are ready to carry on, and you are shell-shocked. They don't have a frame of reference from their rage to hear how hurt and/or devastated you are. BPD Rage episodes are not ever resolved in relationships.
BPD Can You Convince A Borderline To Get Help? | A.J. Mahari Vid Shorts
BPD Can you convince a Borderline to get help? Do you have that responsibility? Do you have that "control"?
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Borderline Personality Relationships Breakups - Ghosted by Quiet Borderline | No Signs
In all relationship types people are being ghosted by quiet borderlines often with no signs anything is wrong. These abrupt relationship endings come so unexpectedly.
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BPD Approach Avoidance Core Issues Rupture Relationships Long Distance Or Not
BPD approach avoidance core issues rupture relationships long distance ones or not. People with BPD (especially untreated) cannot manage the fundamental aspects of what is required for healthier relating.
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Non borderlines, loved ones of those with BPD in all various forms of relationships to someone in their lives with Borderline Personality Disorder need their own recovery. This recovery is needed whether you stay in a relationship or in contact with the person with BPD in your life or not. Life Coach/BPD Mental Health Coach, and Author, A.J. Mahari, has effective coaching strategy that helps non borderlines in their own coping and recovery.
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There are a few major types of narcissists which then can have their own sub-types within them. Some people with Narcissistic Traits or who have been diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, will totally fit one type of narcissism. Many aren't just Overt, Covert, Parasitic (vulnerable needy) Somatic, Cerebral, The Overt & Covert sub-type or the Boomerang sub-type. Some Narcissists really mix and match their presentations of traits and are not always the exact same. While others fit a type and/or sub-type fairly firmly and their patterns of behaviour as a result are very predictable once you are familiar with them.
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People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) never apologize. Why is that? How many times have you been down tumbling painfully down the rabbit hole of trying to be seen and heard when you have had your feelings hurt or your boundaries totally disregarded?
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How many times have you tried to get some resolution only to end up angrier, more hurt, and/or more reactive or desperate to be heard? Why won't they apologize in any meaningful true way?
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Malignant Borderline has no meaning. It is not a relevant or accurate descriptor nor any clinical terminology whatsoever and doesn’t add anything to accurate understanding BPD.
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BPD Partner or Ex of someone with Borderline Personality - Codependency and failed love and empathy.
People with codependency have their own relational patterns that aren't healthy for them. Do codependents love? Empathy as a defense? Codependents in relating to a person with Borderline Personality. Why does hurt so much?
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Can you give a person with Borderline Personality some of what they need? No, you can't and here's why. No good deed goes unpunished.
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