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Dealing with OBSTACLES and SETBACKS
Dealing with OBSTACLES and SETBACKS
Anything happening against our will and our liking will trigger an EMOTIONAL RESPONSE: frustration, anger, guilt, shame, resentment, etc.
The trick is to SHORTEN the time we remain stuck in this emotional response to avoid feeling this way longer than necessary as it may become part of our personality.
There are two main CHOICES we have when faced with an obstacle:
?QUIT and REPEAT
When we quit, walk away and avoid responsibility, we risk repeating the same patterns of behaviour and making the same mistakes.
?LEARN and GROW
When we face the problem by taking responsibility over our behaviour, by reflecting and trying to understand and learn from the situation, then we will grow as a person and in the future we will have better chances to make better choices
We can use PERSPECTIVE, SPACE and MEANING to better learn our lessons.
PERSPECTIVE:
- my point of view (subjective)
- how the other person would see it
- IN 3RD PERSON (seeing the situation as a reporter describing what happened) - this would give you a healthy distance to see a full picture
SPACE
It is possible to create space by BREATHING, MEDITATION, JOURNALING and generally LOOKING AFTER YOURSELF
MEANING
We give meaning to everything in our lives. When faced with an obstacle, what meaning do we give? Is it USEFUL? Yes/no? What BETTER MEANING we can create?
I hope you'd enjoy the video and take from it something for yourself?
#mentalhealth #PersonalGrowth #mindfulness #wellbeing #selfcare
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