http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | How inspired are you right now in your dating life? What are you concerned with? What do you think about? Where could you improve?
We often get so wrapped up with the little things that it sucks all the life and enthusiasm out of our dating lives:
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | Here's a great question I recently received:
"Shogo you seem like a confident happy guy. But do you have moments where you doubt and second-guess yourself? I tend to do this quite abit, I'm trying to fix it."
How can we--if we can at all--fix our self-doubt and second-guessing to become more confident?
Is it even necessary to fix our doubt and second-guessing to reach true confidence and happiness?
Here are my thoughts on the self-doubt and second-guessing that we all experience, and how we can better understand those negative voices in our heads.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PZkgSG4WwyM
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | What makes an attractive guy? What do women think is attractive in a man? The answer may be different than you think.
To understand what women mean when they say a man is "attractive", stop thinking like a man and starting listening to what women are actually saying...
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbhoGay_5M8
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | The way I see it, we're really just a system of glorified tubes. We have input, and we have output: we take information in, and let information out.
We are never the source of our own inspiration. We are the vessel through which the information passes. That's why, in order to develop yourself as a more interesting person and show up in conversation in an interesting and inspired way, what matters most is HOW WE PROCESS the information that passes through us.
How do you process your input?
How engaged are you with the world around you?
Where do you find interest in things?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wlvbRnuj48
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | I speak a lot about the importance of enjoying and appreciating our own lives more fully. The reason is because I strongly believe that whenever we are seeking to attract and connect with other people, or to communicate powerfully to the outside world, or to improve our personalities--whatever the goal may be--it is imminently important to consider how we feel about the source that is doing the "wanting":
"Who is the person wanting to connect better with others?"
"Who is the person wanting to be more confident with others?"
If we don't know ourselves well enough to know if we actually ENJOY and APPRECIATE our own lives, how can we have any confidence that others will enjoy and appreciate our company?
It's often said that, "We must love ourselves before we can love another," or some variation thereof.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IggGMyInBrk
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | Are you sexually frustrated? Do you have problems controlling your sexual desires and sexual urges?
Often we view our sexual energy and our sexual desires as something that must be controlled and overcome if we want to connect with another person. After all, what will they think of us if we let out our TRUE desires and sexual thoughts?
Check out this short video for some insight on sexual energy and sexual desire that may give you a new perspective on what your sexual thoughts are all about...
*Cameo appearance by http://www.youtube.com/GoldJacketLuke
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fdSl50CNAXY
I was hanging out with my friends Steve Pavlina (http://www.youtube.com/stevepavlinadotcom) and Amadeus Hellequin (https://www.facebook.com/announceyourtruth), and we discovered...
I have a real problem!
It's called perfectionism.
I always try to make everything perfect. I try to make every video that I put on YouTube absolutely perfect.
The problem is that perfectionism does not exist.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1W2egyhYYlY
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | Do you know someone on Facebook who you want to ask out? Did you want to ask out that girl you met at the party but you didn't get her phone number? How should you contact her? What message should you send her?
No need to agonize over the right thing to write. Here's how to ask a girl out on Facebook even if you don't have her phone number.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ar5g9eYD48E
If you like this video, check out the article: http://www.thesocialgeneration.com/avoid-awkward-silences/
Do you often get stuck in a conversation, stressing about what to say next?
Do moments of silence creep into your conversations, creating awkward situations where you don't know what to say?
Moments of silence will always happen in conversation. It's what you do with the silence that matters.
Whenever you are stuck in a conversation you are having, remember one important thing: Sometimes the best parts of a conversation are the moments in between the talking, when nothing at all is said.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPOYA_zdRkc
What is this channel about?
This video introduces what we are doing here and what I offer to those who enjoy my videos...
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