Contrary to what most self-help gurus will tell you, I do not believe that you increase your confidence by trying to boost your self-esteem and ego, but by removing your ego as much as possible from every scenario, and instead approaching life with the mentality of submission and servitude to Allah. Confidence or the lack thereof are irrelevant to the performance of duty, and seeing yourself as an instrument of your Rabb, can help you overcome any personal insecurities you may feel ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tGVcUW27Yh8
Ask any non-Muslim in the West, and you will discover how apparently difficult it is to find a girlfriend or boyfriend; how hard it is to find intimacy. Nobody "falls into zina"; it is something kuffar work for, strive for, even take courses on how to make it happen. Yet, we have Muslim men saying that sisters are putting them in danger of "falling into zina" if they won't lower their mahrs and expectations of a husband. It is pure gaslighting, and tremendously unmanly.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kilZn5FZCPI
This is a very niche topic related to a mega-project in Penang, Malaysia...I criticized the project several days ago, and the political supporters of it responded with their own video. Here I just evaluate their response from a PR perspective.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FiemsOzGZNo
Family is the primary positive motivator for men. Single-motherhood, se outside of marriage, and frivolous divorce, separate men from that motivator, and society -- and women -- suffer the subsequent decline of society
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b3cvieFNiLk