Borderlines Don’t Relate To Who You Are - Experience You as “Object Other”
Borderlines Don’t Relate To Who You Are - Experience You as “Object Other” - See related video for more and if you want to find yourself again and break the Betrayal Bond you can purchase & book a session or sessions with me - ajmahari.ca/sessions ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh9atncQmpM
Borderline Social Media Lies Manipulation and Punishment
Borderline social media lies & manipulations are designed to hurt, punish, and seek revenge on you. Your BPD Ex wants you to pay attention. Are you giving away your power when already hurting beyond description?
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Borderline Social Media Lies Manipulation and Punishment
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LePDFxa6bc4
Borderline Personality and Secondary Psychopathy, not proven, but as conflicting studies indicate, it is not a reality for all with BPD but may well be for the most severe cases of BPD. Secondary Psychopathy in BPD does not mean a percentage of those with severe BPD are Psychopaths. It is also not (as A.P.A.) claims only in women with Severe BPD but Men with Severe BPD also. In my 31 years of working with clients approximately 10% to 15% have experienced a person (Ex) in their life with Severe BPD and who likely had secondary psychopathy. What is it and what does it mean in those with BPD who have it. Secondary Psychopathy is not a Borderline splitting and becoming a "Psychopath" at all.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q57uIGCjieo
BPD Discards Will Your Ex Come Back Cause She Misses You or Gets It Now?
BPD discards will your BPD Ex come back because she or he missies you and gets it now? Not all people with BPD who discard hoover or come back at all. Why do you want your BPD Ex back when you are in so much pain and confusion?
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BPD Not NPD & Both Not Narratives Codependent Radical Acceptance
BPD is not NPD they are two separate "personality disorders" with overlaps but BPD is not a form of NPD. BPD and NPD are not narratives. The causation (known vs pseudoscience) is arrested emotional development in childhood - BPD by age 2 - NPD by age 3-5. Codependents will benefit from mindful radical acceptance practice and skills building as well as emotional skill building.
BPD Not NPD & Both Not Narratives Codependent Radical Acceptance
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c503XKzpGa4
Surviving BPD Relationships: 3 Times Ex of Same Woman with BPD | Part 1 of 3 With A.J. Mahari
PLEASE NOTE: The pictures on the thumbnails for this interview and the other two parts plus the 4th interview are not pictures of Nathan)
This is part one of more to come with Nathan, a man who has had two previous wives in his past with Borderline Personality Disorder. He relates, himself, as being a codependent. The most recent break-up was with his partner of 20 years. He is a single father raising 3 children. Like so many men Nathan still loves his wife after all that has happened including being left 10 times in the past 20 years. Watch the channel for part 2 coming soon.
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Borderline Personality Relationships - "BPD Love" is Not Love At All
So many people who are or have been the partner of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder continue to believe, despite, punishment, rage, the silent treatment that they are loved. No matter the type of relationship, adult child of BPD, friend etc. people with BPD do not know how to truly love until and unless they get significant therapy and engage in the necessary learning and emotional growth required for them to emotionally mature enough to be able to love. For those with BPD what you believe is love from the person with BPD in your life is NEED, their NEED to live through you to feel that they exist.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rH4CdLtjkk
BPD or BPD Relationship Breakups - Healing From Codependency - Be Authentic and Know Yourself
I may well be an oddity on Youtube. I am 63 years old and I am fat. A response video to mention that I "should try to lose weight" by a commenter on my video "Borderline Personality Splitting Is Not Conscious" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTqlb_LfcnQ
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When you radically accept yourself and are an empowered person, as I do and am, then nothing can stop you from learning and choosing to be authentic and know yourself. It is unlimited freedom!
I share my journey of not only the empowerment in my life to be authentic and that I know myself and also about how radical acceptance and the empowerment of healing to know that what other people think about me is none of my business. This is what awaits your healing and recovery also! Be Authentic and Know Yourself is what healing and recovery journeys are all about. The freedom of incredible self-acceptance and not caring what others thin is the empowerment that you so deserve.
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People who have (especially untreated) Borderline Personality Disorder do this thing I call the responsibility vomit. It's all about how they accuse you of "making them feel" "making them do" "making them say" ... This is not reality at all. It is a cognitively distorted and often subconscious child-like lostness that many with BPD have. No one makes anyone feel, say, or do, or even behave any particular way.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kkt4kDWVEOg
Quiet BPD Silent Treatment Only To Manipulate You? Actually, no. People with the subtype “Discouraged BPD” aka the Quiet Borderline, turn everything (mainly) in on themselves. They torture themselves. They feel “less than” and unworthy - so sham d based - and they are engaging in the Quiet Borderline repetition compulsion of hiding, isolating and shrinking away. It feels punishing and manipulative but one could advocate it is firstly an automatic response withdrawal for survival from their wounded childhood adverse experiences.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nBqmh4o26U