Question of the Week - Courtesy of The Brotherhood of Men
Comes from a Youtube Comment but user D in response to the last episode Don't Settle
"Don't settle for what? Lmfao. Some people don't have any choice in their circumstances you ignorant f***. By the way, no matter what action you take during your life, it ends EXACTLY the same way -…"
D Youtube User
Now sadly either he deleted the comment shortly after posting it or Youtube removed it. Either way, there is something wonderful about this comment.
I love my haters they are hurting so much that they ask for help without realizing that they are doing so. This is a great example of how people react through projection. D here shows you how he sees the world as a hopeless endeavor and you are apparently screwed no matter what you do.
Main Topic
Finding who you are
Find your core values
Why are core values important?
Your values help you to not only make decisions but also help make sure you conduct your life in a means you find worthy.
How do you find your core values?
Self-reflection Use a list Use your Brotherhood friends & family
Facebook group Raising Confident Men
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4YgHJ8tBMZI
August 4-7 Tears of the 22 Retreat
Thanks Those who gave Sats.
Main Topic Uvalde 400 officers standing around waiting for someone to give orders
Sniper couldn’t get clearance
Possible result of defunding the Police
Police don't want to be put in jail
Don't want the responsibility laid on their heads
Reminds me of Atlas Shrugged
Men need to take responsibility and action when needed
Can't have men afraid of the consequences of their noble actions.
Yes there are actions that are not noble but taking a chance is needed in life
When life and death are at stake you do it.
If you want help with removing the Nice guy from your life Reach out and schedule a consult
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fRK4f6W02yc
Something I hear over and over again is the man needs validation from his wife or the wife needs validation from her husband or friends or family or something to that effect. In this week's podcast episode, I am here to help you see that you are not a parking lot voucher and so you don't need to be validated.
We also talk about the fact that I am out of the office and back in a truck and why that was a good thing.
What is validation?
Why do we seek it?
How do we validate ourselves?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fOPl_aXAykc
Ever find yourself in a foul mood and not really sure how you got there? Ever wondered how you could inject some extra happiness and joy into your day and mental state?
You can actually do just that. It is possible but it isn't automatic and that means you will have to think about changing your attitude. If you do decide to change your attitude and be happy and joyous more often, the key is gratitude.
Yep be grateful. State your gratitude for as much as you possibly can. You will be surprised as to how much your mindset shifts and your overall being improve just with the little act of being thankful for what you have in your life.
Did you have a crappy meal experience in your favorite Mexican food restaurant? Well, Maybe you can be glad you have a Mexican food place to go to. Little changes like that will help you become a happier and more positive person.
#Mindset #GratitudeAttitude #EmotionalHealth
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZW_9KUrG0O8
Main Topic The magic question What if you could be successful? what if You could take that dream vacation? What if you did have that house on the hill? What if that girl did agree to go on a date? What if your wife did decide to stay What if you showed your wife the needed attention she wanted? Limiting What if Questions what if you got fired? What if your wife did leave? What if you failed in your task What if it doesn't work? Yeah it is visualization which has been discussed on a few episodes
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtVA_M0eqxM