BPD Relationship Recycling - Codependents Normalizing “Crazy? It’s escapism from what people with Codependency need to learn, understand & heal in each of your lives. ajmahari.ca/sessions ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vmijKFP7F_8
Borderline Inward Focus Leaves You Out - 5 Reasons Why
The inward focus of people with Borderline Personality Disorder is at the heart of why you really cannot be connected to them and they don't ever truly connect fully or consistently to or with you. The inward focus of people with BPD has 5 central core reasons that all end up blocking you out and making mutuality and/or reciprocity impossible which makes your relationship unhealthy and next to impossible, if not impossible. to have work, last, or function in any remotely healthy way at all. The inward focus of people with BPD is selfish but its genesis has all to do with their emotional dysregulation and lack of self - unstable identity and maladaptive defensive coping mechanisms.
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https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/borderlines-inner-focus-leaves-you-out-5
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d065mXWSaaM
BPD Have a Child w/BPD Woman What To Do? No Contact Is Not An Option - Systemic Gynocentrism
Many men with an BPD Ex who is the mother of their child or children know that no contact is not an option. Systemic Gynocentrism means that so many men are alienated from a child or children. Courts are not catching up with Cluster B disorders and still give custody all-too-often to the woman or decide on a 50/50 custody split. This is a nightmare for men who love and care very much about their child or children.
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BPD Have a Child w/BPD Woman What To Do? No Contact Is Not An Option - Systemic Gynocentrism
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ylk26BVeOBg
BPD Breakup Go No Contact Hoovers & FOG
Ebook: “The Shadows & Echos of Self - False Self in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/J302/
Ebook: “Punishment & Revenge in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/EafI/
Ebook: “The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/vV61/
Ebook: “BPD & Rage”
https://ajmahari.com/p/1ykL/
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http://ajmahari.co Your Recovery after a BPD NPD ASPD and from CPTSD - Codependency Recovery - Family of Origin Healing - self differentiation & inner child healing
Whether you are loved one, Ex, or family member of someone with BPD that in one way or another you have had to break-up with or may have contact - wanted or unwanted with - being hoovered - feeling like you caused this and feeling lost in all the confusion. Ex's or not sure if you are Ex's or is it on/off - no contact then hoovers? Family members also have a lot to work out when a relative of any relation type has BPD.
BPD Breakup Go No Contact Hoovers & FOG
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lGpd_TY8HtU
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Author, Life Coach, Toxic Relationship Coach, BPD/NPD & Loved Ones & Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari talks about what is at the heart of the dynamics in toxic relationships. Many might believe that toxic relationships only apply to people with mental health diagnoses or those who are close to them, but this is not entirely always the case. There are many underlying reasons why people end up in toxic relationships and feel compelled to continue to play out what A.J. identifies as the central dynamic or core dynamic in toxic relationships as being. It is a most unconfortable, yet paradoxically, comfortable relational inter-change and it is also an indication of an addiction to emotional chaos and drama whether one is emotionally dysregulated easily or not. Mahari also points out that among all the things that toxic relationships include, love, isn't present in toxic relationships - not healthy love. toxicrelationshipcoach.com
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rIwxwy0OE6g
After Dating or a Borderline Personality Relationship Breakup - face your feelings and shift your focus and energy in moving forward as an Ex of BPD.
Choose to help yourself feel your feelings and choose yourself over continuing to pursue someone or a relationship with pw/BPD that continues to hurt you. Choose yourself and your own recovery. Choose to pursue calm and peace and not continued drama.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzGE670EfRU
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Codependence is at the core of toxic relating and toxic relationships. It is often mistaken for healthy love - it doesn't allow for healthy love. Life Coach and author, A.J. Mahari, talks about what she refers to as the codependent mindset. Enmeshment is a polarized dynamic that lacks the necessary balance and healthy paradox required for healthy love. People lose themselves in these toxic relationships.
http://soulselfhelp.on.ca/coda.html
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zycdaMNQrcw
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People who have been abused and very hurt or traumatized by someone with (untreated) Borderline Personality Disorder, Co-morbid BPD and NPD or Narcissistic Personality Disorder often feel lost, angry, and confused.
What is going to help you now, to pick up the pieces and to understand what has happened to you? What can keep you stuck down this painful rabbit hole? What is the key focus that you need to have?
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http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca
http://npdfamily.ca
http://clusterbabuserecovery.com
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWl2Hzd8D-k
BPD Breakups Codependent Devastation Plus Lockdown Social Isolation Need Therapy
BPD Breakups cause Codependent Devastation now plus Lockdown and Social Isolation Codependents need therapy now more than ever even if your breakup was months to
a year or years ago and you have not been able so far to heal.
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BPD Breakups Codependent Devastation Plus Lockdown Social Isolation Need Therapy
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=weZ13Gek6HE
Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups - Challenge Your Codependent Delusions
More Codependent's than not continue to block their own recovery through false beliefs that conflict with the reality of Relationships with Borderlines or Narcissists. Continued avoidance of self through the codependent false self adds to suffering.
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#SurvivingBPDBreakups #CodependentDelusions #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_jXD8biBTw