Borderline Personality Hypocrisy in BPD Love? There is no hypocrisy in Borderline Personality "Love" in those untreated with BPD because there is no "Love". What is inherent in the narrative asserting BPD "Love" and Hypocrisy? Not all people with BPD are women, and men and women with BPD are not all the same. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.co - Video Series & More information #BPDLove #HyopcrisyinBPDLove #ajmahari ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awQhsGNLTQY

Borderline Splitting Cycles and Codependent Denial Borderline splitting cycles mixed with Codependent denial fuel the betrayal bonded dynamics of cognitive dissonance, falsely believing and defending that a BPD partner or BPD Ex "loves" you. Denial of one's own Codependency is often a conscious and unconscious driver of people continuing to pursue the fantasy of BPD Relationship "love". Untreated people with Borderline Personality Disorder can't and don't love you. Can you relate to believing a person with BPD "loves" you and continue to be fooled by (and fool yourself) that Borderline inconsistency, incongruence, and lack of words and actions having any unity with each other still somehow means, against all odds, that the person you love with BPD, are dating, or in a relationship with who has BPD really "loves" you? This is how people with Codependency continue to lose more and more of "self" to the splitting cycles of people with BPD who have no "self" from which to love you. They are seeking identity through you. The person with BPD, in a way, is taking you from you to try to meet their own needs in "object other" unhealthy "relating" that just isn't healthy love at all. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions #BPDSplitting #CodependentDenial #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/borderline-splitting-cycles-mixed-with-codependent-denial--58652455 ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EiDUTgSxv3Q

BPD Relationship Cycle - 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat Impossibility BPD Relationship Cycle 7 Stages Of Rinse and Repeat - The "Archetypal" stages and phases that continually repeat and re-occur in repetition compulsions in unconscious ways for and with people with untreated BPD and those who try to love them - often people with Codependency. A.J. Mahari explains the BPD Relationship Cycle that is rinse and repeat until the partner or Ex partner gets into treatment to break the trauma bond and heal from the relationship and why NO CONTACT is essential to ending this incredibly painful toxic relationship cycle. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://bpdbreakups.com Blog & Podcast https://ajmahari.com Online Store - more info products coming soon #BPDRelationshipCycle7Stages #ajmahari Source: https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-relationship-cycle-7-stages-of-rinse ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddS9AuW3kbQ

Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or Narcissist Definition and 5 Signs of a Trauma Bond with a Borderline or a Narcissist that every Codependent partner, on/off relationship recycling, or Ex of a person with BPD or NPD needs to know. People in relationships with a person with BPD or NPD are in trauma bonded relationships that are not healthy. People in these relationships do have Codependency, to one degree or another. Even those who experience Counterdependency can often also be codependent as it's a spectrum. What you need to know about trauma bonds, trauma bonding, and the 5 tell-tale signs you are in a trauma bonded relationship with a Borderline or a Narcissist. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xVwDDilIXDc