The four Tendencies, How to better understand people Gretchen Rubin discusses The Four Tendencies. How to understand people better by how they think, act and understand the world. The Questioner, The rebel, The Upholder and the Obliger. Which one are you? Learn how to read people, understand their decisions and actions by learning about their personality type. We cannot make ourselves happy by focusing on our external environment, but it can help to minimize the work we have to do to be happy. Our personalities are made up of the tendencies and habits we have formed over the years, so the more aware you are of your tendencies and habits, the easier it can be for you to make the decisions which will lead to you being less miserable and more happy. Happiness is a choice, but certain things in your life can make the difference between that choice feeling easy, and that choice feeling impossible, and the more you understand yourself, your environment, and the people you spend time with, the easier that choice can be. Do you want to turn small talk into smart talk?  Get Accelerated  ? https://bit.ly/aoc-xfa-yt Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://bit.ly/taocsubscribe Subscribe to The Art of Charm Podcast in iTunes: http://bit.ly/166Lw3U Official Website: https://theartofcharm.com/ Join The Art of Charm Challenge: http://www.theartofcharm.com/challenge/ Follow us on: -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheArtofCharm/ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/theartofcharm -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/TheArtofCharm Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24 Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8 How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8 Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I 5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k In this episode of The Art of Charm, we talk about the Four Tendencies: Upholder, Questioner, Obliger and Rebel. We explore how to work with your tendencies to improve self-confidence and charisma. The Four Tendencies is a framework for understanding how different people respond to expectations. It’s based on the groundbreaking work of social psychologist Dr. Elaine Aron, author of The Highly Sensitive Person and other books. In this episode, we explore the third tendency: Upholder. In this episode of the Art of Charm Podcast, we discuss Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies. We break down each tendency and offer tips on how to best interact with people who have different tendencies than your own. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hk5h_n6Pmn4

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