You meet a great girl. You have a great conversation. But yet, you leave without asking for her number or a date. What's going on? Why can't you get the phone number? Watch this video to understand a little more about what's going on inside your head and improve your results in your next interaction with the woman you're attracted to.
http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | Have you ever picked up girls? Do you know how to reverse number close a woman? Can you DHV within the three second rule? Is your state congruent enough to escalate sexual attraction? How micro-calibrated is your reticular activation system?
Whether those terms actually mean something to you, or it just sounds like complete jibberish, the problem many guys encounter in learning how meet, connect with, or just "pick up" women is that they NEVER CONFRONT THEMSELVES and face their own issues.
Too many times, we seek the easy answer. The answer that lets us run away from ourselves--the same selves that we secretly don't like to look at in the mirror--instead of facing ourselves openly and honestly, and dealing with our issues head-on.
It's often easier to follow the path that gives us a "goal" or "somewhere to be" or the "next level" to break through... any path except for the one that makes us confront and embrace where we are right now.
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com advises men who are single, dating, and in relationships toward a better path of becoming more attractive to the women in their lives.
Do you know when a woman is attracted to you? What are the signs? What body language tells you if that cute girl you've been talking to is attracted to you?
Check out this video for insight on how to understand the mindset of men who are naturally attractive to women.
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | I speak a lot about the importance of enjoying and appreciating our own lives more fully. The reason is because I strongly believe that whenever we are seeking to attract and connect with other people, or to communicate powerfully to the outside world, or to improve our personalities--whatever the goal may be--it is imminently important to consider how we feel about the source that is doing the "wanting":
"Who is the person wanting to connect better with others?"
"Who is the person wanting to be more confident with others?"
If we don't know ourselves well enough to know if we actually ENJOY and APPRECIATE our own lives, how can we have any confidence that others will enjoy and appreciate our company?
It's often said that, "We must love ourselves before we can love another," or some variation thereof.
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | The truth is that I'm not *naturally* a great speaker--I have a tendency to speak too fast, to mumble my words, and sometimes even stutter! But over time and with practice, I've learned to become much better at public speaking and at speaking in regular conversations.
A viewer recently asked me how I learned to speak so clearly and confidently in my videos. Here I offer one of my personal tips on how you can start developing a clear, confident manner of speaking, and stop mumbling and stuttering. Let me know in the comments if you were able to put the advice in this video into practice, and if so, please share your results with us!
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | What do women desire? What is it that women really want from men? How can you become a man that women want?
These are the age-old questions that men have been asking themselves since, I suppose, the first men walked the earth. Of course there is no definitive answer to any of these questions... If an answer existed, we would certainly know it and the question "What do women want?" would be resolved by now.
In my mind the only answer lies in a reevaluation of the very question we ask ourselves. Why do we ask the question? Where inside of us does it come from? That is the first step in discovering the only answer that matters when we ask, "What do women REALLY want?"
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | Knowing when and how effortless action takes place is both a skill and an art: It can be learned and practiced, and there is significance and meaning in the execution itself.
Effortless action is known in Taoism as "wu-wei", but it is a human discipline that spans various cultures around the world. The "round peg and square hole" example that I give here is adapted from a great little book called "The Tao of Pooh":
"When you work with Wu Wei, you put the round peg in the round hole and the square peg in the square hole. No stress, no struggle. Egotistical Desire tries to force the round peg into the square hole and the square peg into the round hole. Cleverness tries to devise craftier ways of making pegs fit where they don't belong. Knowledge tries to figure out why round pegs fit into round holes, but not square holes. Wu Wei doesn't try. It doesn't think about it. It just does it. And when it does, it doesn't appear to do much of anything. But Things Get Done."
From "The Tao of Pooh" (more recommended reading at: http://www.thesocialgeneration.com/recommended-reading)
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | In Part 2, we further explore small talk and how to truly see the PERSON behind the WORDS when we're in conversation.
Make sure you watch PART 1 to get the full lesson on mastering small talk!
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | What does the word "beauty" mean to you? How do you perceive beauty? How do you value a physically attractive person? What do you appreciate when you see a beautiful woman?
"Beauty" is not easy to define in words, nor is it easy to perceive the depths of beauty that we see in another person. Here are my thoughts on beauty and how to strengthen our understanding and appreciation of beauty.
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http://www.thesocialgeneration.com | How inspired are you right now in your dating life? What are you concerned with? What do you think about? Where could you improve?
We often get so wrapped up with the little things that it sucks all the life and enthusiasm out of our dating lives:
"How do I show her I'm polite?"
"Should we split the check?"
"I need a haircut."
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