People have been realizing for many years that mainstream media and states are not wholly reliable. Things that we’ve learnt in public schools turn out to be false, or at least one-sided when we scratch the surface with our own research.
People turn to independent media, or decide to put some facts together for themselves, trying to take educated guesses on which facts might line up with other facts.
If you’ve been schooled for many years, you might believe that it’s somehow risky to explore diverse ideas, and it can be. Some get lost, coming up with theories and seeing links where there just aren’t any. But many emerge from this process and learn to be truly independently-minded.
In this episode, James tells us the story of how he noticed a smart, successful friend using cannabis, and as he looked into the subject, he found that much of what he had been told was a lie. That led him to a humbling realization - that perhaps most of the data he had was incorrect.
James also tells the story of researching the law, coming to the conclusion that perhaps police and statutes were not what he thought they were - in some sense they are a scam. Then his own experience even confirmed the bizarre concept that the police need your consent to enforce a statute.
Sometimes we can be tempted to start the day by picking up our phone and scrolling mindlessly through social media. That’s likely not going to set us on a path for hitting goals for the rest of the day.
Starting the day with a good habit can point us in a very good direction. We might start by drinking a glass of water, doing 10 pushups, writing our nocturnal dreams, reviewing our mission statement, or writing a few goals for the day.
Then when we finish the day, we can prepare to start the next day well by writing that first habit in our night journal. “Upon waking, I drink a liter of water.” The simple act of writing down that goal will make us so much more likely to complete it when morning comes.
Many people have a certain impulse of restraint - “Do not take action until you are sure,” or even “Do not take action until things are perfect.” Of course, wait as we will, the perfect moment never comes.
There is no perfect moment for a first kiss, nor a perfect moment for a break-up, no right moment to step on stage for your first open mic, no right moment to publish your first blog.
The world is a swirling mass of unknown variables, too complex for us to ever calculate. If we did calculate them, they would surely change by the time we took action.
The fool’s card in the tarot has a message for us… It is a symbol of innocence, the fool walking dandily with a swag, his puppy nipping at his heels. So carefree, he might be about to stumble over a precipice. Of course it is wise to look before we leap, but if we are to make any progress, we must have a little faith, and leap.
The movie “Moneyball” is a story about a couple of visionary men who have the determination and courage to change the sport of baseball in the US. From another perspective, it’s a story about Billy Beane trying to let go of his autoexigence, and embrace the idea that he is enough.
In a couple of scenes, Beane is with his daughter buying her a guitar and asking her to sing. The song teases her dad, but also has a key message for him: “Just enjoy the show.”
Sometimes life can move quickly, sometimes there is a lot of stimulation, even confusion. We might not know where we’re heading in a taxi, and we don’t even want to think about where we’re going in life. In those moments we might relax, sink into ourselves, take Ms. Beane’s advice, and simply enjoy the show.
Comedian Buddy Hackett once said “I've had a few arguments with people, but I never carry a grudge. You know why? While you're carrying a grudge, they're out dancing.” When we hold a grudge, we spend mental energy, making our thoughts pay rent on something that makes us unhappy and rarely serves to make us any wiser.
Likewise if we have the habit of “shoulding”, having beliefs and thought patterns about how the world “should” be. The world is as it is, and no amount of mere demands from us can change it. In fact, if we really want to change it, it’s best to see it accurately.
Then once we can see it accurately, we can choose to also see it in a way that empowers us, or helps us to see the beauty in the world.
One way or another, we carry our thoughts around. If we choose our beliefs well, they will help us on our journey.
In our meditation, or in our daily lives, when we exercise presence we might quickly become aware that our mind produces thought after thought, a never ending train of thoughts. They seem to demand our attention, and we might get wrapped up in them, so the cycle continues.
When we look closely, we might find we have assumed something like “Everything must be resolved now,” as if every thought presents part of our life that is like a puzzle. If we do solve it, another puzzle will appear.
Not everything needs to be solved now. The world continues whether we think it through or not, though this thinking part of our minds tries so hard to justify itself.
We have the choice to say to that part of ourselves: “Yes, you are valued, but for now this process is not necessary.” What will happen if we allow our minds to be at rest, right now?
Rich Simpson was living in Melbourne, Australia, working on some projects as a documentary filmmaker when the world started to change. The Victorian government started to introduce rules that restricted everyone’s lifestyle, eventually affecting Rich’s income.
The police and military presence started to become a lot more obvious, and police actions became less and less professional.
When Rich noticed how people were reacting without question - in fact, even becoming hostile to people with different opinions - he decided it might be time to leave.
He had to ask the Australian government for permission to leave Australia, and decided to fly to beautiful Puerto Vallarta, Mexico where he fully embraced his liberty.
Listen to the interview to find out how Rich escaped Australia, started making money online and found a new life in Mexico.
Content warning: strong language, drug references
[Read the transcript and find important links on the site: A Beautiful Thought – Escape Australia Witch Rich Simpson:Episode 43](https://beautifulpodcast.com/escape-australia-with-rich-simpson-episode-438/)
When Paul McCartney was in The Beatles, he went through at least one period of his life where he was drinking and partying, taking a lot of drugs. For one reason or another, he had a dream where his mother appeared to him, giving him some simple words of advice: “Let it be”.
So often we might struggle with what is going on in the world, or what is going on inside of us. The situation might not be our preferred one, but if we wish to change it, we must first let go of resistance. When we resist, often that serves to prolong that very thing we wish to avoid. Allowing something to exist gives it the space to transform.
Is there some emotion within you that you prefer to hide from, some struggle against it, some resistance against the struggle? Let it be.
Reflection might be one of the most important skills we can learn as a human being - the exercise of discernment, directed towards our own thoughts and actions, with the purpose of self-improvement.
However, it’s extremely rare that we receive lessons in how to reflect, perhaps even from our best teachers or from our therapists.
Picking up a journal, we can quickly begin to see our thoughts on the page, and ask ourselves questions such as: What was their motivation in this situation? What was mine? What assumptions did I have, if any, that caused conflict? How might I think about this differently? How might I act differently?
We need not wait for life to transform us and teach us lessons. Every day we can use our pens or our minds is a day we can consciously decide to be better.
We might not often stop to marvel at the pen and paper, except if we’ve ever been deprived of them. With these humble tools that we might often take for granted, we have the power to explore our own motivations and goals, perhaps even ones previously hidden from us.
When we begin to journal, we enter the potential of our own minds, acting as cartographers to map out the areas which we have already visited, but not understood. If we have suffered, we can reveal the internal causes of that suffering, discovering the reasons for interpreting an even the way we did, and how they caused our emotional reactions.
Within our own experience, we have access to a grand wealth of information, greater than the most extensive encyclopaedia, perhaps even than the Internet. By picking up a pen, we can, over the course of a few simple pages, quickly clarify whatever has been a problem, and transmute it into wisdom that will last for our lives and become part of our legacy.