Addicted To A Borderline or is it Limerence? Many people believe and certainly feel that they are addicted to a borderline. Is it addiction, really, or is Limerence? There is an addictive quality to these betrayal bonded relationships that is the emotional and hormonal fluctuations in your endocrine system and nervous system that contribute to a betrayal bond, on/off relationship, or ghosting or BPD Discard within your neurobiological system, but, that still doesn't mean you as addicted to a person or Ex with BPD as it feels that you are. Quora Space: https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakupcodependency.quora.com/?ch=17&oid=2085106&share=396067ef&srid=uUYtZ&target_type=tribe https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog #AddictedtoaBPD #ajmahari #Limerence #BPDBreakup #withdrawalfromBPDEx #codependency #fantasybonds ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hjaLtpeAHw8

BPD Partner or Ex Not Diagnosed? - Wanting BPD Ex Back & Codependent Repetition Compulsions BPD partner or Ex diagnosed with BPD or not you know what you are dealing with. Do you need to know 100% for sure? NO! The red flags and stop signs are in all the patterns of behavior, instability, inconsistency, push/pull, accusations, manipulations, and more. Codependent (unconscious) repetition compulsions and the wanting the Ex is not an addiction - it's the childhood woundedness of your Codependency that you need to address in therapy to stop your self-abandonment. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog & more https://bpdbreakups.com #BPDEx #Codependency #ajmahari 0:00 BPD Patterns Diagnosed or Not? 1:49 First Comment 2:06 Relationship Ended Demand For Children 3:40 Close To Recontact & Caving In 4:40 Child With Suspected Borderline 4:51 Therapy Before Re-Contact Ex 6:00 Codependents Following Feelings 9:26 BPD Push/Pull & Codependent Denial 10:10 Suspected BPD & Red Herrings 11:45 Letter Writing To Re-Contact Ex 12:48 Letter Fantasy Asks of Ex 14:20 Need To Know If Ex 100% BPD or Not? 15:10 Codependent Denial Dynamic (BPD Ex) 20:33 BPD Diagnosis or Not Truth Is Brutal 23:17 BPD Undiagnosed Codependent Denial & Escapism 30:21 Suspect BPD - STOP Signs 35:40 BPD or Not Codependent Denial Trap 37:02 Codependent “I Can Do Better” vs BPD Instability 40:23 Codependent BPD or Not Red Herring Denial Dilemma 43:11 If BPD “Not her, it’s BPD” “I’d Be More Patient” Codependent Circles 45:08 BPD Not Diagnosed Codependent Trauma Bond Trap of Repetition Compulsions 54:00 Blowing Thru Red Flags - Why? ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OM_t27uDwgo

Dating and Borderline Personality Relationships - if pw/BPD gets into therapy can they change in time to save the relationship? Should I stay in the relationship or go? An often asked question. People, each, in long term relationship to a BPD partner last legs of “hope”. If the person/BPD goes to therapy “I know they can get better” and/or if I can get them to therapy I think it could save the relationship. What to do? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog http://ajmahari.com Ebooks & Audios http://ajmahari.co - more coming soon #BPDpartners #cantherapysaverelationship #ajmahari ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4b63WNzEprc

Borderline Hoovering What to do? https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Podcast https://ajmahari.com/ Ebooks, Audios, Sessions - Courses If you experience any form of a hoover from a person with Borderline Personality Disorder that you may still love or care about you either cut-off your relationship or that you may have ended the relationship - or that you may be on/off cycles of endings/beginnings of relationship with - It is important that you lead with your head not your heart. Remember how you have been treated, abused, hurt, and how that BPD person in your life is taking ZERO responsibility for that. If you go around again, each time that happens the cycle intensifies. Borderlines hoover to see if they can be taken back with no responsibility on their part and to see if any of your limits or boundaries will be upheld by you. If they aren't, the borderline feels more emboldened then ever to be as they have always been. #BPDhoovering #ajmahari #BPDBreakupHoovers ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKtsBCU0pYA