Have you ever heard of the term trauma dumping? It isn't a clinical diagnosis. It is a term used to describe someone who intrusively shares their traumatic information in conversation. Trauma dumping is something that can be avoided and in this video I share with you some key questions to ask yourself to help you reveal your hidden motive if you decide that it is time to share your personal story that opens you up to vulnerabilities that might be just a little too soon. If you like this video please like, and subscribe to this channel. Thank you so very much as your support helps us to support eachother. For more insight and self help direction or to offer a small donation to keep me here on youtube. please view my sister site: https://ko-fi.com/shannonlynn #traumadumping #trauma #education #narcissism #selfcare #selfrecovery #respect #communication #friendship #freedom #selfhelp #motivation #mentor #author #shannongilmour ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJb5WAkQTN4

Dark psychology secrets of Sesame Street characters and how troubled they really are. #sesamestreet #cookiemonster #trauma #healing #Dark Psychology #Secrets #Analysis #Revealed ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vDC_j51Yapo

Are you telling me that you tried positive affirmations and they don't work for you? I hear you. They didn't work for me either, until I cracked the code. Positive affirmations can become a ritual affair, and unless you understand the secret to making them stick, they won't stick. The answer to why positive affirmations do not always work is because of one thing; it's all about perspective. The clue to making affirmations work is not not be so rigid. Allow yourself to have fun with those affirmations, play and get creative and allow yourself to feel those positive vibes in those positive affirmations. See, life can get too rigid. And when that happens, our mindsets become rigid. The negative affirmations take control, as those negative feelings we feel in those negative affirmations tend to control our every move and what we think about. That's the problem. It's time to trick our minds, and in this video I share with you a fun and simple hack to working it all out in your favor. Share your comments, like, share and subscribe and IF YOU WANT TO TALK: Please schedule a time with me: https://shannonlynn.setmore.com/ DOWNLOADABLE CONTENT AND DONATIONS: www.Ko-fi.com/shannonlynn #positiveaffirmations #positivevibes #negative #mindcontrol #mindhacks #mindfulness #simplepleasures #negativethoughts #negativethinking #encouragement #positivelife #empowerment #positivity #positivelyspiritual ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ax1l1kJelBg

https://ko-fi.com/shannonlynn The narcissist has no boundaries, and expects you to have minimal to none also. It is when you begin setting up for yourself healthy boundaries, the narcissist takes notice, and so does your inner critic. I'd like to expand on this as there is a tic tok video that suggests a psychotherapist's perspective on what setting up healthy boundaries might cause you to feel. I'd like us to notice that what the narcissist sees and what you feel can be validating which causes you to quit as your inner critic assumes the narcissist must be right. Stay true to you and hold yourself to those boundary lines, I promise you, you will be rewarded as you gain confidence and self assurance to no longer need nor rely on the narcissist. #narcissism #healthyboundaries #feelings #feelingsmatter #freedom #fear #morality #ethics #selfcare #selfpreservation #selfhelp #author #listenable #fearless #NPD #agreeable #traumahealing ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HPQVKVD_Y0