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Borderlines and Codependents Is Codependency The Biggest Problem?
I talk about codependency and the family or origin roles and how and why they are experienced. Given that people with Borderline Personality and those with Narcissistic Personality also have codependency, it is the biggest problem in these relationships. However, not likely for the reason that might come to your mind. Please listen to find out more.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QRF46lHXRCg
NPD 10 Reasons Narcissists Can't and Don't Love You - Surviving BPD and Narc Relationship Trauma
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NPD 10 Reasons Narcissists Can't and Don't Love You - Surviving BPD and Narc Relationship Trauma
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0:00 AJ Intro
0:23 Vid Intro
0:59 Narcissists Can't Love You
2:00 Narc Rationalization of Love
2:50 Narcissists Abuse Not Love
3:04 The Feelings & Action of Love vs Narc "actions"
3:30 Narc Abuse No Love
4:07 Codependents Need To Learn Healthy Love
4:25 What Love Isn't
4:53 NPD Emotional Arrested Development
5:32 Narc Awareness Still Can't Love
7:45 Narc Love Bombing Idealize/Devalue
8:24 Narcs Motivated By Supply Needs
9:21 Narc Devalue Rage & Abuse
9:43 Why Narcs Can't Love
11:40 Narc "awareness" No Change No Love
12:10 10 + Reasons Narcs Can't & Don't Love
17:09 Narc Abuse of Codependents
18:21 Narcs Online Supply Not Your Needs
19:35 Codependent is Mouse to Narc Cat - Contempt Is Not Love
20:49 Narc "Awareness" IQ No Change Mask On
22:15 Narcs Don't Have Codependent's Closure
22:50 Narcs No Emotional Empathy
23:55 Narc Abuse = Codependent Emotional Death Spiral
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ylBjeWbkuw
Borderline Personality Relationships Breakups - *NO CONTACT*
This stream actually starts at approximately 3:31
No contact after a BPD Relationship Breakup is the gateway to your healing and recovery through radical acceptance and building resiliency. The only way out is through the pain. No contact opens is necessary for your healing and recovery.
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Borderlines Can’t Love You from a lack of self while not emotionally understanding the difference between “self” and other. Borderlines need you. They have no consistent or congruent “self” from which to live themselves or you.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=woMxGI2xKiM
People with BPD try unconsciously to seek identity throu you but it can’t be successful. They need years of treatment to find the Borderline lost self - lost to early childhood emotional arrested development. Borderlines don't take on your identity, self, or any mental image of yours that can help them love you at all.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yap2uJc-6tk
Your BPD NPD ASPD “Borderline” Labelling Without Diagnosis? Most people can and do recognize some behaviour and relational patterns.
Without a professional diagnosis you are to one degree or another believing you can have sight & light in the dark.
Is it wise to think you really actually know if the female or male suspected “Borderline” is also a mn NPD or a Psychopath? No, not really. Less than 2% of Borderlines have co-morbid BPD/ASPD - think about that.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDE3yt7A_lI
Who is your borderline? You can’t know because he/she doesn’t know. Are you in love with who you thought he/she was? So many people are in love with the Borderline’s potential as you perceive it that a minority of all w/BPD get enough treatment to ever actualize.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZsC1n7qptgI