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BPD Relationship Breakup Shift Energy
After Dating or a Borderline Personality Relationship Breakup - face your feelings and shift your focus and energy in moving forward as an Ex of BPD.
Choose to help yourself feel your feelings and choose yourself over continuing to pursue someone or a relationship with pw/BPD that continues to hurt you. Choose yourself and your own recovery. Choose to pursue calm and peace and not continued drama.
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Choose to help yourself feel your feelings and choose yourself over continuing to pursue someone or a relationship with pw/BPD that continues to hurt you. Choose yourself and your own recovery. Choose to pursue calm and peace and not continued drama.
https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog
https://ajmahari.com Ebooks & Audios - more coming
https://ajmahari.co - Blog - more coming soon
#exofBPD #healingjourney #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzGE670EfRU
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[11:22] Codependent Denial
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