I am in Autism Burn Out personally, yet also on the edge of hitting it professionally. It is a strange feeling to be going towards Burn Out from two different directions.
I have done a video over on Patreon, a free video to explain my personal Burn Out, and this is talking about my Burn Out due to work. But the bottom line here is, I need to take better care of myself.
Previous Butterfly Effect Videos:
Butterfly Effect #1 https://youtu.be/JwkHNTDtKg8
Butterfly Effect #2 https://youtu.be/v1fKJt9MdWo
Butterfly Effect #3 https://youtu.be/0Y5tk_IKGM0
Butterfly Effect #4 https://youtu.be/XUNJHJiau1s
Butterfly Effect #5 https://youtu.be/cK_TWkkINv4
Butterfly Effect #6 https://youtu.be/WNo6FY5gQaA
This is hopefully the last Butterfly Effect video. The whole process has led to this video being made, was all down to a lack of consideration over my Autism by others.
After what is almost a year from when it first started falling apart...I find myself saying that hopefully, it can all be put behind me as another failed chapter of a book being written by others as for some unknown reason...I am not allowed to be the Author of my own Autism or what I need to make the road a little easier to navigate.
I would personally love all the Butterfly Effect videos to be watched by Directors, Managers, and companies who assist Autistic people find work, to show them how it affects people like me when we are not considered. But I think I am overstretching when it comes to genuine interest!
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Money means something different to each of us, but in my experience the less interest you have in chasing it, the more negative the response from others.
Many things determine where the drive and interest comes in money, but I am not sure if my entire outlook is driven by my upbringing, or if it is also Autism linked...who knows?
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I haven't been around for 6 months, so please forgive me if I am rusty at this. I want nothing more than to be back sooner than later, but...health anxieties have the better of me, unfortunately.
The video is from a request in which someone discussed how telling others about your late diagnosis of Autism...that the way they respond matters. This took a while for me to understand, and didn't want to cover the topic until I could try to do it justice...which hopefully even if I haven't, I can at least wish to have scratched the surface.
If I could have my time over, I would absolutely change the way I let people know about my late Autism diagnosis. It was a moment more important that I realised at the time, and people will face this if they are late diagnosed. Knowing the reasons you need the right response from the right people is always worth bearing in mind.
0:00 Intro / Why I Haven't Been Around
4:23 Reason for Video
6:40 Masking
9:31 Telling Others - Bad Example
10:36 Telling Others - Good Example
13:22 - Reasons for Late Autism Diagnosis
20:55 - Feeling of a Negative Reaction
25:04 Free Time vs. Recharge Time
26:41 - Consequences of the Wrong Response
27:36 In Closing
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I was raised with dogs, and have missed being owned by one since my last one passed away many years ago, and they have always been at the forefront of my mind. I wanted to get myself to the point where I could get one again...that happened, but what occurred was not what I expected.
For people with Autism, I personally think pets bring so much positivity into your life and help you more than they should, just by being there.
(The picture is my daft cat Dexter, ever the model...)
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Lockdown due to COVID hasn't been easy for NT and people with Autism...and then there is me who has loved every second of it, and will be sad when it's all over.
Am I alone for enjoying less people and more structure?
Oh, the website for the lamp was furnwise, not homewise...not that anyone asked...
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I've wanted to do videos on news topics for a long time, then this one came around.
Ian Fenn who has Autism has an assistance cat called Chloe, and Sainsburys refused to allow the cat in the store. Ian Fenn is now suing Sainsburys due to discrimination.
Please note, I am allowed an opinion, just as you are. If you disagree that's fine.
New Article: https://news.sky.com/story/autistic-man-in-legal-battle-with-sainsburys-over-assistance-cat-ban-12622562
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*DISCLAIMER - Don't watch if easily offended or can't understand people are allowed alternative opinions that may clash with your own...
I get the acronyms wrong, I don't know different sexualities, and I don't know anything about genders. I know a lot of people focus on how strongly linked Autism and gender is, but I am someone with Autism who knows his gender...that's allowed to.
I wanted to make a video to show how it feels to be on the outside of this, and it'll probably leave me wide open to get attacked from keyboard warriors instead of educators, but just because a voice is silent it doesn't mean it shouldn't be heard. Always happy to chat to people who wish to help me understand, just having a go won't do you or anyone else any favours.
Have a good Pride month, and keep smiling.
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I've been asked if I have Therapy, I never usually answer as I don't want to get into discussions over defending my opinion or thought process. However, that can be unfair for people who genuinely have an interest, so I have given it a shot. Also, my waffle went on a bit, so I have given the video chapters.
0:00 Intro Waffle
13:55 Why I Don't Do Therapy
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As with most videos, didn't do the best job trying to explain it, but that human-to-human interaction isn't something I find natural. I have been connected with people that don't make me burnout, but when they have gone, I never miss the social side, just the person.
Every interaction or socialising I have do takes it out of me, costs my energy, and I very rarely take anything from it. I know this makes me slightly different than a lot of others with Autism because even though a lot of interaction can be too much, they do appreciate lower levels of it. Me, not so much.
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