This is an interview I did with Warren Farrell about his new book. It was actually the first Q&A for Warren's Patreon site for his commission to seek a White House Council for Boys and Men. That Patreon site has excerpts from his book, my books and others. Interesting place. Check it out and become a patron. While you're at it come and be a patron at menaregood! https://patreon.com/menaregood https://patreon.com/whitehouseboysmen ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jgIrJcGNvws

Tom, Paul, and Janice interview PhD Candidate Deborah Powney about her research on male victims of domestic violence. Deborah conducted an important survey last year and is now seeking participants for a second survey focusing on coercive control. Coercive control in intimate relationships was criminalized in 2015 in the UK, but society still lacks an understanding of how often male victims experience emotional, psychological, and financial abuse at the hands of their female partners. One of Deborah Powney's life missions is to change that. Here is the link to the Male Victims of Coercive Control survey; https://uclan.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_6rEoyAUolAUn8SV And here is Deborah's twitter: http://twitter.com/Firebird_psych Tom's Subscribestar https://www.subscribestar.com/red-pill-oasis Tom's Patreon https://patreon.com/menaregood Tom's web site https://menaregood.com Twitter @trgolden http://twitter.com/trgolden Donate https://menaregood.com/wordpress/donations Toms Books info: https://menaregood.com/wordpress/tomsbooks Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing http://amzn.to/2mGdmkm The Way Men Heal http://ow.ly/Vb3g30nNzuO Helping Mothers be Closer to their Sons: Understanding the Unique World of Boys http://ow.ly/lAy930nNzzo Huge Men Are Good Mug http://ow.ly/le4O30nNzCr Men Are Good Hat http://ow.ly/dvsl30nNzFt ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49JBuEjhDGY

I realized that we simply don't have a word to describe the process of men sacrificing for women and having their needs and safety be ignored or minimized. There is the term "chivalry" but it only describes the actions given not the corresponding expendability. We have the word Gynocentric but this doesn't address the resulting hardships men face. We simply don't have a word we can use to call out people who focus only on the needs and wants of women and ignore the needs and wants of men. It felt like we needed a word that we could look at someone and say, "You have a bad case of xxxx." which with one word would incorporate the ideas of chivalry, gynocentrism and the resulting and all too often hidden men's expendability. Thus was born the word FeSME which is an acronym for FEmale Safety Male Expendability. I hope you find it useful. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NtjQiGSDu0M

This video is a 10 minute clip from a 45 minute conversation between Warren Farrell, Paul Elam and Tom Golden. Warren, Paul and Tom discuss the reasons that so many people today simply don't think that men face hardship and discrimination. Warren's book The Myth of Male Power can be purchased here http://www.amazon.com/dp/0425181448/ref=rdr_ext_tmb Paul Elam's web site A Voice For Men can be reached here http://avoiceformen.com Tom Golden's Ebook The Way Men Heal can be purchased here http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Men-Heal-ebook/dp/B00B0OKZ3W/ The Proposal to President Obama for a White House Council on Boys and Men can be seen here http://whitehouseboysmen.org ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2HU6j8H5K4