The journey into visibility: Presentation for the IEC in Hungary May 2018
This is the draft in form of a slideshow for a presentation about stepping out of invisibility and start the journey into visibility. The live contribution was to be given without slides at the Integral European Conference IEC in Hungary in May 2018 by Heidi Hornlein in the section "Female Leadership". Not being able to participate in person at the conference I edited the draft to a reasonable length and publish it here on the channel of TheWisdomFactory.net. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8-GvuMXCvQ
Katherine Woodward Thomas was our guest this week on "Stop the RelationshiT-Grow Your Relationss" series of The WISDOM FACTORY. After the shows we regularly come together in a public Blab and talk about what has struck us in the show and what we have learnt. Here the whole conversation about life and love and timestamps for finding specific topics addressed.
Find all replays of the show episodes and the following Blabs at http://thewisdomfactory.net/replays-stoptherelationshit-2/
Participants: Heidi Hornlein, Mark Davenport, Margherita Crystal Lotus, Cristina Sundström, Hans Kalben, Rayne Dowell
Time stamps
1:18 Hans joins the conversation
1:48 How do we separate without pain?
2:01 Hans talks about his life
3:08 Willing to question the beliefs
3:28 Single for many years - desire to move into a relationship?
4:26 Original source wounding - patterns from childhood
5:30 The longing for THE ONE
7:10 It is up to you
7:40 Assuming full responsibility for oneself
9:00 Being in a relationship is the school for development
10:10 Mark: the experiences are not wasted
10:20 Heidi: about projections
12:05 Catch oneself when the projection begins
13:20 Don’t begin a relationship when you notice projection?
14:25 Margheritas is not single but whole
14:56 Dancing the paradox
15:30 Enjoy living with yourself!
16:00 Cristina
17:15 Our first relationship is with ourselves!
18:15 Start a relationship as friends
18:50 Calling in the ONE
19:05 Conscious uncoupling before looking for a new relationship
20:34 The One is not what you think it is…
21:30 Relationships don’t need to last the whole life
22:08 Cristina about the separation
23:45 If you give too much space to the other…. establishing the rules
25:55 Rayne about what we were taught: to look outside of ourselves
26:24 Sit back and decide for yourself WHO you are
27:25 Being whole and happy - singles
28:36 Pioneering this new type of relationships
29:28 Young people are growing with a different consciousness than we old ones (H+M)
30:00 The assumptions of previous generations
30:34 cats enter the scene
31:32 We don’t have the language yet for the new emerging things / consciousness
32:35 Rayne tells about herself: Intuition and getting to know yourself and your own gifts, going through the wall
35:45 Painful breakthrough
36:15 Comments: Women have duties towards men - in moslem cutltures
37:00 Liberation from these duties in Western cultures
38:00 Men get prepared!
38:22 The duty goes both ways - the liberation is for both!
39:24 Traditional worldview also in European countries
40:18 Integral Map
41:32 Why development is NOT “going down the rain” - things become more complicated, but….
42:30 with the responsibility for the own choices comes also the responsibility for our mistakes, but more options become available
43:35 Heidi’s experience when the partner wants you to stay little
44:20 Go along with the norm is more comfortable, but not authentic
45:53 Quality over Quantity
47:00 the road less travelled - but so much MORE
48:00 Think about oneself in a different way - is harder than about others
48:40 Our biology is hardwired: paradox between wanting to stay the same and be curious
49:30 Exploring humanity by exploring ourselves = next step for humanity right now
50:20 A product of this point in history
51:00 What if world conditions change?
51:45 Development goes 2 steps up and 1 ¾ back again…
52:00 Question about the cycles of the 7 years
52:35 Translation and transformation
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Heidi Hornlein in conversation with Dorothy Stern Kucha: How can we deal better with people in the red stage of development and how can we break our patterns of falling in the trap of victims who exercise their power over us by making us feel guilty when we don't want to do what they want us to do and to be. Trashing instead of gratitude.
even if we understand this sort of behaviour from the psychological point of view, it is extremely difficult to have it exercised on you. why don't we step up and defend our boundaries? The fear of being hurt and trashed - which, sooner or later will happen anyways. So how can we learn self-care and not be bribed into the game against better knowing?
In this conversation we explore some examples from our lives and the insights we gained, as well as the question how to handle these situations more skillfully in the future.
Collecting wisdom and practices in service to create a better world. Conversations with people who have experience, knowledge and wisdom to share with the world.
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A co-creative conversation among women, a process like the one described by Otto Scharmer: coming into presence of what is i9n the room, deep listening and coming up with new perspectives and new ways of seeing the interconnection.
Collecting wisdom and practices in service to create a better world. Conversations with people who have experience, knowledge and wisdom to share with the world.
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In this conversation Jeremy introduces Jean Gebser’s transmission of integral philosophy, the “integral aperspectival,” to understand contemporary events in culture and consciousness.
Find more info and time stamps at: https://thewisdomfactory.net/jeremy-johnson/
Collecting wisdom and practices in service to create a better world. Conversations with people who have experience, knowledge and wisdom to share with the world.
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Buch „The More Beautiful World Our Hearts Know Is Possible“ von Charles Eisenstein
Für das Treffen der Frauen am virtuellen Brunnen suchte ich das Kapitel über Spiritualität heraus, denn ich hatte da beim Hören ein AHA. Auch die Spiritualität, wie wir sie leben, trägt zur Trennung in der Welt bei. Sie trennt „Gott“ vom Menschen, das Materielle vom Spirituellen usw, und sie wertet mit „gut und schlecht“. Eisenstein fragt: Warum soll das Non-Duale besser sein als das Duale, die „andere Welt“ besser als diese? Mir wurde klar, wie tief unsere Existenz vom Grundsatz der Trennung bestimmt ist, auch wenn wir das nicht beabsichtigen oder sogar versuchen, diese Trennung irgendwie aufzuheben.
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Barbara erklärt, wie sich Macht äußert auf den verschiedenen Stufen der Menschheitsentwicklung. Im Gespräch nehmen wir oft Bezug auf die gegenwärtige, von der Coronakrise geprägten Lage, um die Geschehnisse in die Stufen einordnen und damit verstehen zu können. Wir besprechen auch die Rolle der Frauen im Entwicklungsgeschehen.
Mehr dazu und die Time Stamps des Videos auf https://thewisdomfactory.net/barbara-kuchler/
Collecting wisdom and practices in service to create a better world. Conversations with people who have experience, knowledge and wisdom to share with the world.
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Time Stamps
01:50 Jon’s last two books, The Science of Possibility and Reinventing Capitalism, Are quite different. Heidi asks how links two books with such different subject matter. Jon sees three big problems that need attention: Science, Relationships(nothing published yet) and Money
04:18 Reinvent or abolish? Jon would rather actually try free market capitalism - which hasn’t actually been tried yet. He explains.
10:10 When is ”funny money” OK and when not: an exercise in imagining there was no money.
15:15 Is anyone really “to blame” for our misunderstanding of money? Fear is to blame!
19:50 We’ve created a system that represents our way of thinking.
21:05 - 26:08 Time out to respond to watchers comments
26:12 Governments could not tell us the truth about money and get re-elected! We need a whole new story!
27:53 - 30:00 The 36 principles for building that new story.
30:00 How long should this take? What are cryptocurrencies and will they help? +’s and -’s
38:10 - 41:28 Crowdfunding and comments
41:30 What is work? Work/life balance? Alternative payment systems.
43:55 The list of 36 things we need to change or do; some choicefulness and possibilities
46:14 - 48:20 Some comments from watchers and some boundary breaking new enterprises.
48:21 - 52:26 Shortcomings of current social security systems
52:26 - How we can improve the system, how to find the book,
what we’re up to.
*Reinventing Capitalism: How we broke money and how we fix it, from inside and out* by Jon Freeman
Is money real? And if not, what is it? How have we thought about money – individually and collectively? What has that created in our lives and our economies? How did our thinking turn into the systems that we live with and the outcomes that we are now so unhappy with? Can we change it, and if so how?
There is a spiral thread of intelligence that runs through what Jon Freeman is saying.There are compatible viewpoints with those of +Said E. Dawlabani (Guest in previous Wisdom Factory shows) in his book *Memenomics* - but they are quite different in content and approach. *People will not have heard this before!*
About Jon freeman
Jon Freeman is a writer, trainer, and mentor with a background in organizational systems and change management working with Spiral Dynamics Integral, SQ21 Spiritual Intelligence, Meshworking, and Conscious Capitalism. He is a director of the UK Centre for Human Emergence. His earlier books include “Future Money: Evolving Relationship with our Finance” and also “The Science of Possibility” about which we spoke with him here: http://bit.ly/WF-Freeman). His newest book is called “Reinventing Capitalism” and is the occasion for this interview.
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Our second conversation with Lynn Fuentes on the topic chronic Illness. This is the recording via Zoom which substitutes the live stream recording https://youtu.be/o5GAM3CGoo0 which had still some technical flaws.
Lynn Fuentes offers courses for people with chronic illness which gives them support in their special situation.
Get more info and the previous conversation with Lynn at https://thewisdomfactory.net/lynn-fuentes/
Collecting wisdom and practices in service to create a better world. Conversations with people who have experience, knowledge and wisdom to share with the world.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxjncesVbQM