Every moment there lies a choice. The choice of your thoughts, the choice of your words, the choice of your actions. All of these moment-by-moment choices add up to creating our reality. It is critical to realize that every choice is directed by one of two states of consciousness – love or fear. And each choice you make in thought, word or action determines your life during and after your divorce. Do you want yours to be one of fear or of love?
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Jude appears on Tom Milligan's My Crazy Divorce podcast where Tom does a terrific job of discussing "my crazy divorce" in a fun light hearted but impactful way. Listen in and hear some of the details surrounding my divorce and the subsequent years.
How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Tom's Website - https://OurDivorce.com
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
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Divorce is often a tumultuous time for families, especially when children are involved. While both parents may strive to prioritize the well-being of their children, sometimes dynamics can become strained, leading to one parent feeling alienated from their child. Unfortunately, it's not uncommon for mothers to inadvertently or intentionally alienate their children from their fathers during divorce proceedings. Here are the top 10 ways this can happen:
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How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
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When working with fathers entering into divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads' Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing the specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilized it in order to achieve an amazing life for you and your children. This week we discuss Step 3 which is to Upgrade Your Skills. Jude also offers a special, FREE offer and massive discount!
Schedule your FREE, No Obligation 30-Minute Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Contact/Schedule.
Timestamps:
00:00 Step 3- Upgrade Your Skills
7:48 Learning Skills
13:08 Be Present
Resources:
Jude's Medium.com article. Dads' Guide to Divorce Step 3: Upgrade Your Skills
https://medium.com/@jts4agape/dads-guide-to-divorce-step-3-upgrade-your-skills-bad1557fb9c3?sk=93221423f06b13098ad74dbed31b0cf6
Love and Logic parenting - www.loveandlogic.com
Happify.com's video on Mindfulness - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6T02g5hnT4
Headspace.com's mindfulness meditations - https://www.headspace.com/mindfulness
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
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What is Post Betrayal Syndrome? Listen in as Dr. Debi Silber the founder of the Post Betrayal Transformation Institute, holistic psychologist, author, and health, mindset and personal development expert joins the show to explain. She shares the 5 stages we'll go through in order to fully heal from betrayal.
How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Do you have Post Betrayal Syndrome? Take the Quiz: https://thepbtinstitute.com/quiz/
Get the Trust Again book and bonuses: https://thepbtinstitute.com/trustagain/
Book launch party on Oct. 5th for From Hardened to Healed: https://thepbtinstitute.com/book-launch-party/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate)
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Are you a nice guy? If so, you are probably codependent. In this episode Jude defines codependency, gives examples, and shares tips for how to stop being codependent.
Alicia Munoz's Article - How Do You Overcome Codependency? A Therapist's Guide - https://us02web.zoom.us/j/3104353333#success
No More Mr. Nice Guy - Dr. Robert Glover - https://tinyurl.com/5995594v
How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
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Have you processed the grief you are experiencing from the ending of your marriage? If not, then listen as Jude discusses the symptoms and signs of grief and tools for you to work through it.
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Book A Call.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Timestamps:
00:00 Identifying Grief
17:17 Stages of Grief
27:51 Affirmations
Other Resources:
Affirmations:
1. I am ready to acknowledge and grieve the losses I'm experiencing in my life.
2. I am committed to investing more in the relationship with myself so that I can become the person I am capable of becoming.
3. I am strong enough emotionally to allow myself to grieve appropriately.
4. I am open and ready to learn how to love myself more.
5. I am committed to reaching out to others and asking for what I need and want.
6. I am simply feeling my feelings and that's perfectly natural.
Rebuilding: When Your Relationship Ends book by Dr. Bruce Fisher - https://www.newharbinger.com/rebuilding-fourth-edition
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate)
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While a parenting plan should be tailored to match what your family needs in a post-divorce situation the family court will need to see certain pieces in place before accepting your plan. Listen in as Jude shares some common parenting plan components and some pitfalls to avoid.
Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/
How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
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Summer camps are great. Trips to the zoo and the air-conditioned museum are wonderful too. But our funds, or lack of, can limit how much of that we can do. Idle minds and bodies are not developing minds and bodies. So when it gets hot, what can you do to enjoy time with your kids and beat the summer heat? Her are 21 affordable ways. Source: AllProDad.com
Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/
How Are You Adjusting To Your Divorce? Find out in this quiz - http://www.thedivorceddadvocate.com/divorce-quiz.html
*FREE Dads Guide To Divorce* How to survive and thrive during and after divorce: http://www.dadsguidetodivorce.com
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - schedule a time directly into my schedule at www.TalkWithJude.com.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
The Divorced Dadvocate Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/thedivorceddadvocate/
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
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This is a good one for any divorced date thinking about or entering into the world of online dating and dating apps! Jude is joined by Eric Muraven the founder of Dating Ace. They discuss in detail the ins and outs of dating apps and online dating.
Don't suffer in silence! Get relief from the pain and confusion of your divorce and schedule your FREE, No Obligation Coaching Consultation - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com. Click on Book A Call.
Join other divorced dads who have experienced or are experiencing divorce in this FREE Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Eric's Special Offer! - 50% Off Of A Dating Profile Build - https://docdro.id/de3LUfz
Timestamps:
00:00 Self-enlightenment
18:30 Dating apps
38:05 More successful dates
55:53 Rejection and trying again
Other Resources:
The Divorced Dadvocate Website - http://www.TheDivorcedDadvocate.com
The Divorced Dadvocate YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GeSwx-F8KK4&list=PLT4HyN5ishYJznK51205ESxGZ2d19YkBp
The Divorced Dadvocate Podcast - https://thedivorceddadvocate.buzzsprout.com/
Divorced Dads Online Meetup Group - https://www.meetup.com/Divorced-Dads-Meetup-Group/
Dating Ace website - https://www.dating-ace.com
Music Credit - Akira the Don - Daredevil Theme
Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/thedivorceddadvocate)
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