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Dating As An Asian Is Confusing | We Are All Human | Dating
As an asian woman. For years, I'm getting this, when a guy see me really introspected, or thinking deeply, he will tell me I'm deeply surprised.
For example, there were two guys from the dating app who were telling me this week that they were happily surprised, I just looked at your instagram, and I found you very introspected, and you seem to be very deep and intelligent.
They are shocked that i'm capable of being thinking instead of being cute.



People expect me just talking about fun topics.
People are telling me not to reveal myself too much or share too much or be too deep (for example talking about my childhood, how my brain works, how I really feel at the moment etc) at the beginning of the relationship, just to be chill.
People want me to be simple and when they ask me " hey how are you?"
Instead of answering "I'm okay", I usually tell people what happened, I will say something like "I just talked to my parents, this is what happened, this is how I feel right now. And what about you?"
But apparently people usually just expecting you to tell them about the weather.

I communicate my feelings with authentic. But when I start to talk about my problem, or their problem, for them, that's too intense.
They told me I just need to be cute, funny and light hearted.
I need to know from the beginning of the relationship what your needs are, what you want from this relationship.

So my confusion about love is always the communication of the needs.

From my past experiences, if I communicate right away, for them, it's intense. Because for them they don't even think about what they want.
And they are not ready to communicate it. And they find it too intimidating.


#peoplestories #dating #asiangirl
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