Not You - Too many people take on Cluster B abuse as if it were their own responsibility. It is not your responsibility. It is that of the Cluster B person who is #abusive. Cluster B people are everywhere.
Do not take in or accept responsibility for what they do - they are going to do all they know how to do. What are you going to do to empower yourself? When you can empower yourself, you free yourself, piece by piece, from their abusive power which his really not power but the abuse of said as they feel most often out of control. Cluster B, Borderlines, Narcissists, Psychopaths ARE everywhere. That's why the solution for each person, individually, is to radically accept that a Borderline will act like one (without treatment) a Narcissist will act like one and a psychopath will do what it is they do. That has nothing to do with you. It is not your fault. You have not attracted it. You are NOT creating the drama, or the toxic nature of the abuse you are suffering. NO! Please do not ever blame yourself for what is not your responsibility. Your responsibility, is to continue to learn, to grow, to reach out and get professional support to help you with the incredible growth that will come from any and all your suffering so that you can take very good care of you. Nothing about what the Cluster B personality disordered do is their abused victim's fault or doing. An important distinction to make. That's why it's so important to disengage and get out of the toxic dance.
BPD 10 Ways Borderlines Manipulate You
BPD 10 Ways Borderlines Manipulate You. People with BPD are not always consciously aware of their manipulation but people with BPD often are being very manipulative.
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This question is asked obsessively by narcissistic abuse survivors who need to stop focusing on the Narc. The grass is not greener with new "supply" for them or the Narc. Please understand you need to focus on yourselves - not think the grass is greener in your ex’s current relationship. It blocks your healing & recovery.
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BPD & Mental Health Challenges Mother's Day Movie Writer Director Travis Carlson Interview
BPD & Mental Health challenges Mother's Day Movie Writer Director Travis Carlson interview. Mother's Day is a must-see relatable and very compelling movie.
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BPD Relationships and Couple's Counselling - Will it Save Your Relationship?
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BPD relationships and partners believing that couple's counselling will benefit and/or save your relationship - it doesn't and it won't. People with undiagnosed (all the patterns of) BPD or diagnosed BPD who are not able to take personal responsibility or effectively communicate in any mutual way need their own therapy - years of it. And you need your own healing and recovery process from Codependency, CPTSD, and/or PTSD. Couple's Counselling with people with BPD does not work.
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Breakup With a Borderline To Teach A Lesson Still Love Them - Can You Rekindle In The Future?
Did you break up with a person with BPD to teach them a lesson because you love them so much? Others have. A commenter broke up with his BPD Ex for just this reason because he loves her so much he somehow thinks she'll got and find a "loving relationship" and then he and she can rekindle their "relationship" sometime in the future because he will "always love her forever". This is a Codependent man trapped in an unhealthy bond.
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Psychiatry's "brain scan" studies nor its concluded "results" in anyway negate the personal responsibility of those with Borderline Personality. To focus on that is to miss all that truly needs to be focused on to get into a healing recovery process for those with BPD.
For ex’s or non-borderline codependents it is important that you know that there is nothing in the hard-wiring of the brain for any person with BPD that “makes the brain make you do anything”.
Neuroplasticity is very real and takes place in treatment for BPD in psychodynamic modalities. There is no need to wait for the American Psychiatric Association to develop or map “cure” BPD recovery is about healing childhood trauma and finding the emotionally arrested self.
Too many with BPD seem to think they can just lay the "fault of their behavior" on the alter of "my brain made me do it". Nothing could be further from the truth. Psychiatry likes to stigmatize BPD even more in its studies because as they forward "facts" they have not proven they don't ever put neuroplasticity and the pathway to BPD recovery into their information.
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People with Borderline Personality Disorder need to now their is no 'factual" proof that their brains were from birth somehow different. The impact of trauma on the brain is real but your brain does not "make you do" anything with regard to anything that you could successfully change in therapy. People with BPD, just like those with CPTSD, impacted brains from trauma, still need to take personal responsibility for their actions and/or words and learn how to re-frame the emotionally reactive narrative into a more logical one. Neuroplasticity is the result of successful therapy when people get therapy that they need.
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup A Man Beaten Abused Discarded and in Legal Appeal To See His Son
A.J. Mahari interviews a man who was in a relationship and marriage with a Borderline woman. He was beaten, raged at, discarded, and is currently appealing a court ruling that has left him without seeing his son for over 2 years. He divorced the BPD wife, now Ex, there was a brief relationship recycle try and as all-too-many men know the courts most of the time do not understand untreated BPD and its psychological and or physiological impact and even danger to children.
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Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup A Man Beaten Abused Discarded and in Legal Appeal To See His Son
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Borderline Rips Your Guts Out - Her Black & White World -She takes and takes and gives nothing but pain and heartache back.
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How To Get Your BPD Ex Back - Choices. Actions & Consequences
There are 10 major choices that can lead to the action of trying to get your BPD Ex back that have consequences. For most who might succeed at getting a BPD Ex back the Borderline devaluation cycles that lead to relationship breakup again happen faster and there is no re-idealization in getting a BPD Ex back. These relationships are unhealthy, and will not work out. They don't work the first time, and they won't work the third, tenth time or beyond.
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