BPD “Self” Absorption in Borderline Personality what Ex's, Partners, and Loved ones need to know and how you are negatively effected by a borderline's self-absorption.
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Many with Borderline Personality untreated are "self" absorbed and "self" centered and not in the same way as a Narcissist. It is protecting against past adverse childhood experience that caused the arrested emotional development. People with BPD are very "self" focused due their defenses but what happens to you on the other side of someone with BPD as a result?
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Loving a Borderline The Borderline Cant Love You - BPD Narrative of "Love" is Cognitively Distorted
Loving a borderline the borderline can't love you. Their is no mutuality. There is no give and take. A borderline imparts her cognitively distorted "narrative" of "us" (all borderlines) again no use of an "I" statement while right-fighting and devaluing others and showing their own lack of awareness.
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In a recent example of this suicidal epidemic among too many with BPD, in Southern Australia they are doing to have a Corner's Inquest in two young women with BPD who died, recently. There was the same kind of inquest for a 19 year old in my own city, after her suicide (or murder?) in a Women's Prison where she did not at all belong because people backed away, didn't care and either killed her or let her die. The patholozing, dehumanizing, and stigmatizing of Borderline Personality around the world is SO VERY REAL - Mental Health Systemic failure is very responsible for many of these suicides, though, they won't ever admit that. "The death of one, diminishes us all" We need to care. People with Borderline Personality, even if you can't get along with them, must be separated from behaviour or relational difficulty that hurts so many tremendously. Suicide in many with BPD is and has for a long time been the epidemic no one wants to talk about.
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Ebook: “The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD”
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Ebook: “BPD & Rage”
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Is there Narcissism in BPD? Are there "narcissistic traits" in those with BPD? Why does the borderline seem a lot like the Narcissist? - A.J.'s Experience: Mind Body Connection After BPD NPD at ajmahari.ca (Link on front page)
BPD and NPD have some overlaps but they are not the same personality disorder at all.
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Are you stuck in BPD relationship recycling? Are you still denying that you have Codependency? Codependency is a childhood emotional survival adaptation to varying degrees that creates a relational pattern that is why you are in a betrayal bonded relationship. You can’t change, rescue, fix the borderline or the relationship.
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What you need to know if you have been or are now in any relationship type with a person with Borderline Personality. It is a controversial diagnosis being stigmatized and incorrectly increasingly pathologized by many online parroting psychiatry. Psychiatry's narrative on and about BPD is not proven or in most cases accurate at all.
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https://ajmahari.com/p/J302/
Ebook: “Punishment & Revenge in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/EafI/
Ebook: “The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/vV61/
Ebook: “BPD & Rage”
https://ajmahari.com/p/1ykL/
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Many people ask or wonder what quiet borderline personality disorder is. It is not a separate personality disorder. Quiet borderlines internalize what acting out people with BPD externalize. The quiet person with BPD acts in everything the "acting out" person with BPD acts out.
People with Borderline Personality Disorder who internalize and are therefore "quiet borderlines" do everything primarily to them selves, in the absence of actually knowing who they are that the classic "acting out" or often called "raging borderline" externalizes onto other people.
Both the quiet borderline and the acting out borderline have similar core trauma. Both presentations of Borderline Personality Disorder involve shame, anxiety, anger, emotional arrested emotional development. The quiet borderline "type" is often not diagnosed or gets misdiagnosed and it is believed that a higher percentage of those who have BPD and are quiet borderlines commit suicide than the acting out raging borderline, though, at least 1 in 10 (likely old low stats) will commit suicide and there is no clear understanding of what percentage of those with BPD who commit suicide are quiet borderlines or acting out borderlines.
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5 Key elements to understanding Borderline Personality from a recovery perspective as Life Coach, BPD/BPD Loved Ones Coach and Author, A.J. Mahari begins to go even more in depth into how to understand BPD for those diagnosed with it, the hope for recovery, the fact that she recovered in 1995 and how she is going to sharing great detail that will help others on their journeys now on a new membership site at ajmahari.com which is coming soon.
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