Fearless Parent: Raising Kids Using Stoic Philosophy
Wondering how to be less stressed as a parent? Stoicism is an ancient Greek philosophy that teaches us how to focus on what we can control in life. Leah Goldrick of http://www.commonsenseethics.com and Brittany Polat of http://www.apparentstoic.com discuss how to apply Stoic philosophy to parenting and how it can make both parents and kids happier.
We discuss:
-Overcoming worry and parenting anxiety. Not worrying about what other people think of how you raise your children. -US culture being oriented towards adult lifestyles and careers and not very child friendly. -Thinking that you can control everything and being goal oriented does not work with kids because while you can influence them, you can't control what they do. -You will be happier as a parent/family if you focus on what you can control - the environment, how you respond, getting prepared in advance, etc. -The Golden Rule and other ways to teach kids the value of kindness.
I welcome Jonas Salzgeber, author of The Little Book of Stoicism, back to the channel for a Stoic dialog on matters of ultimate importance: injury, illness, coming to terms with mortality, fear, and irrational beliefs that result when fear overcomes reason.
We discuss the shortness of life, memento mori, facing fear, and the proper psychological perspective necessary to flourish and be more courageous during uncertain times.
We also discuss a Stoic response to the covid-19 pandemic, reasonable caution, and not doing irrational or discriminatory things because of fear of death.
Jonas' website: https://www.njlifehacks.com/blog/
The Little Book of Stoicism: https://amzn.to/3INdnOk*
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Why is there such lack of professionalism and ethics in journalism in recent years? Brendan Malone of Left Foot Media and I discuss the many problems with contemporary journalism and what can be done about them.
To be clear, there are some excellent journalists who try to adhear to time-honored standards of objectivity still doing great investigative work. However we focus on the general negative trends that we see occurring in media - bias, clickbait, dishonesty, illiberal cancel culture, and lack of humility, backed up by references to hard data where possible.
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Sources:
Texas A&M journalism bias study: https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3279453
NYT executive editor dlaims bias: https://www.allsides.com/story/former-nytimes-editor-criticizes-papers-unmistakably-anti-trump-bias
Trust in media Gallup Poll: https://news.gallup.com/poll/267047/americans-trust-mass-media-edges-down.aspx
https://reason.com/2020/01/21/covington-catholic-media-nick-sandmann-lincoln-memorial/
https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2019/jul/23/roger-scruton-gets-job-back-after-regrettable-sacking
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In this engaging conversation, David Fideler and I delve into the rich history of ancient Greek philosophy to explore the concept of beauty as an objective quality of nature.
We discuss the ideas of Pythagoras, Plato, and the Stoics, and the ideas they held about beauty. In this highly illustrated video, we also explore the importance of harmony and proportion in nature and art, and how they were used to enhance beauty in ancient architecture and Renaissance paintings.
The conversation also touches on the connections between beauty, truth, and goodness, and the timeless wisdom of ancient philosophy that can still inspire us today.
Links:
Living Ideas Journal: https://livingideasjournal.com/
The Renaissance Program: https://therenaissanceprogram.com/
David’s book on the Stoic philosopher Seneca: https://breakfastwithseneca.com/
Common Sense Ethics: https://www.commonsenseethics.com/
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Parenting is stressful. For many parents, who are always busy, usually tired, and probably not trained in dealing with children, the words “tranquility” and “parenting” do not go together. Don’t you just wish there was some technique out there that could help you become calm, content, and confident parent? Something that you could have on hand all the time to help you through your most challenging situations and stressful days?
Tranquility Parenting, a just released book by Brittany Polat, offers lots of practical help and straightforward ways to overcome parenting challenges by implementing principles from Stoic philosophy within the family. I interview Brittany about the book and how to implement the techniques here.
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For Socrates, the Socratic Method was just a means to an end which is the excellence of human character.
Socrates believed that a continuous journey of self-improvement is essential for every person and can be realized through the acquisition of knowledge.
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What is the purpose of government? We all can define the purpose of medicine or of car repair and so forth, but with government, the purpose is much more undefined.
We wouldn't tolerate our doctor or mechanic talking to us in the way politicians do - never addressing the details of the problem, running away or becoming hostile when difficult questions are asked. So why do we tolerate it in politics?
This problem indicates that we haven't defined the purpose of government well enough.
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This video explains why free speech is misunderstood - namely because people confuse defending someone's civil right to free speech with agreeing with what they say. Just because you defend someone’s right to speak freely does not mean you agree with the content of their speech. You could vigorously disagree with what they are saying but still defend their right to say it. This video explains why.
I also cover:
- A brief history of free speech which dates back to ancient Greece
- The rational for free speech in the modern context, why it's so important for liberal democracy, and what happens when we loose this right
- Why anyone working for social justice who doesn't support free speech is hurting their own cause
Sources: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eGUUtH74Hbs
https://www.encyclopedia.com/law/legal-and-political-magazines/origins-and-early-development-free-speech-united-states
https://nclalegal.org/state-of-missouri-ex-rel-schmitt-et-al-v-biden-et-al/
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Brendan Malone of Left Foot Media and I discuss the legal and philosophical principle of free speech and why it is the cornerstone of free press and civil society in liberal democracy. Without it, everything is based on subjective notions of idealogical purity, and everyone is vulnerable to the shifting sands of irrational public opinion.
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What 3 things are necessary for happiness? Leah Goldrick of http://commonsenseethics.com interviews Jonas Salzgeber of http://njlifehacks.com about how to become a tower of strength through Stoic philosophy. We recommend using subtitles if you have trouble hearing the audio. Click "CC," to the lower right to enable subtitles.
We dicuss:
-Doing Your Best.
-Focusing on the process of growth and developing virtue, rather than the outcome.
-Is self-compassion missing from Stoic philosophy?
-How much do externals/prefered indifferents matter? Is Aristotle correct that we need some externals to be happy or are the Stoics correct that only virtue is necessary for happiness?
-Is the Sage a realistic role model?
-How Stoicism can make you more unshakeable.
-What is eudamonia?
-Jonas' new book
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