BPD Ex Confusion About No Contact & A J Mahari a Former Borderline Shares Inside Out Experience
BPD Ex Confusion About No Contact & A J Mahari a Former Borderline Shares Her Inside Out Experience
A commenter expressed being confused about what I had shared about my past BPD experience and what I was recommending for others about no contact and not trying to be friends with an Ex with BPD.
In this video I go on to talk a bit more about my past BPD Experience and how it is where some of my core content insight and deep understanding of BPD comes from. I am a former "Borderline" and I was labeled not assessed and diagnosed properly. I had 4 strong traits of BPD and did experience the arrested emotional development and trauma bonds with both Cluster B parents. I recovered (yes for real!) in 1990 and was told that via the out-going -after therapy - assessment and didn't just (as wild stories on the internet claim) ever just say "I cured myself from BPD". BPD does not need psychiatry's "defined" (not really) and never-coming "cure". People with BPD can heal and recover fully - the prognosis in certain modalities for people with BPD is excellent. The biggest tragedy is so many with BPD or strong traits of won't go and get help or treatment at all.
I have said many times in the 28 years I've been working online it's in your best interest to focus on the person in your life or who was in your life with BPD and if they remain undiagnosed and/or diagnosed and untreated, that is vastly different from my path and journey which formally re therapy etc ended in 1990.
BPD Relationship Breakup Needs to Be Black & White For Ex’s - in a different black & white way than the painting you black by the borderline
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIPDYdIZhXY
BPD How Borderlines Think
How do borderlines think is an often asked question. People with BPD lack logic. Borderlines think in ways that aren't really thinking, they magically think which has all to do with feeling what the BPD thinks is real. Lack of logic.
Ebook: “The Shadows & Echos of Self - False Self in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/J302/
Ebook: “Punishment & Revenge in BPD
https://ajmahari.com/p/EafI/
Ebook: “The Legacy of Abandonment in BPD”
https://ajmahari.com/p/vV61/
Ebook: “BPD & Rage”
https://ajmahari.com/p/1ykL/
BPD How Borderlines Think
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Have you wondered how a Borderline you are/were close to thinks? Are you often confused? Is everything endless drama? Why is that? How do borderlines, with little to no treatment, actually think? Was the pw/BPD in your life or your BPD ex even with some treatment, still unable to calmly or logically communicate and were they only seeing his or her own "side" without taking any personal responsibility?
#howborderlinesthink
#exofbpd
#borderlinedrama
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KcpDQSIWTUk
BPD Relationship Breakups and Counterdependency
BPD Relationships and breakups not all are codependent many have counterdependency. An examination of what Counterdependency is. Counterdependency is at the extreme opposite end of Family of Origin childhood woundedness from the same in Codependency
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#BPDBreakup #Counterdependency #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06uicI_Phm0
What Codependency Is Not - Surviving BPD and NPD Relationship Trauma
BPD and Narc relationship trauma what codependency is not. Codependency is not how and what it was defined as in the 1940's and hasn't been for at least 20+ years. Codependency is not defined by or within and addiction model but one of a trauma response as is well known in psychology today.
What Codependency Is Not - Surviving BPD and NPD Relationship Trauma
#BPDandNPDRelationshipTrauma #Codependency #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlSD0HN1gjg
Riding the Chaotic Rollercoaster of a Borderline? The Secret Understanding You Need To Know
If you are riding the chaotic rollercoaster of a Borderline, there is a secret understanding that you need to know. Many resist this understanding that is your own healthy way forward toward no contact and finding your own healing, closure and the reasons and lessons of what you have gone through and why you are finding it so incredibly difficult to break away from the BPD relationship chaotic rollercoaster of the impossibility unworkable and very unhealthy relationships.
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#ajmahari #GetOFFBPDrollercaster #codependency #findownclosure
#whysofocusedonBPDEx
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDou8Iwouag
BPD Relationship Breakups Codependent FOMO Confusion & Ruminating
FOMO - Fear of missing out and still in cognitive dissonance and/or ruminating with false hope that the pw/BPD is who you thought they were in the idealization stage. What does who you thought they were do to people with codependency?
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#BPDRelationshipBreakups #codependentFOMO #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mFEtAe_Mo1U
Ghosted Or Discarded By a Borderline? It wasn’t your fault. It has nothing to do with you not having been “good enough”
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_5MAU4dg-c4
Can you give a person with Borderline Personality some of what they need? No, you can't and here's why. No good deed goes unpunished.
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http://ajmahari.ca/contact - Sessions for BPD Loved Ones (or Ex's)
http://phoenixrisingpublications.com - Ebooks on BPD
http://borderlinepersonality.ca
http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dfr04-0B6oc
In BPD Relationship or You Were? I have almost 1,000 Videos To Help You Understand BPD & more And I’ve been working with clients to help them heal and recover from Cluster B abuse and Codependency
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TabPoIdU0E4