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BPD Ex Confusion About No Contact & A J Mahari a Former Borderline Shares Inside Out Experience
BPD Ex Confusion About No Contact & A J Mahari a Former Borderline Shares Her Inside Out Experience
A commenter expressed being confused about what I had shared about my past BPD experience and what I was recommending for others about no contact and not trying to be friends with an Ex with BPD.
In this video I go on to talk a bit more about my past BPD Experience and how it is where some of my core content insight and deep understanding of BPD comes from. I am a former "Borderline" and I was labeled not assessed and diagnosed properly. I had 4 strong traits of BPD and did experience the arrested emotional development and trauma bonds with both Cluster B parents. I recovered (yes for real!) in 1990 and was told that via the out-going -after therapy - assessment and didn't just (as wild stories on the internet claim) ever just say "I cured myself from BPD". BPD does not need psychiatry's "defined" (not really) and never-coming "cure". People with BPD can heal and recover fully - the prognosis in certain modalities for people with BPD is excellent. The biggest tragedy is so many with BPD or strong traits of won't go and get help or treatment at all.
I have said many times in the 28 years I've been working online it's in your best interest to focus on the person in your life or who was in your life with BPD and if they remain undiagnosed and/or diagnosed and untreated, that is vastly different from my path and journey which formally re therapy etc ended in 1990.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Afn7jYgvy-s
A commenter expressed being confused about what I had shared about my past BPD experience and what I was recommending for others about no contact and not trying to be friends with an Ex with BPD.
In this video I go on to talk a bit more about my past BPD Experience and how it is where some of my core content insight and deep understanding of BPD comes from. I am a former "Borderline" and I was labeled not assessed and diagnosed properly. I had 4 strong traits of BPD and did experience the arrested emotional development and trauma bonds with both Cluster B parents. I recovered (yes for real!) in 1990 and was told that via the out-going -after therapy - assessment and didn't just (as wild stories on the internet claim) ever just say "I cured myself from BPD". BPD does not need psychiatry's "defined" (not really) and never-coming "cure". People with BPD can heal and recover fully - the prognosis in certain modalities for people with BPD is excellent. The biggest tragedy is so many with BPD or strong traits of won't go and get help or treatment at all.
I have said many times in the 28 years I've been working online it's in your best interest to focus on the person in your life or who was in your life with BPD and if they remain undiagnosed and/or diagnosed and untreated, that is vastly different from my path and journey which formally re therapy etc ended in 1990.
https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog
https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more
https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts & Blog
#AJMahariFormerBPD #BPDFrominsideOut #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Afn7jYgvy-s
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