In this video, Jay Diskarte tries rizzing up best friend and ex-girlfriend. It has been years since they clicked up and had a conversation or even just said hi. They were closer when they were younger, but they have separated or gone their own ways since the original friendship began. Many people ask them quite often, why aren't they together? And in this video, we don't answer that. We do, but I don't know if you have to be good at watching videos and body language to see the answer. This engagement was relatively simple. My mom died, and someone who called herself my best friend pulled herself together, and she knew what she had to do . One of the worst relationships to ever have is to have a best friend who's the opposite sex. I don't recommend it for one bit, but if you know you do end up having a best friend who's of the opposite sex, just no, it's gonna be painful, and it's gonna be. It's gonna seem kind of deceiving, it's gonna seem kind of unfair, but that's what you signed up for. At the same time, it feels good knowing that that person will show up when they really have to. That's different; that's not something you can find in most people. Many people are cowards, and even if we don't speak too much anymore, I feel like that's the only right thing to do. Since she is my best friend, and we're getting older, I must get used to that. She's not like somebody I like. She's not anything else but my friend. She's my best friend. Why is she the best? She's the best because I don't even have the space in this biographical essay to write down why she's the best. She's the best because I feel God gave her to me as a best friend, not really as anything else, just here's a best friend. And like, you know, a lot of people will say like, dude, that's like some beta mill stuff, and why would you have a girl best friend like, why don't you admit that she doesn't want to sleep with you or why don't you just acknowledge that you have a girlfriend that, you know, doesn't like you or and you're just kind of just hanging on there? Which is a good point. I'm not actually hanging on there. I mean, I'm doing me. She knows what I do. You know, I know what she does. Whether or not we know everything about each other or if we don't know anything about each other, there's only one thing that really matters. And that's that we know that we are the best at what we need for each other in our eyes and in our understanding of what we need in life. So I don't know where she places me in her life as if I don't know my department. I know that I'm the best no matter what department I'm in. When we were younger, you can say we benefited the most from this relationship. But you know, as we get older, it just develops into something else, and it doesn't need to have a definition, doesn't need to have any kind of traditional relationship or any kind of defining attribute. She's just the best, you know? That's all I could say. I'm not saying that we're just platonic friends, and I'm not saying that we're, you know, maybe doing something else. It's nothing like that. I mean, you can't call someone your best friend, right? You can't call someone your best friend or the best person that you like if you haven't even engaged in almost anything with that person. It just doesn't make any logical sense. That's why you call someone a best friend because you do things with that person that you would never probably do with anybody else. And for me, I feel like we like the fact that we have somebody there whenever we're, you know, going through something like, you know, we might not talk every day or every year. However, you know, when we get together, it's just it, you know, never fails to show me that I still feel the same, and like you know, nothing changes. Let's see how well she knows me and how well I know her. If you happen to read this really long description, you must subscribe to my channel. I must say it because you took the time at the Yode to read this whole thing, and you know it was hard to put it together. I'm going to be honest. It was hard. But yeah, I would like you to subscribe because I feel like you're somebody who goes down in detail, and I like that kind of person. Let me know what you want to see next, or if you enjoyed this video, please like it, and yeah, I'll see you in the next one. If you're new, don't forget to say hi. Of course, it comes on now, and sometimes I don't know if it's a robot that follows me or if it's a person or a hater, so don't be afraid to say hi. You can always comment as you know and get to know me. I love to get to know you. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fcwv6Mdpy2Q