Blog: http://psychreviews.org/the-meaning-of-things-csikszentmihalyi-rochberg-halton/
This is part of a two-chapter series on the psychology of things. Part 2, The Art of Seeing, focuses on the communication between the self and art, but this chapter, The Meaning of Things, explores how the self and things develop together in the first place.
Intro: 0:00
The Meaning of Things: 0:41
What is the self? 1:11
Self-control and Self-awareness 2:18
Cultivation 3:53
Intentions personal and social 4:44
Addiction 6:17
Internal and External Motivation 8:00
Inner and outer conflict 9:16
What is a Thing? 10:15
Meaning making in household objects 11:34
Making meaning as a group 12:53
What is individual freedom in social groups? 14:02
A new perception 14:55
Outro 16:10
The Meaning of Things - Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi & Eugene Rochberg-Halton: Kindle: https://amzn.to/39jNAym
Attention and Effort – Daniel Kahneman: http://psychreviews.org/attention-and-effort-daniel-kahneman/
Flow in 7 steps: http://psychreviews.org/flow-in-7-steps-mihaly-csikszentmihalyi/
Part 2: The Art of Seeing: http://psychreviews.org/the-art-of-seeing-csikszentmihalyi-robinson/
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVStEnoJ15c
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/how-to-meditate-for-longer/
Now that the sense of self is seen through, there are glimpses of peace. Thanissaro Bhikkhu talks about how to preserve it.
Intro: 0:00
Dukkha [Dissatisfaction]: 0:24
Worlds: 2:35
Taking charge of your happiness: 3:57
How to meditate for longer: 5:28
Use your Illusion: 6:55
Pictures and videos from Storyblocks, and Pexels.
Resources:
Narcissistic Supply - Freud and Beyond: https://youtu.be/P1Mavs4UqYE
Dhammatalks - Thanissaro Bhikkhu: https://www.dhammatalks.org/
Continuity - Thanissaro Bhikkhu: https://www.dhammatalks.org/Archive/y2015/150620_Continuity.mp3
The Allure of Sensuality - Thanissaro Bhikkhu: https://www.dhammatalks.org/Archive/y2018/180719_The_Allure_of_Sensuality.mp3
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgrhPJC9UAk
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/sexuality-pt3-sigmund-freud/
Increasingly Freud was pushed to "cure" homosexuals from their orientation by eager families. Freud instead found that Psychoanalysis had its limits.
Intro: 0:00
Social unacceptability: 0:26
Homosexuality: 3:11
Authenticity: 8:48
Abuse of power: 11:24
Slow shift towards acceptance: 23:31
Power differences: 26:56
Resources:
The Psychogenesis of a case of female homosexuality - Sigmund Freud: https://www.lacan.com/The.Psychogenesis.of.a.case.of.female.Homosexuality.pdf
A History of Homosexuality in Europe, 1919-1939 - Florence Tamagne: Paperback: https://amzn.to/2VgkWG6
Seduction and Desire: The Psychoanalytic Theory of Sexuality since Freud - Ilka Quindeau: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3mm4uQr Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qedJVp
Sexual Orientation and Psychodynamic Psychotherapy: Sexual Science and Clinical Practice - Professor Richard C. Friedman M.D., Professor Jennifer I. Downey M.D.: Kindle: https://amzn.to/36lSFo1 Paperback: https://amzn.to/2JqZqfe
Homosexualities - Stephen O. Murray: Paperback: https://amzn.to/36lSyZD Hardcover: https://amzn.to/3o8Ieu0
Cheuvront JP. Henry Abelove’s “Freud, Male Homosexuality, and the Americans.” Studies in Gender & Sexuality. 2016;17(2):80-85. doi:10.1080/15240657.2016.1172916.
Drescher, J. Queer Diagnoses: Parallels and Contrasts in the History of Homosexuality, Gender Variance, and the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual . Arch Sex Behav 39, 427–460 (2010).
Warm Brothers in the Boomtowns of Hell: The Persecution of Homosexuals in Nazi Germany Robert Franklin: https://hilo.hawaii.edu/campuscenter/hohonu/volumes/documents/Vol09x08WarmBrothersintheBoomtownsofHell.pdf
Resolution on Appropriate Therapeutic Responses to Sexual Orientation: https://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/resolution97_text.html
All photos, video, and music from Wikipedia, Pexels, Musopen, and Storyblocks
Music:
Beethoven - Violin Sonata no. 9 'Kreutzer', Op. 47 performed by Edward Auer
Brahms - Serenade No.1 in D major Op.11 - III. Adagio non troppo - European Archive
Mozart - Piano Sonata No.4 in E-flat major, K.282/189g - I. Adagio - Tim Ko
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JmxWzEzeTdM
Blog: https://psychreviews.org/object-relations-fear-of-success-pt-6/
Many people want success, but they are not sure about the work involved. In some cases it’s wise to just start, but momentum is hard to build and it’s easy to quit. There are also questions about what is authentic when one has been on a wrong path with a goal or they feel that they are simply making another person’s dreams real but not their own. The reality in psychology is that it all starts with a basic autonomy of a self that can make authentic choices, and no matter what, there will always be some exploration, trial and error, before finding a sliver of authenticity. That sliver involves some feeling in the body that a person likes or dislikes, and is not covered over by a disguise.
Intro: 0:00
Playing and Control: 0:23
Shame: 10:57
Approach and Avoidance Goals: 33:33
Self-regulation and Magical Thinking: 43:02
Repetition Compulsion: 58:35
The Default Mode Network and Psychedelics: 1:09:19
Pictures, music, and video from Pexels, Pixabay, YouTube, and Wikipedia.
Resources:
The Language of Winnicott: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781855754324/
Psychology of Shame: Theory and Treatment of Shame-based Syndromes: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780826166722/
Cognitive Therapy: Basics and Beyond by Judith S. Beck: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780898628470/
Handbook of Approach and Avoidance Motivation by Andrew J. Elliot: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780805860191/
Your Heart's Desire - Sonia Choquette: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780749920128/
Kuehner, C., Huffziger, S., & Liebsch, K. (2008). Rumination, distraction and mindful self-focus: effects on mood, dysfunctional attitudes and cortisol stress response. Psychological Medicine, 39(02), 219.
Valim CPRAT, Marques LM and Boggio PS (2019) A Positive Emotional-Based Meditation but Not Mindfulness-Based Meditation Improves Emotion Regulation. Front. Psychol. 10:647
Skinner, B. F. (1992). “Superstition” in the pigeon. Journal of Experimental Psychology: General, 121(3), 273–274.
Ogden, T. H. (2010). On Three Forms of Thinking: Magical Thinking, Dream Thinking, and Transformative Thinking. The Psychoanalytic Quarterly, 79(2), 317–347.
Malancharuvil, J.M. Projection, Introjection, and Projective Identification: A Reformulation. American Journal of Psychoanalysis 64, 375–382 (2004).
Repetition, the Compulsion to Repeat, and the Death Drive - M. Andrew Holowchak and Michael Lavin: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781498570503/
The Self-Sabotage Cycle: Why We Repeat Behaviors That Create Hardships and Ruin Relationships - Stanley Rosner, Patricia Hermes: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780275990039/
Psychedelics and Psychotherapy by Tim Read, Maria Papaspyrou, Gabor Maté: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781644113325/
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/breaking-the-cycle-of-abuse-beverly-engel/
This is a polish of my 1st psychology video reuploaded: Adult children of dysfunctional parents are often a shocked when words come out of their mouths that sound exactly like their parents. A cycle of abuse that continues from generation to generation. Habits can operate unconsciously repeating what we didn’t like about our parents. How does it happen and how can it be stopped?
Intro: 0:00
3 reasons why abuse is repeated: 3:18
3 ways to stop the cycle of abuse 4:37
Walking a new path 6:32
Stock photos from Storyblocks.
Breaking the Cycle of Abuse - Beverly Engel: Kindle: https://amzn.to/37fAHm9 Paperback: https://amzn.to/3qc6z3W
https://beverlyengel.com/
Psychology Today article:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-compassion-chronicles/201501/healing-the-shame-childhood-abuse-through-self-compassion
Music:
Beethoven - Violin Sonata no. 9 'Kreutzer', Op. 47 performed by Edward Auer
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PR21xlDFrGw
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/mindfulness-letting-go/
After eroding a pathological Super-ego with mindfulness and concentration one can take advantage of the pleasures of Positive Psychology. For many this is their stopping point, but for others there is even more to meditation. Commentary and suggestions from positive psychology, Upasika Kee Nanayon, Rob Burbea, Thanissaro Bhikkhu, and @Adyashanti.
Intro: 0:00
Replacements: 0:24
Healthy nihilism: 8:04
Letting go: 18:13
All photos, videos and music from Storyblocks, Pexels and Wikipedia
Resources:
Savoring: A New Model of Positive Experience - Bryant and Veroff: eTextbook: https://amzn.to/3lnTFvU Paperback: https://amzn.to/3lkyOK2
Of Hermits and Lovers: The Alchemy of Desire - Rob Burbea and Catherine McGee: https://dharmaseed.org/retreats/3383/
Pure and Simple - Upasika Kee Nanyon: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3ljIk01 Paperback: https://amzn.to/39q2dA9
Tracy, N. (2012, January 12). Types of Addiction: List of Addictions, HealthyPlace. Retrieved on 2020, September 5 from https://www.healthyplace.com/addictions/addictions-information/types-of-addiction-list-of-addictions
Adyashanti - August 26, 2020 - https://youtu.be/heW7w3cQtDk
Stop eating roadkill - Thanissaro Bhikkhu: https://www.dhammatalks.org/Archive/y2020/200806_Stop_Eating_Roadkill.mp3
Adjust the flame - Thanissaro Bhikkhu: https://www.dhammatalks.org/Archive/y2020/200916_Adjust_the_Flame.mp3
Being shameless is good for you - Marisa Peer: https://youtu.be/PBg7iSdDZBM
Photo credit:
Upasika Kee Nanayon: By Source, Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=55507720
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iekCpuNqmek
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/the-ego-the-id-and-the-superego-sigmund-freud/
Freud theorizes how the conceptual ego is developed.
Intro: 0:00
Id: 1:21
Repression: 13:57
Ego: 28:08
Super-ego: 42:05
Outro: 1:03:40
Resources:
The Ego and the Id - Sigmund Freud: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3o3FYUP Paperback: https://amzn.to/3q5F5ga
On Metapsychology - Sigmund Freud: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3fNkOam
The Uncanny- Sigmund Freud: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3o5PI0B Paperback: https://amzn.to/3fRxgWH
All photos, videos, music and sound effects from Storyblocks, Pexels, and Wikipedia
Music:
Beethoven - Violin Sonata no. 9 'Kreutzer', Op. 47 - II. Andante con Variazioni Edward Auer
Beethoven - Variations and Fugue in E 'Eroica', Op. 35 - Ivan Ilic
Bach - Cello Suite no. 6 in D, BWV 1012 - Colin Carr
Photos:
Sisyphus tries the other way - By Sam Beebe/Ecotrust, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=53170774
Earth at the last glacial maximum of the current ice age. By Ittiz - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=9237442
Hunter gatherer's camp at Irish National Heritage Park Exhibit showing how a 7000 B.C. campsite of Mesolithic period hunter gatherers would have looked. By David Hawgood, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=13976927
Restos de la antigua ciudad romana de Segóbriga, en Saelices (Cuenca) By Zarateman - Own work, CC BY 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=16561646
Nature reserve in Styria By Thilo Parg - Own work, CC BY-SA 3.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=26636873
Anak kucing yang sedang terlelap dalam tidur By Karunia El Prita A. - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=83305709
The sleeping cat By Pietro & Silvia from Italy - the sleeping cat, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=82615706
Deutsche FotothekInnenansicht des Gangs in einem Schlafwagen By Deutsche Fotothek, CC BY-SA 3.0 de, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=7951120
Deutsche FotothekAnsicht des Waschraums in einem Schlafwagen By Deutsche Fotothek, CC BY-SA 3.0 de, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=7951124
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Le_jw0YgTwo
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/a-child-is-being-beaten-sigmund-freud/
Sigmund Freud had a lot of trouble with self-defeating patients, especially 'The Wolfman.' He was influenced to study masochism because of recurring beating fantasies indulged by his patients.
Intro: 0:00
A Child is Being Beaten: 0:24
Masochism: 4:11
Cognitive Dissonance: 10:10
Resources:
A Child is being beaten - Sigmund Freud: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3mqQ6qo
Psychoanalytic Diagnosis - Nancy McWilliams: Kindle: https://amzn.to/3qdGT6L Paperback: https://amzn.to/2Joir1K
Masochism - Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, Gilles Deleuze, Jean McNeil: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3mm568T Hardcover: https://amzn.to/2Jnca6J
WNAAD 2020 telesummit - Sandra Brown: https://mailchi.mp/0757ecf26ab1/2020-survivor-empowerment-summit
Women who love Psychopaths - Sandra Brown: Paperback: https://amzn.to/3llzgrx
All photos and from Wikipedia, Pexels, and Storyblocks
Music:
Beethoven - Violin Sonata no. 9 'Kreutzer', Op. 47 performed by Edward Auer
Photo:
Corridor and entrance to Psychology clinic and Consulting rooms(Level 2) in Science and Graduate School of Health Building UTS By Con.archi - Own work, CC BY-SA 4.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=43593566
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g_-_9TgTQWg
Blog: http://psychreviews.org/ikigai/
Before embarking on Jungian Analytical Psychology, there needs to be a warning against too much striving with personality assessments. The best way to individuate, or to develop your MBTI personality type, is to enjoy yourself and to take pleasure while making those changes. That pleasure can be called many things but I grouped it under the Japanese term Ikigai, which roughly translates into "reason to live/exist/be."
This review goes beyond the concept and drills down into the Psychology of Flow, The Law of Attraction, The Opponent-Process Theory, Meditation, and the challenges we have in being happy while bumping into everyone else.
Intro: 0:00
The Problem with Self-development and Striving: 2:28
Ikigai: 17:18
Blocks to Flow: 31:12
Visualization: 38:21
Overview of Flow: 1:06:12
The Opponent-process Theory: 1:40:19
Video and photos from Pexels and Wikipedia. Audio from Audioblocks.
Resources:
Ikigai: Giving every day meaning and joy - Yukari Mitsuhashi: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780857835406/
Ikigai - Héctor García: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781786330895/
How to Ikigai - Tim Tamashiro: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781633539006/
Awakening your Ikigai - Ken Mogi: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781615194759/
Flow and the Foundations of Positive Psychology: The Collected Works of Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9789402405514/
The Essential Law of Attraction Collection - Esther & Jerry Hicks: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781401950040/
The Opponent Process Theory of Acquired Motivation - Richard Solomon: https://gettingstronger.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/Solomon-Opponent-Process-1980.pdf
Act Like A Leader, Think Like A Leader - Herminia Ibarra: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9781422184127/
The Experience of Meaning - Jan Zwicky: https://www.isbns.net/isbn/9780773557437/
Ikigai chart: https://singularityhub.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/ikigai-chart-reason-for-being_1088160854.jpg
Letting Go: https://youtu.be/iekCpuNqmek
Flow: https://youtu.be/qpeIf8Zcriw
How to motivate yourself - Freud and Beyond: https://youtu.be/TliZGrddzsA
Orwell's final warning - Picture of the future - TJOP: https://youtu.be/9k_ptxWsadI
Abraham Hicks - When you do this they will come to your level: https://youtu.be/Z1NEM3g0xL4
John Vervaeke - How To Deal With Losing Friends As You Develop - Chris Williamson: https://youtu.be/DSPJKuX5Cno
Jordan Peterson - How To Deal With Losing Friends As You Grow - Chris Williamson: https://youtu.be/ApoxLQuk06s
“We live in a time when smart people are being silenced so that stupid people won’t be offended.” - Sky News Australia Suspended - Alan Jones: https://www.skynews.com.au/opinion/alan-jones/the-challenge-to-free-speech-is-real-with-youtubes-sky-news-australia-suspension/
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQpaqqdddzk