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4 C’s of a BPD Relationship Impossibility
BPD Ghosted/Discarded You - Asking Your Ex “Why?”
After being split to a major devaluation split, ghosted, or discarded, staying in contact or open to contact and asking your on/off or BPD Ex why did they do what they did is codependent self-abandonment. Pw/BPD can often intellectually articulate pieces of “reasons” and endless false accusations about how, for them, it’s all your fault - when it’s not.
Emotionally they, more often than not, really don’t know why they do what they do. Doing this - asking the pw/BPD “Why” etc is going to continue to increase your pain and rumination.
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After being split to a major devaluation split, ghosted, or discarded, staying in contact or open to contact and asking your on/off or BPD Ex why did they do what they did is codependent self-abandonment. Pw/BPD can often intellectually articulate pieces of “reasons” and endless false accusations about how, for them, it’s all your fault - when it’s not.
Emotionally they, more often than not, really don’t know why they do what they do. Doing this - asking the pw/BPD “Why” etc is going to continue to increase your pain and rumination.
https://ajmahari.ca/sessions
#ajmahari #WhyBPDghost #codependency
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BzglMSn4h9w
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