BPD Ex or Loved Ones How Do You Tell pwBPD Have It and Make a Borderline Go to Therapy?
BPD Loved Ones How Do You Tell and Make a Borderline Go to Therapy?
BPD loved ones how do you tell and make a borderline loved one go to therapy? You can't and you don't. Being the one to tell them that you think the borderline in your life has BPD is not recommended.
BPD loved ones how do you make a borderline loved one go to therapy? You can't. You don't. I realize this question which is often asked is asked because people really want their relationship with someone with BPD in whatever relationship type to work. You can make a person w/BPD or suspected to be borderline go to therapy.
BPD Discards & Deceptive Social Media Games
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After a BPD discard or being ghosted by a borderline don't fall for their social media trap of deception and social media games. All those suddenly "happy" pics of your Ex with that new person, they are manipulated, staged, and not a true depiction of your Borderline Ex being so "happy" as if the next relationship attempt is working or will last. It won't.
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The vast majority of us (often in spite of how our parents may well have failed us) learn the social norms, values, and morals of what form the basis of what is a social contract that we live within a common yet individual understanding of to varying degrees that fit with averagely healthy relating. This is not true of a Narcissist or a Sociopath or Psychopath. When we encounter or are trying to relate to one of these personality disordered individuals, we can be, without realizing it, trapped by the very social contract and social norms that we value and that we live by.
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BPD EX - 3 Stages of Limerence- Go No Contact To Heal and break the betrayal bond.
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Surviving BPD and Narc Relationship Trauma Codependency Is A Mental Health Issue Therapy To Heal
Surviving bpd and Narc or NPD relationship trauma means realizing codependency is a mental heath issue and that therapy is the way to heal and recover. Codependency is not the old "addiction" definition. Codependency is mental health challenge as the result of trauma.
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Surviving BPD and Narc Relationship Trauma Codependency Is A Mental Health Issue Therapy To Heal
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I Want My BPD Ex Back But He/She Needs To Change
Originally Recorded July 28/23
You want your BPD Ex back he or she needs to change and yet in your relationship you tried so hard to change them and it didn't work. You can't change them, only yourself. Wanting your Ex back should be your red flag of how much you haven't changed. Pursuing getting a BPD Ex back is a massive avoidance of self and you don't know how to let it go and have it end because then what you do with yourself? You are trying in vain to recapture the initial idealization phase. That's not possible either. Nor is the BPD Relationship.
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Borderline Entitlement is so myopic. You are not considered. You are not seen or heard. Borderline entitlement exists and doesn’t mean people with BPD are narcissists.
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People, especially, the child and then adult-child of a parent or parents, in relationship to or with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Anti Social Personality Disorder, are often unknowingly attached in very unhealthy ways. This type of bond, a is not at all a healthy bond or healthy attachment - it is addiction. People do feel attached so strongly that it feels like it will destroy you. Clients have often described this to me as feeling that something broke and that they are so broken now. This can bring about strong feelings of need for the Cluster B in spite of the high conflict, and confusion the often used tactic, among others, of intermittent reinforcement that fools you back into biting a hook again, if even for a short time.
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