We all mess up, goof blunder, and even make a mistake or two. So when you do mess up, you are actually damaging the bonds of a relationship. To start the healing process, there needs to be an admission of the wrongdoing. So when you apologize, what way do you say "I'm sorry"? Do you just say "sorry" and go on with your life or do you say it as you mean it? What is the best way that you can help yourself and the person slighted repair the relationship? There are a few steps in this process and you can get the details in this video but the biggest key is owning your dirt. Take full responsibility for what you did. Tell them why YOU are wrong not them. Why did your action cause harm? When you are apologizing fessing to the fact that you messed up is only a small part of the process. You need to communicate that you know why what you did was wrong. Express your plan on how you are going to repair the problem. Again you are taking ownership of what you did. Apologizing and just leaving it to the other person to decide how to fix it doesn't fix the mistake. You made the blunder and now you need to repair it. Give your plan on how you will take control of your actions. Then you Shut up and let the person talk. Give them all the time they want. Then they can decide if they accept your apology or not, and they don't have to. That is important to understand that can choose to accept your apology but not forgive you. There are a lot of options that can go one. but at least you owned your responsibility and you tried to make amends. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nTBlXfI0x60

The Model Series The Model Circumstance Thought Feeling Action Results Your results This is the last line of your model. When done correctly you will have the results reflect back to your thought line. If you don't get it you have more than likely mixed up your models. Why is the results important? It shows you whats actually happening in your life It is proof that you are on the right tract when you are trying to take massive action With the right results you will be able to atain your goals. Examples If you are wanting to lose weight you can see if your thought of "why am I so fat?", is actually allowing you to lose the weight. Hint it's not. The results line shows you if you are making progress at making $10,000 a month in your new business. If you aren't you can see why. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvN0Xz3Er48

Today's topic is about being successful. Why are you having trouble finding success in your financial life, or maybe the relationship between you and your son? The reasons are numerous, or should I say excuses are numerous. The truth is you have all the same abilities to be successful as the next person so why are you not on top of the world? The heart of the matter is how you are thinking of the solution. This episode sort of ties together the why Gratitude, and the abundant mindset work. Why the scarcity mindset keeps us playing it small. The term being used to this all-encompassing bond is the Laws of Attraction. These laws have been stated in one form or another for years. From before the time, Napoleon Hill interviewed Andrew Carnegie for his Mental Dynamite Series to today. The term of Laws of attraction comes from Jerry and Esther Hicks. How the came to the term is a bit of the questionable side. Because the term is from Abraham who is a non-physical being channeled through Esther. Yeah, so you see why I say questionable. Any how Abraham coins the term Laws of Attraction and these are three laws that work with each other. The laws are The Law of attraction the law of Deliberate thought and The Law of Allowing The law of attraction is what allows the universe to bring to you what you want. That does have some key points to look at like bads things? yep, those too. This isn't just a feel-good force it brings whatever you want. A bad day? That's coming if your thoughts aren't right. The Deliberate thought law is how you focus your mind so that you are able to bring deliberate results into your life. While the Law of allowing is why you are not able to help others with their wants unless they truly want that help too. Also looking for men who would like to be a part of a group of like-minded men who are determined to have success in their lives. We are part accountability group part cheerleaders part brothers. If you are interested in joining this group please join the Conclave of Men ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-m2pN-mqjc

Any question leading to sex. Why We struggle with talking about sex It requires you to be vulnerable We take complaints personally We have biases Isn’t sex supposed to just happen and always be good? Or you can’t have sex like that! Pushback is a threat to our beliefs We make sex mean something Why are these most intimate topics so difficult for us to talk about? Especially, when it is with the one person we are supposed to be able to openly and freely talk to. What is holding us back from asking about sex and talking openly? Judged Rejection It’s not comfortable = Embarrassing We weren’t taught to advocate for ourselves Shame What are the hardest questions to ask centered around sex? Some Questions you might want to ask? What did you learn about sex growing up and how did you learn? What would you like me to do? What do you not like for me to do? What do you wish I did more of? Where do you like to be touched, and where do you not like to be touched? When do you like to have sex? What allows you to feel the sexiest? What was your biggest surprise when you had sex? What was your biggest surprise when you had sex with me? Did you ever have an event that negatively impacted what you think of sex? The most challenging question is Would you like to have sex? Summary The episode focuses on the challenges men face in discussing sex and intimacy with their wives. The host, Brian, acknowledges that sex is an important part of marriage for most men as a way to show love and feel loved by their spouse. However, many men struggle when their sex life declines or their wife no longer desires sex as frequently. Brian outlines some of the main reasons why men have difficulty talking about sex: It requires being vulnerable, and men tend to take any criticism or complaints personally. People have biases and differing beliefs around certain sexual acts like oral sex, bondage, etc. which makes those topics awkward to discuss. There is shame and taboo around discussing sex from societal conditioning that sex is “dirty.” Men were never taught to properly advocate for their wants/needs, especially something as intimate as sex. There is a fear of rejection, as men have likely been turned down for sex many times before in the relationship. The host suggests that rather than making assumptions or turning to pornography out of frustration, men need to have open conversations with their wives about sex. He provides example questions to help start the dialogue, such as asking about sexual experiences growing up, acts they would/wouldn’t want to try, times of day they prefer sex, and if there are any past negative experiences impacting their sexuality. Ultimately, the most challenging part is simply asking “Would you like to have sex?” But Brian encourages men to overcome the awkwardness and shame to advocate for their desire for intimacy and connection through sex. He offers his coaching services to help men improve their ability to discuss these topics with their wives. Take The Next Step You can have your relationship dreams come true. You can by taking the next step. You can have a relationship that is fun, loving, and fulfilling. You can have late nights of curiosity-fueled talks. All this is possible when you get coached. Right now I am making a very special offer that will only last for a limited time. If you are interested in Getting coached for 95% off Then sign up quickly cause the space is limited and they are filling fast. TAKE THE NEXT STEP ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPH9-oNXTyg