12 How can I make the most of the rest of my life?
Episode 12 Alpha Film Series
Weekend Away (4) - Alpha Questions “How Can I Make the Most of the Rest of My Life?” (Q of L, Chp 15)
Icebreaker: Are you the type of person to set goals and make resolutions or do you prefer to be spontaneous in life?
1. In what ways does the world try to squeeze us into its mould? How can we resist this pressure? 2. The Biblical context of a sexual relationship is within the lifelong commitment in marriage between one man and one woman. What dangers are there in going outside these boundaries? 3. What would you say to someone who has crossed these boundaries and now regrets what he/she has done? (if not Christian, become a “new creation”, fresh start, born again; if Christian, confess, accept God’s forgiveness) 4. Tonight Nicky said, “Until we leave the rubbish behind, we cannot enjoy the wonderful things God has for us.” What are some examples of these rubbish things in life? 5. What are some practical ways we can make the most of our lives in these areas Nicky mentioned: time –relationship with God & others; ambitions, possessions & money, body – ears, eyes, mouth, hands 6. The Bible mentions numerous times that God loves us and wants the very best for our lives. Why is it sometimes difficult to believe this? (we believe the devil’s lies instead)
Episode 10 Alpha Film Series
Weekend Away (2) - Alpha Questions
“What Does the Holy Spirit Do?” (Q of L, Chp 9)
Icebreaker: Have your parents shared with you any stories about the
day you were born? Anything out of the ordinary? Can you share them
with us?
1. What do you think about this idea of being “born of the Spirit” or
“born again”?
2. How does the Holy Spirit work in our lives even if we are not
Christian? (convicts us of sin & our need for Jesus, convinces us of Truth,
helps us put our faith in Jesus)
3. What changes have you noticed in your life since beginning your
spiritual journey / or since becoming a Christian? (attitude, values,
desires, character)
“The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” Galatians 5:22
4. Nicky said that one of the benefits of being adopted into God’s family
is having ‘new brothers and sisters’ and that we need to ‘make every
effort to keep the unity’ (Ephesians 4:3). What are some ways we can
keep the unity?
5. How does the Holy Spirit help us develop our relationship with
God? (The Holy Spirit helps us to pray and to understand God’s Word.)
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Ask the group if they have any questions about being born again and
having a personal relationship with God. Depending on your group and
leadership style, you can invite people to come to you after the group if
they would like to accept Jesus as Lord and Saviour of their lives.
Another option would be to lead the group in the salvation prayer, and
invite everyone to pray out loud as you lead them. Encourage them to
come talk to you one on one if they would like more information about
being a Christian.
Episode 04 Alpha Film Series
Week 3 ~ Alpha Questions
“How Can I Be Sure of My Faith?” (Q of L, Chp 4)
Icebreaker: If you were filling out a form that asked your religion, what
would you write?
1. What do you think it means to have a “relationship” with God?
2. Nicky said that it is important to base our faith on the promises of
the Bible rather than on our own feelings. Why is that so important?
(feelings change & deceive us)
3. What were some of the promises in the Bible that Nicky talked
about tonight? (He will never leave us, we can have fullness of life now &
eternal life) Which of those promises is most meaningful for you?
4. Do you think it is arrogant of someone to say they are sure they are
going to heaven? (yes, if it depended on our own good works!)
5. What are some examples of people trying to be ‘good enough’ for
God to be pleased with them?
6. Nicky said the Holy Spirit helps us to be sure of our faith in Christ,
because we see changes in our lives. What changes have you
experienced in your character or relationships with others (little or
significant)?
7. Last week we talked about “Why did Jesus Die?”. Tonight Nicky
spoke about that again. How is the death of Jesus relevant to you?
Episode 09 Alpha Film Series
Weekend Away (1) - Alpha Questions
“Who is the Holy Spirit?” (Q of L, Chp 8)
Icebreaker: What was your concept of the Holy Spirit (Holy Ghost,
Spirit of God) before watching this video? Has your opinion changed at
all?
1. Nicky talks about the work of the Holy Spirit & how He still changes
lives today. Have you seen a difference in your life or in others who
became Christians? (peace, freedom from addictions, broken
relationships restored, etc)
2. Nicky says that “rivers of living water” will flow through us. How can
we show God’s forgiveness, hope, acceptance, love, healing to others?
3. What are some ways we can focus on the Holy Spirit and be filled
with the Holy Spirit? (pray, read Bible, music, meditate, etc)
4. In the video, Nicky explains what happened on the Day of Pentecost
and speaking in tongues. Have you heard of this before? What are
your thoughts?
Remind your guests that the rest of the talks this weekend will explain
more about the Holy Spirit, so if they have a lot of questions, they may
be answered by the end of the weekend.
Episode 15 Alpha Film Series
Week 9 ~ Alpha Questions
“Does God Heal Today?” (Q of L, Chp 13)
Icebreaker: Do you know anyone who has been healed miraculously?
What was the circumstance?
1. Nicky shared a few stories from the Old and New Testament (Bible)
about people who were healed, and said that healing still applies to us
today. What do you think?
2. In the video, Nicky said “the commission to heal is for all of us.”
What do you think about ordinary Christians being used by God to
heal other people?
3. Not everyone we pray for will be healed, but it is important to
reassure people of God’s love for them regardless of whether they are
healed or not. How can we ensure this?
4. Have you heard of the Second Coming of Jesus and the ‘age to
come’? How do you feel about this?
5. What are some ways God can heal people emotionally? Mentally?
Socially? Financially?
Allow enough time at the end of the group to pray for each other.
Perhaps have all the women together in one group and all the men in
another group, so they will feel more free to share.
“Let’s take this opportunity to pray specifically for healing at this time.
We will go around the group and share one or two things you’d like
healing for, either for yourself or someone you know.
Let’s support each other by praying for the person on our right, pray one
or two simple sentences. If you’d rather not pray, feel free to just tell the
person next to you, “I’ll pass, go ahead” and that’s perfectly fine.” The
leader should begin and end the prayer.
Episode 07 Alpha Film Series
Week 6 ~ Alpha Questions
“How Does God Guide Us?” (Q of L, Chp 7)
Icebreaker: What are some ways people try to find out their future?
(Horoscopes, tarot cards, palm reading, etc)
1. How do you feel about the idea of being guided by God? Is that
comforting or scary?
2. What do you think of the idea of God having a plan for your life? Do
you prefer to plan your own life or glad that God is in control?
3. Nicky talked about 5 ways in which God speaks to people today.
Have you ever experienced any of these? (Go through each one)
a) Commanding Scripture – through reading the Bible
b) Compelling Spirit – as an impression/desire on your heart
c) Common Sense – thinking rationally & practically about a situation
d) Counsel of Saints – through the advice/feedback from godly Christians
e) Circumstantial Signs – as God opens doors/closes doors
4. What suggestions would you make to someone who was looking for
a “spiritual advisor”? (mature Christians, wisdom & experience)
5. What should we do when the answer we need from God is taking a
long time? (trust in God’s timing & His ways/method)
6. What should we do if we have made a “mess of our lives”?
(never too late or too messed up; Joel 2:25, “God will restore the years the
locusts have eaten”)
Episode 08 Alpha Film Series
Weekend Away (1) - Alpha Questions
“Who is the Holy Spirit?” (Q of L, Chp 8)
Icebreaker: What was your concept of the Holy Spirit (Holy Ghost,
Spirit of God) before watching this video? Has your opinion changed at
all?
1. Nicky talks about the work of the Holy Spirit & how He still changes
lives today. Have you seen a difference in your life or in others who
became Christians? (peace, freedom from addictions, broken
relationships restored, etc)
2. Nicky says that “rivers of living water” will flow through us. How can
we show God’s forgiveness, hope, acceptance, love, healing to others?
3. What are some ways we can focus on the Holy Spirit and be filled
with the Holy Spirit? (pray, read Bible, music, meditate, etc)
4. In the video, Nicky explains what happened on the Day of Pentecost
and speaking in tongues. Have you heard of this before? What are
your thoughts?
Remind your guests that the rest of the talks this weekend will explain
more about the Holy Spirit, so if they have a lot of questions, they may
be answered by the end of the weekend.