This video is brought to you by a donation from Mr. Anonymous and here's what he has to say: "Good day Sandman. I'm a 42 year old male living in New York city. I own my own business and have finally broken through to where I could reasonably call myself established (even by New York ) standards. In addition I have an athletic build and possessing slightly above average looks but have never had a girlfriend. My only prospect at this point is to find an arrangement with a sugar baby but I find this difficult knowing I'm paying for much LESS than what the girl next door gives away for free to every chad in the zip code. Even though I'm aware of the fact that we pay one way or another I've always felt a difference between "good" gold diggers and "bad' gold diggers in that the former isn't aware of what she's doing and will tell herself that she values such qualities as stability and generosity while the latter is aware of the predatory nature of what's happening. I at the very least after having sacrificed so much time, energy and even health to have something for myself want a "good" gold digger. I'm willing to provide for somebody, even if she's subjected herself to every sexual act imaginable. I just don't want to get used by someone in a tactical calculating way. I notice there's a tendency for young incels and guys like me to romanticize the situation and turn against one another. I don't know if this is a consolation or aggravation but to the younger guys with no money but believe me it doesn't get any better with some wealth. If anything it's more dangerous because you'll be actively victimized instead of just ignored by the vast majority of women. I don't think it's in line with human nature for men to truly go their own way if one looks at the rate of death including suicide by single men. Yes the grass is always greener but you're under the grass if you're over 50 and still single as a guy. I have also noticed a trend among chads demonstrating how little they value their groupies is to have them put on live sex shows with multiple men. They call this cuckolding as I'm sure you are aware and it's often framed and sold to the women, much like feminism that it is actually empowering and an act of dominance to get ripped apart by other men for the entertainment of their partners in a fruitless attempt to get chads to commit to them. I guess what i'm asking in some regard is how I could possibly harness my wealth in a way to make my never ending search for a regular sexual partner of in an efficient manner. PS I'm misunderstanding the whole essence of mgtow in a sense as I was correlating with "inceldom" of which is a category I more clearly fall into. In fact in some sense it's impossible for an incel to be mgtow because as you said you need something to walk away from. It sounds like you fall into the category of men who CAN be in a relationship if you wanted and attribute traditional marriage as the source of danger for most men.
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Grace. She wants me to cover an article called: "I waited until I was 41 years old to have sex. Here's what I learned in my many years as a virgin." by a woman named Amanda McCracken. First of all does anyone seriously believe this story? She also started having children in her early forties. So what was she doing for the age of twenty to forty except for working on her journalism career? When Amanda was 16 she was part of what his known as a True Love Waits ceremony where she pledge to wait until marriage to have sex. She said that she dated 100 men in the span of 20 years before having intercourse as she puts it. That probably means she was doing everything up to that point. She also read a popular essay for New York Times when she was 35 called Does my virginity have a shelf life? Only in clown world can a 35 or 40 year old female virgin be rewarded for her choice while if it's a 40 year old virgin they make movies making fun of him where he would rather play with action figures instead of females. What's really sad about Amanda's story is that she says it took her over two decades and 100 men later before she found a partner that loves her unconditionally. To me that means she met a partner that lived up to her lofty expectations but he was still naive and able to fall in love after all those years and bond with someone because he hadn't bonded with too many other women before that. He hadn't received the typical emotional baggage men receive from getting divorce raped because it was amicable. Maybe he's a widow or he just never married. But I saw pictures of the two of them and their kid on Instagram and he's tall, slender, got all his own hair and looks like the perfect 45 to 50 year old Ken Doll. He has much higher sexual marketplace value than she does. But even with all that said I have a really hard time believing that she's a virgin. First of all because of her so called virginity up to the age of 41 she would probably be considered on the right politically because she's a Christian. Do you really expect all the big woke papers like the New York Times to let a so called Christian conservative post a story about how virtuous she is and that she's waiting for the right man. If anything women on the left would promote the idea that women on the right should stay virgins. Because if they do most normal guys won't stick around if a woman won't let them stick it in her. You've got to wonder what Amanda's agenda is here? If there even is one. I'll discuss more in a moment but let me first tell everyone about today's sponsor The Red Pill Ring:
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This video is brought to you a donation from Thomas. He didn't give me a specific topic so what I want to discuss why the black pill is spreading so much where guys are giving up hope with relationships as teenagers and accepting their fate in inceldom and why it's happening. Over the last three or four months Stardusk The Thinking Ape, probably the second MGTOW content creator after Barbarossaaaa has been creating content that caters to black pilled incels instead of red pilled MGTOWs. A while back he put out a video called the Black Pill Rage saying that it doesn't really exist and is more likely to be more of a malaise that guys never get out of. That red pilled MGTOW guys figured out women ten years ago and then we went on with life and did something different to help us build up our self esteem. He says there doesn't appear to be an exit for most black pillers. That they should go from a period where they criticise women and and society and into a period of discernment. That they have the correct assessment but now need to figure out what comes next. Stardusk says that a 19 year old doomer sounds like a 70 year old doomer and that both groups have given up hope on life. Why is that? I don't know but I'd care to wager that it probably has something to do with lower testosterone levels in men in general these days. Because they have the equivalent level of testosterone of a 65 or 70 year old did forty years ago. Low testosterone is linked to less risk taking behavior in your life. Young guys are supposed to take risks yet young men getting their drivers licenses is at an all time low. What ever happened to young men taking crazy risks on the road? I would love to take a look at those statistics if someone knows where to find them. Stardusk can rationalize all he wants and criticize black pillers for their behavior but it's very likely that the reason they have given up on life is because of testosterone and possibly because of the old term good times make weak men. You have to suffer physically or financially through the possibility of rejection by a girl and for many young guys it's much easier just to fap off to adult content right there on your phone. Stardusk was known as the most grumpy and negative in red pill MGTOW circles. But now he sounds like the most optimistic in the black pill circles. Maybe he should tell his new
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Thomas. He didn't give me a topic so what I'm going to do for this video is cover the relatively recent announcement by Demi Lovato that she now sees herself as non-binary and for the second half of the video I'm going to discuss why living in a Van or RV and travelling across the country is a bad idea even though it's trendy. Why it's bad from a financial, environmental and social standpoint. As for Demi I was a fan of hers for years now and if you know her collaboration with Clean Bandit on the song Solo you'll see that one of the top comments is from me where I said that I smell a hit. That video is getting close to a billion views and I knew it would blow up when I heard it. People say you can't spot a hit song. I beg to differ. When I first heard Avicii's Level's and Wake Me Up I knew they would be instant hits. The same with Major Lazor Lean On as well as anything by Dua Lipa after she did her collaboration with Calvin Harris. All of those songs have an intoxicating energy about them that when you hear them you just get the compulsion to keep playing them over and over again like a drug until you get sick and tired of them. I also find tons of awesome artists that have songs that would easily be hit songs if the artists were better looking or they got promotion. It's like finding a stock that's undervalued and buying it and then pointing it out to others and then they buy it and your stock rises in value. As for Demi she came out as Non-Binary and has a new podcast where she talks to trans people and I'll discuss what I think is going on in just a moment but let me first tell everyone about today's sponsor Me The Sandman: Anyways, now back to people trying to make more money by trying not to identify with only one gender show. Demi is about to hit thirty years of age in a year from now. She's put on weight and her star is waning. So I'm going to go out on limb here and say this may not necessarily be about her coming out and expressing her new gender idea. This reminds me of Tove Lo, the famous Swedish singer that uses sexual ambiguity to cater to women as well as men. Look at her earlier videos and she dresses in very feminine ways and in the last two or three years she no longer wears a bra on stage and is starting to look like a lesbian from the 1990s. Like she's trying reinvent herself to go for the LGBTQRSLMNOP market because maybe her looks aren't drawing in the same attention from men like she used to. Then in the end she still married a man named Charlie. So I'm predicting that Demi is still going to find and marry a man in five years but will keep this new image going to cater to a smaller and more dedicated lesbian fan base. It's the same Tove Lo play book. I put a video of hers from 2019 from Tove Lo that caters to lesbian and bi women. But that video only has 12 million views which is nothing compared to earlier videos that have hundreds of millions of views. When you're under 25 or 26 men like you and will listen to your music. After that your popularity fades so you've got to reinvent yourself. So Demi now wears bright multi colored blazers with what I'd like to call stealth technology for fat chicks so you can't actually see their shape. Plus she has a round face from gaining wight and a bowl cut from dumb and dumber. All she needs to do is chip her front tooth and she'll look like Jim Carrey. She's also got those sexy Star Trek sideburns.
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"Hi Sandman, Please correct my writing if necessary as I am not a native English speaker. I am a 35 year old MGTOW struggling with social acceptance. I live in a pretty conservative state where single men are viewed as losers or even potential predators. But I am a former businessman and thanks to the last 3 very good years in my business I could achieve my early retirement this year!! Also I am a good guy and a sweetheart according to my friends so I feel bad and rejected for being taken as a 'loser' or potential criminal in some social circumstances just because I am not carrying a woman by my side. Usually I have fun travelling, and have been in Asia, South America, the United States and all over Europe. I also like to do hiking trips and related 'nature stuff'. Sounds like a lot of fun, but I am still struggling with society. I could hire an female escort specialised for these social conventions. She would be paid to be my female validation when needed. What are your thoughts on that?" Well Leo thanks for your donation and topic request. I'm not 100% sure if you're paying the escort for female approval in addition to sex. But female validation is a tricky thing. If you're paying an escort for attention and approval it's paid approval. She probably wouldn't talk to you or date you if she was a regular girl and you were a regular guy. Yes she's selling the drug of sex but also the drug of female validation. Most men are paying for female validation all the time and they don't even realise it. When you go to a restaurant and a hot waitress serves you and messes up your order you might still leave her a tip. If you do then you aren't paying her for her service so much as you are paying for her attention and validation. The same goes for bars with female bartenders. A female smile from a young store clerk or cashier is also all about paying for female validation. She is there to serve you and acknowledge the fact that you as a man exist. The same thing happens when you enter a Starbucks and the woman behind the counter serves you. All of those products you are buying added in their price have taxes, gratuities and female validation. That's why most companies use women as their front line service staff. Companies know it's not just about female validation from sex but other things as well that men crave. So Leo when you ask me what I think about you hiring an escort for sex you need to relax and realise that you probably pay women for their validation and attention on a daily basis by simply going to a store or restaurant.
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Fat Cat and here's what she has to say: "Hello Sandman, When my son was learning to walk we took him to an indoor playground. I don't like these places, but I played with him anyway. He took a nap after we got back home. His dad said I'm different from other moms in the way I play with him. I'd like to roughhouse a lot as kid, but that was not it. My son tried to walk on a balance beam for a bit and almost fell. I just kept him in place and let him find his balance on his own. Apparently thats not what other moms where doing. The kids either fell or never got a change to correct themselves. My time with my son is limited and there is no one more aware of that then myself. So, yes I'm generally an absent parent. I've seen a lot of absent parents in and outside my family. I have uncles on both side who had kids with different women. They are absent, but still take care of there kids financialy. I don't see the problem. My dad was pretty much absent do to work and my mom had other things to deal with. Growing up my eldest sister was the go to adult unless one of my parents was around. After she moved out my parents made sure there was an adult around until most of us where adults. Apart from my mother I'm not to familiar with absentee moms that didn't pass away or ran off somewhere. Some moms seem to be able to be fiscally present and mentally absent. The time I or his dad can't spend with our son, I make sure he gets to be somewhere he can enjoy himself and make some friends. Since he is pretty easy going he is welcome at most places. I'm not sure how not to be as overbearing and yet uninvolved as my parents. I remember it being annoying and confusing. If you have any suggestions I'd like to hear them." Well Fat Cat thanks for the donation and topic. No you're not crazy and abandoning your child but I struggled to summarize your situation so I used some click bait. I think that everyone needs to know that you have had health issues after an accident that has left you dealing with sensitivity to sounds which is usually one of the hallmarks of post traumatic stress disorder. A hundred years ago you would have been sent off to the crazy cat lady looney bin and been electrocuted until all you could do is smile. As to how not to be overbearing with your son, your only child that's tricky. Because you only have one child as opposed to three or four you just naturally have to be more protective because he's your only chance to pass down your genes. You're a millennial parent and they tend to be over protective. You didn't let him fall off the balancing beam and maybe you're virtue signalling that you're a good mom for doing so? That's what it sounds like to me. But you're hurting your son by not letting him fall. You've got to let him be independent and fall over and bruise himself up a bit so that he learns his physical limitations.
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Krampus and here's what he briefly has to say: "Hey Sandman, the great emancipater of men. Could you please give your thoughts on how men like myself are starting to play the exact same games that women play when dating? Why is this happening and what impact do you think this will have on relationships if this trend continues?" Well Krampus thanks for the donation and topic. I hope that you spoil some sluts Christmas. Playing psychological games is not strictly something that women do. But in an increasingly gynocentric world men don't have the ability to confront women directly about their misdeeds so we are increasingly forced to become like politicians when it comes to women. We are learning how to lie and keep a straight face. Whenever I've done this I've seen shock and horror once women realize it. Not lying directly per se. But behaving normally when you plan on ending a relationship when you've already planned your escape and she has no idea. Then when you spring the news they are shocked because they never saw it coming. Only when looking back can they now finally see the signs. A couple of women did this to me and I returned the favor. Why would I inflict the same pain women inflicted on me onto other women? I'll discuss this and more in just a moment but let me first tell everyone about today's sponsor The MGTOW Book Collection: Anyways, now back to clown world. So why are men taking on more feminine modes of thinking and behavior when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex? Camile Paglia explained this best in a video I put in the description when she had a conversation with Jordan Peterson. She said that when two men have dispute they would step outside the bar and have a fight and then go back insides as buddies as if nothing had happened. But when a man has a dispute with a woman in the workplace or in his personal life he can't hit her like men seemed to do in every new show set in the 1950s or 1960s. So men have no choice but to gaslight, be passive aggressive and learn to do what women have had to do to get their way with men throughout the ages. I've read articles where women would complain that men were being mean and nasty to them by mentally or emotionally manipulating them and they want men to stop and not be allowed to do that. But the thing is if men were forced to stop behaving like this then women would also be revealed as being evil puppet masters pulling tampon strings behind stage. I'm thinking that by complaining they are just hoping that the individual men reading such articles change their behavior since most men's biology is all about making sure that the world is safe and conformable for women. But I've seen men increasingly taking on feminine traits like gaslighting. Where wives and girlfriends would ask them to do something and they would do a terrible job and their significant other would lose their minds while the man was laughing inside at all the emotional abuse he just caused. I've said before that the secret to a happy relationship is to make sure your partner is more miserable then you are. The secret to a happy life is not to get into relationship in the first place. So men are gaslighting, mowing the lawn and then when the wife complains the guy says well if you're not happy with the job I did and appreciate all the hard work I put in then you mow it yourself. But the guy intentionally did a bad job so he could make that statement. A wife that is spiteful about having to cook dinner all the time in the 1960s might make the same statement after her husband complained about how the food she prepared for dinner was terrible.
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Erick and here's what he very briefly has to say: "Hey Sandman, I love what you are doing for us men. I just wanted you to cover my topic which is R Kelly is innocent and Surviving R Kelly is a joke." unquote. Well Erick thanks for the donation. I don't think there's enough content here to make a full video. I will share my thoughts about R. Kelly later in the second half of the video but first I wanted to cover something I came across on Reddit recently. Here's what Mr. Anonymous has to say and I quote: "This week my company announced their 2021 goals. The company has done really well in my tenure there, and is a "big tech" corporation. This year, they announced that they want AT LEAST 51% of all managerial roles to be occupied by women. Another way to put that goal is to say that they want at LEAST half of all managerial positions to NOT be occupied by men. I let that sink in for a minute and was completely disgusted. Everyone cheered it on as if they were completely blind to this unapologetically sexist goal. Of course another goal revolved around having a certain percentage of positions occupied by minorities. When you decide to completely throw out merit and run your business by playing identity politics, you're going to destroy the company from the inside. I don't understand how they can actually go through with this and not expect it to result in a performance decline. I have a pretty high paying job for my age and at this point this is not adversely affecting me yet as I'm not shooting for any kind of managerial role. However, I understand that it's only a matter of time before being a white male worker will land me on the chopping block. I'm keeping my options open for the near future. Unfortunately, I'm pretty sure all engineering companies in my area are operating with these same "goals" in mind, so for now I'm keeping my head down, investing in my 401(k), savings, BTC, and stocks. Hopefully will be able to quietly ease myself into an early retirement, where I am all but invisible to society. That seems to be the only option. No dating, no sex, no marriage. No stating opinions that go against what the left believes. Just be boring, stay invisible, and never discuss your assets. The only winning move is not to play, with women or with society." unquote. Well Erick as I was saying I'll talk about R. Kelly later but first I'll cover this worker and his woke companies pro woman
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This video is brought to you by a donation from Dr. B Real the author of the two volume book series Surviving 4th Wave Feminism. This is 9th and final chapter in the first volume of his book. The chapter has the same name as the title of this video. A struggle snuggle is a terrible thing and the person doing it regardless of their gender or background should be held fully accountable for it. Many of you will agree that this a touchy subject. No pun intended. So what does Bob also known as Dr. B Real say? That fourth wave feminism is trying to promote the idea of rape culture. One allegation of sexual misconduct and a man can have his family, career and freedom taken away from him. Usually the woman accusing him doesn't receive any punishment which creates moral hazard. Laws are being promoted that would allow a simple accusation to be convict a man without a trial. We are entering Salem witch trial levels of tom foolery. Normally it's the unattractive women that look like witches complaining about being touched when only a few minutes at a slut walk would show you that most don't get touched. Going to a slut walk you might confuse it with Halloween. Maybe it's sexually frustrated and unwanted women trying to promote rape culture to finally get some attention? Negative attention but still something. I would wager that we are far away from a struggle snuggle culture in the west as possible. Bob also says that the more frequently false accusations are made it means that legitimate victims are less likely to be heard and helped. Bob shares one story from a woman who was embarrassed at having her sexual advances turned down so she lashed out at the guy by claiming he raped her. That reminds me of the types of behavior of women at slut walk. Bob says that false accusations are now simply tools by women used against men. Look no further than the Brett Kavanaugh case where it was used as a potential tool for political or judicial power. Ford the woman accusing him lied and nothing happened to her of course. You can get a copy of Bob's book in the description. As for today's sponsor it's The MGTOW's Guide to Retiring on 200k in Southeast Asia: Anyways now back to the women so ugly that no man will ever force himself onto them clown world show. If Brett Kavanaugh had been taken down and not allowed to become a supreme court judge th
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