I love to be a self contained person and I don't talk if it's unnecessary. And I love that I'm not talkative and quiet. Sometimes people try to ask me to talk more but I will stay this way. #yuliku Music by the Swedish composer Robin Appelqvist: A Midsummer's Day https://youtu.be/m1ESWSvsOK4 ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45aGkb1tYEI

This Might Be Why You're Unhappy That you have the habit to assume the worst of people, or the worst of what would happen. 1. Assuming The Worst If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking negatively about a situation or a person before knowing the reality, chances are you are assuming the worst. Here’s an example: Your husband hasn’t called at the time he said he would. Assuming the worst: He got into car crash. He’s with another woman. He’s left me. Happy people assume the best in any given situation. They don’t jump to negative conclusions or assume something terrible has happened. This causes premature, unnecessary sadness, anger, and frustration. Always give the benefit of the doubt. If it turns out reality is pretty bad, then go into problem-solving mode. You’ll be far more clearheaded and prepared to handle a problematic situation at that point anyway. Here’s the same example but with a different perspective. Assuming the best: He is surprising me with something special. He stopped at the store to pick up groceries for the family. A meeting with his boss ran late. He landed a promotion. 2. Believing All Of Your Thoughts This one might sound a little confusing. A common mistake people often make is believing every thought that goes through their heads. This is not safe. Sometimes our brains play tricks on us and we may think things we do not truly believe. It could be in the form of putting yourself down. It could be questioning the honesty and trust of a friend or loved one. Sometimes emotions, worry, and fear cause us to think unnecessarily negative things. Happy people don’t believe everything single thought that goes through their minds. Often it’s the case that as you calm down and feel better, or even just allow time to pass, you will not think as negatively as you did earlier. Tell yourself that you don’t know everything. You don't know how people are going to see this, so you are going to have to ask them to find out what they think. When you want to do something, don't assume the worst is going to happen. Because it might, or it might not. I understand that you want to take more control over your life but it's lazy to think that you will fail because you could do so many things to save yourself, to help yourself to progress. #yuliku What Happens When We Assume the Worst of People We Love Things You Might Be Doing If You’re Feeling Unhappy ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cjAHbY49kYc