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BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD About Your Feelings or Needs?
BPD Relationships Ever A Good Time To Talk To pw/BPD About Your Feelings or Needs?
In BPD relationships is there ever a good time to talk to the person with BPD who is your partner (or was - or on/off) about your feelings and needs or that you believe they have BPD?
In so many relationships with people with Borderline Personality these "conversations" aren't amenable to any "good time" because so many with BPD (largely untreated) cannot tolerate and/or hear what you have to say or share. Rejection sensitivity and fear of abandonment along with so many with BPD that can't, don't and/or won't take personal responsibility. People with BPD more often than not will feel "attacked" by you expressing your needs and trying to talk to them about what you feel, need, or want.
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In BPD relationships is there ever a good time to talk to the person with BPD who is your partner (or was - or on/off) about your feelings and needs or that you believe they have BPD?
In so many relationships with people with Borderline Personality these "conversations" aren't amenable to any "good time" because so many with BPD (largely untreated) cannot tolerate and/or hear what you have to say or share. Rejection sensitivity and fear of abandonment along with so many with BPD that can't, don't and/or won't take personal responsibility. People with BPD more often than not will feel "attacked" by you expressing your needs and trying to talk to them about what you feel, need, or want.
https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog - Podcasts - Ebooks & More
#BPDRelationship #CommunicatingtoBPD #ajmahari
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6q3G_TN4a8s
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People, especially, the child and then adult-child of a parent or parents, in relationship to or with someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Anti Social Personality Disorder, are often unknowingly attached in very unhealthy ways. This type of bond, a is not at all a healthy bond or healthy attachment - it is addiction. People do feel attached so strongly that it feels like it will destroy you. Clients have often described this to me as feeling that something broke and that they are so broken now. This can bring about strong feelings of need for the Cluster B in spite of the high conflict, and confusion the often used tactic, among others, of intermittent reinforcement that fools you back into biting a hook again, if even for a short time.
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People with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder are not people with a fully developed "Self". They are arrested emotionally at a very young age. They did not progress through the healthy stages of required childhood development which means the difference essentially between having a cluster B personality disorder or not. They are so emotionally immature. They are so well defended they have no concept of anything but being meeting their own wants and needs. They cannot hold or tolerate at all the concept that they have done anything to you. They have cognitively distorted beliefs, to say the least, along with ingrained defenses that mean they have to (often subconsciously) project out their inner conflicts, shame, abandonment, lostness etc., on to others because they are just trying to survive. This does not mean they are not responsible and accountable for their words, actions and behavior, they are. They just don't have any emotional concept of that at all. They don’t care about you they just want to get what they want from you and must always be right.
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Please don't put much stock in my stated frustration here, I am, have been and at times do get frustrated. I think at this point, again, I have let that go. It comes and it goes.
My intent is not to focus on any other Youtuber or make any comparison between me and anyone else, I am actually here as quite a contrast to most other Youtubers in this area. It's up to you if you resonate with me in what I know that is accurate here that isn't accurate in a lot of other cases. It is important to actually ending the Breakup and to get out of limbo to work in a healing and recovery process and be willing and ready to hear what you need to hear vs what you want to hear.
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