Guy is the inventor of "circling" which he describes as conversational yoga. It's a way of practicing intimacy and authenticity in conversation which you will see him practice in this conversation. This is a guy with which you can really have a satisfying conversation. Our first conversation where he shares his story https://youtu.be/7dshAsIDP7I Guy's channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCuhoymQ9glku30sG4qgW-iQ Notes Marriage It didn’t provide a relationship Secure attachment The world shows up different Thought that freedom was supposed to be the mandala The obsession with preserving it at some level The sacrifice is giving up the guarding of the individual freedom Guy, and what he’s inside of Wisdom Near death experience The whole game has changed but it’s not apparent how strange it is You go on a dating site, you go on interviews It’s a different understanding of what a self is and what a relationship is The self will be constituted by that relationship We don’t see a future, a telos but a thing to optimize An age in which we’ve lost any sense of home Sense of deep familiarity In the danger is the saving power The age of technology We don’t produce history It’s not an object of my production Really SEE it Develop it beyond itself Deep intelligibility Being with what is To be alive is to be in trouble at some level We can’t attain it. Yearning Implicit is a homelessness The pleasure of the inferior Sistine chapel, the fingers don’t touch The agony and the ecstasy Our innate homelessness allows for the importance of home to be important but never achieved CS Lewis Mere Christianity https://amzn.to/3996O6g Walter Wangarin Crafting Your Marriage to Last https://amzn.to/3996O6g (the marriage book PVK referred to). Click here to meetup with other channel viewers for conversation https://discord.gg/2uUhZBK The link will prompt you to download the software for this free group messaging service. This link updates every 100 users so look for the most recent videos if this link doesn't work. If you want to schedule a one-on-one conversation check here. https://paulvanderklay.me/2019/08/06/converzations-with-pvk/ For the audio podcast mirror on Podbean http://paulvanderklay.podbean.com/ To listen to this on ITunes https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/paul-vanderklays-podcast/id1394314333 If you need the RSS feed for your podcast player https://paulvanderklay.podbean.com/feed/ All Amazon links here are part of the Amazon Affiliate Program. Amazon pays me a small commission at no additional cost to you if you buy through one of the product links here. This is is one (free to you) way to support my videos. To support this channel/podcast on Paypal: https://paypal.me/paulvanderklay To support this channel/podcast with B ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMyACsMlNMs

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