The main way to end Narcissistic and any other Cluster B abuse is by learning to begin (or continuing) to shift your focus from figuring out and dancing with the Narcissist, (or other Cluster B Personality Disordered people) to focusing on you. You matter more than trying to know more about the narcissist, or psychopath. That's how you keep being traumatized and hurt - it will keep you suffering. You can end Narcissistic Abuse by caring more about yourself than the Narcissist. You really are WORTH it.
Borderline and Codependent Dance of Impossible Connection
Borderline and Codependent dance of impossible connection comes together from the wounded childhoods (to varying degrees) of both. People with BPD cannot connect from a lack of self. People with Codependency have learned to try to please and over-give to others to connect. It is the woundedness of each that creates the betrayal bonds - that is not just a one-way street like so many with Codependency believe.
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BPD Abuse Cycles & Codependents’ Reactions | Nobody Has BPD “Traits”
In all of this complexity of the dynamics of Borderline Personality abuse cycles and the reactions of people with Codependency it is a logical fallacy or a Raven's Paradox to try to equate or "equalize" each person's part in the dynamics. People with Codependency are simply not "Borderlines" - period!
In the middle to further on in this video I talk about the meaning of "Nobody Has BPD Traits"
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Surviving BPD Relationships: The Importance of Therapy - Why Knowledge of BPD Matters
In surviving BPD Relationship Breakups take your Codependency and recovery seriously it is important to go to therapy not any 12 Step Group. Why knowledge of BPD is important for you to understand and does matter and is not useless.
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Loved ones, family members, partners or ex-partners of those with Borderline Personality Disorder are often confused, in pain, and struggling to cope with a loved one with BPD. Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach A.J. Mahari was interviewed on the healthyplace.com Mental Health TV Show on the subject of BPD Loved ones and Coping with someone in your life with BPD. This interview has been broken up into three parts to fit on youtube.
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BPD Relationship Recycling Getting Your BPD Ex Back
BPD relationship recycling between people with BPD and their partner/ex-partner person with Codependency getting the BPD Ex back are really recycling the core trauma bond that is not love. This is a dualistic "rebounding" by each person with BPD and each codependent on/off partner/ex of the unhealed woundedness of the core re-wounding trauma bond. It is an increasingly toxic re-wounding and painful cycle all of its own.
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BPD Relationships Do All Untreated Borderlines Discard? | A.J. Mahari Shorts
(Originally Recorded March 8, 2021)
BPD relationships - do all untreated borderlines discard? No, they don't. So much is said on Youtube and written across the internet by people who are Ex's of Borderlines that seem to describe all the same experience. People with BPD are not all the same and they are not all women either.
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The arrested emotional development and lack of self that are two of the hallmarks of what BPD really is and means in an experiential way leaves them without any here and now emotional reference for where they begin and end and where "other" is separate from them and begin and end.
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Borderline Rage negatively impacts loved one’s health. Why do they do this, no resolution, and then those long pointless talks? Focus on you not those questions. You need harm reduction as it is well known now that being in so much pain, so confused, so stressed puts you mental health and physical health in jeopardy.
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Each person, at one point or other in his or her life, needs to fully engage his or her authentic self and voice. Finding your authentic voice is a journey. Are you on that journey? Do you need more awareness? Is your life out of balance? Are you not meeting your needs in positive and healthy ways? Do you know who you are? As a life coach I work with clients in helping them to find a deeper understanding of self that unlocks and unblocks them from toxic relationships, self-sabotage, feeling or being lost and unhappy in life. You have dreams and goals that you really can achieve. You can master your emotions, you really can. Visit my website at selfhelplifecoaching.com and learn more. I can help you if want and need more out of your life.
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