If you have a person with Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Anti-social Personally Disorder in your life you may be lacking or over your boundaries. Boundaries are an inside job, for you. They are not to announce or fight back with a Cluster B personality disordered person. Your boundaries are for you - not to change them.
Borderline Personality Disorder is painful for those with it and painful those close to them. BPD suicides are rising. The darkness of being left behind by a loved one with BPD that completes suicide is something that millions of people are trying to live with.
So much lost potential to so many with BPD that do complete suicide. The feeling guilty after, feeling at fault, feeling you could have save him or her, feeling that if only you did this or that. If only you didn't do or say this or that. Oh, and the question why - it haunts and it hurts with pain so raw. No closure. No goodbye. BPD loved ones, like me (thought I did not know she had BPD) are left reeling with way to much overwhelming feeling, grief, loss, isolating to try and survive the roller-coaster of pain, questions and loss.
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I did a video on this Borderline Personality Disorder and Suicide for Loved Ones who fear it, partners breaking up with someone with BPD, family setting limits etc. in January of 2018 never imagining I'd be going through what I am now. To watch that video, called,
"BPD and Suicide - (Ex) Loved Ones' Traumatizing Dilemma & Heartache" I have ended up living the heartache after going through the dilemma. Remember, you do have to take care of yourself.
https://youtu.be/T_U1uofZUGk
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWNJ2HY9N9s
Cluster B’s In All Walks of Life and learning how to cope effectively and be non-reactive.
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Being abused (or have you been abused) by a Narcissist or an untreated person with Borderline Personality Disorder or a person in your life co-morbidly BPD/NPD? Anger is a very healthy emotion for a time.
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What very much matters is what you choose to do with or because of your anger. The healthy emotion of anger is a warning to you that you are emotionally over your limits.
http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca/Category/Narcissistic_Abuse_Recovery_Sessions/
You need to implement and up-hold boundaries or new more effective boundaries for your own emotional safety and well-being. No, the ClusterB Personality Disordered won't respect or care about your boundaries.
http://phoenixrisingpublications.ca/Category/Narcissistic_Abuse_Recovery_Sessions/
However, you need to know what they are or what will be healthier for you boundary wise regardless. This, along with healthy anger will help you to (if you haven't already) begin to create some healthy change in and for yourself and then when you are ready in the relationship or situation that you are being abused in. Anger is a call to inner-action of new choices and of new boundaries needed. On-going anger that sees you choose to try to hurt back as you've been hurt or change anything about the ClusterB person hurting you, is futile and only keeps you stuck in your suffering and the abuse.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3AmV9usxEG4
BPD or BPD/NPD or BPD/Psychopath - You Will Never Change a BPD - How To End BPD Breakup Cycles
How to achieve Suriving a BPD Relationship Breakup that is actually the end of the relationship and the breakup. How and why endless focus on is the Borderline only a Borderline or a BPD/NPD or a Borderline 'Psychopath' or BPD/ASPD co-morbid person is meaningless because it keeps you stuck in the pain and agony of not focusing on yourself and your own healing and recovery journey to break free of the unhealthy bond and no longer need endless dramatic videos, misinformation and/or more and more about Cluster B.
Doing this and focusing on endless videos and info keeps you mired in the emotional muck of not getting to the surviving of an ended BPD Breakup so that you can go on to a new chapter in your life. How to get to end the BPD Breakup Cycles. Be BPD and Cluster B free - it takes a healing and recovery process in therapy.
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https://www.spreaker.com/user/13416281/bpd-or-bpd-npd-or-bpd-psychopath-you-are
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtSPxehWEds
Empower Someone With BPD To End Unhealthy Life Choices Claims An Inauthentic Youtuber
I keep it real to help you heal! An inauthentic subscriber purchasing Youtuber misinforms in the worst way possible by blaming people with Codependency as if you need to be "perfect" before you try to have all those "conversations" with someone in your life with BPD or else the borderline will just blame you.
People with BPD don't take personal responsibility and it's not your job to be a "role model"
or make sure as this Youtuber claims, "that your side of the fence is cleaned up first" to what,
talk to a person with BPD abusing and using you? This Youtuber has bought over 70,000 "fake" subscribers in April and May 2024 (perhaps still on-going?) and allegedly also purchased thousands of views on her video of a similar title because her messages don't make sense and she isn't the "expert" she wants everyone to think she is. Up to you to be discerning.
An in authentic Youtuber blaming victims of abusive borderlines and suggesting that you should be able to "empower them" to stop "unhealthy life choices" that result from BPD. She sounds like a lost puppy, a rampant Codependent but what else is wrong with her that she needs to try to buy her way to "more credibility" while putting out the garbage "information" that she does. You can't empower a person with BPD to end the unhealthy life choices they make. Those choices will continue and continue to hurt you as will any notion or belief on your part that you aren't "perfect" enough for a person with BPD who uses you can can't love you.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJbUZOvo7q0
BPD Empty Eyes And BPD Dissociation
BPD empty eyes, cold-hard aloof eyes, glazed over eyes are fueled by internal emotional dysregulation and often experiences of dissociation to varying degrees or severe dissociation. People with BPD when emotionally dysregulated and dissociative are not "evil" and this does not indicate psychopathy either. I share an experience of dysregulated dissociation I experienced from the inside out in my therapy decades ago. I've been on (to a degree that was not most severe the inside of BPD dissociation and hope that what I share from the inside out can help you understand this is not people with BPD being all the very dark accusations people often misperceive.
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