Chemistry is often cited by many as the defining factor in what they look for when venturing into the world of dating - but is it the most important factor when it comes to the success of long term relationships, and what can you do to maximize the chances of finding the one while ensuring you waste as little time as possible? #evanmarckatz #dating #artofcharm What to Listen For -What dating apps are the best for establishing good connections? -How do women’s preferences differ from men’s when it comes to dating and how do you take them into account when getting to know new people? -What are the advantages and disadvantages of online dating and what can you do to mitigate the potential damage caused by the disadvantages? -Is compatibility or chemistry more important in the long run and how should you be viewing both when it comes to looking for what you want? -What one simple method can you use to break things off with someone you just met and are not interested in? -How can you look at dating in a way that stops making it feel like a waste of your time and energy if you haven’t found what you’re looking for? Relationships can be hard. Many of us have heard that, whether it’s from family or friends or coworkers. But relationships can also be easy… if you allow them to be. In fact, most of the time a relationship with someone you’re thinking about spending the rest of your life with should be easy. That person should accept you for who you are and understand you as an individual. You’re on a team, working together to make the relationship work. This is why compatibility is so important, and arguably more so than chemistry. Chemistry will make for great memories and amazing high’s, but compatibility will carry you through the years. Resources from this Episode Episode 742 - The Hidden Power of Relationships: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/742-relationships/ Evan Katz TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T704le1D1ag The Paradox of Choice: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/149151423X Evan Katz website: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/ Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/ajharbinger Johnny on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/john.dzubak Keep up with The Art of Charm The Art of Charm Challenge http://theartofcharm.com/challenge The Art of Charm Insiders https://theartofcharm.com/insiders The Art of Charm Bootcamp https://theartofcharm.com/personal-bootcamp/ Best of The Art of Charm Podcast https://theartofcharm.com/category/best-of/ The Art of Charm Toolbox https://theartofcharm.com/category/toolbox-episodes/ On social media: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/TheArtofCharm Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/TheArtofCharm/ ENJOYING WHAT YOU HEAR? Your reviews are essential to us and for those discovering The Art of Charm. Go to theartofcharm.com/mobilereview to share your Art of Charm experience. ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2k87kN7fiA0

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How to navigate uncertainty. uncertainty and stress with Dr. Domenick Sportelli. Dr. Domenick is a board-certified physician in adult general psychiatry and child & adolescent psychiatry, and is widely sought-after for his expertise on the latest in medical behavioral health, child/family psychiatry, and neuropharmacology. This is an era of uncertainty we haven’t faced in this generation and it’s wreaking havoc on many of us psychologically, so what can you do to better cope with the stress and loneliness you might be feeling and what should you be doing as a parent to be a good role model for your kids? What to Listen For How do we deal with the uncertainty and stress many of us are dealing with in isolation? How much of a psychological toll is the pandemic taking on medical professionals? What kind of psychological fallout will we be facing as we recover from the COVID-19 pandemic and what can we do to prepare ourselves? What should we tell our kids about COVID-19 and how do we talk to them about what’s going on? How do you find the silver lining during this crazy time of uncertainty? Why are gratitude and resilience so important during this pandemic? What rules can you set up to foster creativity in your kids so they don’t just resort to sitting in front of devices all day? How do we deal with the loneliness epidemic while we’re practicing social distancing? Why is having a schedule more important than ever and how should we schedule time for socializing? How do we manage all of the emotions we’re feeling just from the uncertainty of not knowing how long this pandemic will last? How do we deal with rise in tension in our relationships stemming from being isolated with each other all the time? What 3 questions can you ask yourself everyday to make your life better? Humans excel psychologically when following a consistent routine, and when the certainty of a routine is taken away it can lead to significant stress. The COVID-19 pandemic resulted in many of our routines being upended with no clear end in sight, so it’s important now more than ever to take it upon ourselves to determine our own routines. This is especially true for those of us with kids because kids need structure the most. A Word From Our Sponsors Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. 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We explore why you can't always know the future and what to do when you're feeling uncertain. This is a great video for anyone trying to get their head around the idea that certainty in life is an illusion and doesn't exist but also wants some practical tips on how they might overcome or manage feelings of anxiety like not knowing if something will work out. In this video, Domenick Sportelli shares his tips on how to navigate uncertainty with confidence. He first talks about what uncertainty is and why we often feel it in our lives. Next he provides three steps to help you become more confident when faced with uncertainty: 1) Embracing Uncertainty 2) Choosing Your Attitude 3) Being Present and Aware. Lastly, he discusses the importance of empathy for navigating uncertain situations like a boss! ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rS2fU9XSzA

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