In today’s episode, we cover mental health with Lori Gottlieb. Lori is a psychotherapist in Los Angeles, co-host of the podcast Dear Therapists, and the author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.
Mental health is a priority now more than ever, so what are the overlooked signs that someone is struggling with mental health, how do you know if you should talk to a professional, and why is boundary setting crucial to positive mental health?
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“What makes homo sapiens the dominant force on the planet for the last 150,000 years is the brain.” – Tai Lopez
What would you call a man who spent his teenage years in a mobile home park, lived with the Amish for 2.5 years as an experiment, was a professional tango dancer, dated a Brazilian model, was a self-made millionaire in his 20s, has authored several books and today attends Warren Buffet’s annual Berkshire meeting? You’d call him Tai Lopez.
An aspiring Renaissance Man, Tai has excelled at a variety of endeavors and has learned as much as possible along the way. In this episode we talk about a host of topics including how to earn and deserve what you really want in life, why the 4 Hour Work Week is a myth that won’t make you happy, why you should go straight to the top when seeking counsel and why the more you learn, the more you’ll earn…and loads of other valuable content.
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Tai is clearly a man with a passion and zest for living. He has what most of us would consider the “good life”: he’s healthy, wealthy and dates beautiful women. And he’s learned what it takes to earn all of those things: he says you have to deserve it and you have to work for it…but it is yours for the taking when you do.
He believes books like Tim Ferriss’ “Four Hour Work Week” give us the mythical notion that we only have to work four hours a week and we’ll make $10k a month in passive income. Once we do that, we can go out and do the things we love to do, like learn the art of the tango in Argentina. Tai disagrees, he doesn’t believe financial success happens by only working four hours a week, nor can we find real happiness that way.
He believes there are three types of happiness: the hedonic life or a life built around the pursuit of pleasure (which is the category most people pursue after reading “The Four Hour Work Week”), the authentic life and the meaningful life. It’s in the last one that we find the most joy and the most fulfillment; we reach this state by aligning our work and our love. So loving what we do is key.
Another contributing factor to our happiness is experimenting. To that end, he spent 2.5 years living in an Amish community as an experiment. He wondered what it would be like to live without a material focus and he knew living with the Amish would be the ideal setting to conduct his experiment.
The finer details of this show include:
-Associative Cognitive Bias: what is it and how does it work?
-Why he loves Ray Croc of McDonald’s story.
-How fear impacts our brain and how to annihilate it.
-The hereretical factors that influence women’s attraction.
-What is selective proceptivity and why should you care?
-And so much more!
Full show notes: http://bit.ly/1qUnPDa
Resources from this episode
Tai Lopez web site: http://theartofcharmpodcast.com/2014/07/24/tai-lopez-episode-291/
Tai on Twitter: https://twitter.com/tailopez/
Grinding It Out, Ray Croc: http://www.amazon.com/Grinding-Out-McDonalds-Ray-Kroc/dp/0312929870
Civilization and Its Discontents, Dr. Sigmund Freud: http://www.amazon.com/Civilization-Discontents-Complete-Psychological-Sigmund/dp/0393304515
Made in America, Sam Walton: http://www.amazon.com/Sam-Walton-Made-In-America/dp/0553562835
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Johnny discusses the spyware issue with ToK Tok, is it possible it will be banned? WIth any luck. Manipulation and Machiavianism comes with the territory of power and deceit. Can bad ideas prevail?
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David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
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Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
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How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
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David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
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Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Take ownership of your happiness. Watch the FULL episode with Rob Mack here! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfdWx02cZy4
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
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Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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How to use vulnerability as a strength with Keith Ferrazzi
There is more to leadership is strength and vulnerability is a strength with unique powers to bring people together. So what does it mean to lead without authority, what can you do today to become a better leader, and how can you inspire vulnerability and empathy in the people around you?
what it means to lead without authority. Keith is an American entrepreneur, recognized global thought leader in the relational and collaborative sciences, and NYT best selling author of Leading Without Authority and Never Eat Alone.
There is more to leadership than telling other people what to do, so what does it mean to lead without authority, what can you do today to become a better leader, and how can you inspire vulnerability and empathy in the people around you?
What to Listen For
What can you do as a leader to create a great space for people to be vulnerable, therefore allowing stronger bonds to form?
Why are intimacy and empathy crucial to forming strong bonds with the people around you and what can you do to foster such an environment?
How much vulnerability is too much when you’re in a position of leadership?
What does co-elevation mean and why is it important to have co-elevating relationships with the people around us?
How do you set boundaries for your generosity so you don’t get taken advantage of?
What is the Blue Flame in all of us and why is it important to see it in others and nurture it so it can bloom?
Being a leader doesn’t mean you tell other people what to do. It means you inspire those around you who then choose to follow you. When you are a leader, people should trust you to provide guidance for them and make the best decisions given the circumstances. You do not need to have authority over other humans in order to do any of that - but you do need trust and respect. Work on building strong relationships with the people around you and you will become a better leader.
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Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
What is vulnerability?
Why do we fear it so much?
In this video Keith Ferazzi, from The Art of Charm podcast and live event series, shares how vulnerability can be a strength. He also discusses how to use vulnerability as a way to build rapport with people.
In this video from the Art of Charm podcast, Keith Ferazzi talks about how to use vulnerability as a strength.
Chances are you're going to be vulnerable at some point in your life. But instead of running away or feeling ashamed, you can use it as a way to connect with people and develop deep relationships.
Keith Ferazzi, CEO of Ferazzi Entertainment and author of "Never Be Lied To Again" shares why vulnerability is a strength.
In this video he talks about the importance of rapport building and how to use vulnerability as a way to build trust with others in order to gain respect.
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Today Johnny clarifies his trend hopping argument. He looks at cultural movement through the lens of a musical movement. Psychology Today Article how narcissism can look like behaviors of terrible 2s.
#narcissism #artofcharm #coffeewithjohnny
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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