How to Build Belief Systems that Lead to Success. Dr. Beecham is a sport psychologist, the director and founding member of the Leadership Resource Center, and the author of Elite Minds: How Winners Think Differently to Create a Competitive Edge and Maximize Success.
#belief #drstanbeecham #artofcharm
What to Listen For
- What questions can you ask yourself to better understand your belief and values and how they influence your behavior?
- Why is it important to the people around you for you to work on yourself and constantly strive to be better?
- Why is happiness the wrong goal to aim for if you want a fulfilling life, and what should you aim for instead?
- Why is it important to examine your values and belief?
- How do your belief and values influence your ability to pay attention and how will they prevent you from seeing a reality that will lead you to fail?
- How do you rewrite the beliefs that are holding you back so you don’t miss out on countless opportunities to be successful and lead a fulfilling life?
- How should we perceive confidence in a way that allows us to be more confident?
What can you do to overcome the urge to compare yourself to others?
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The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
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Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
In this video, Dr. Stan Beecham teaches the Art of Charm audience how to create successful belief systems. He discusses three core beliefs that are essential for success and offers strategies to help you adopt them into your daily life!
Stan Beecham, PhD is a clinical psychologist and author specializing in the treatment of anxiety disorders. He has been on staff at several prestigious universities and hospitals. Stan talks about how to create successful belief systems that will help you achieve your goals.
Dr. Stan Beecham reveals the 7 steps to create your successful belief systems and how to achieve what you want in life! Learn how to build a winning mindset for success through changing your beliefs, developing confidence, and creating elite mindsets that will lead you towards success.
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Today Johnny discusses Trigger Words of Emotional Manipulation, what they are, and how to break their spell. Why do people use drastic measures to not have to face up to their own inadequacies? How to strengthen yourself.
#emotionalmanipulation #triggerwords #artofcharm
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0h2mT_yQboE
In today’s episode, we cover metabolic health with Dr Philip Ovadia. Dr. Ovadia is a board-certified Cardiac Surgeon, founder of Ovadia Heart Health, and the author of Stay Off My Operating Table: A Heart Surgeon’s Metabolic Health Guide to Lose Weight, Prevent Disease, and Feel Your Best Every Day.
What you put into your body has a direct impact on your metabolic health, but what is metabolic health, why is it important, and what can you do to support a strong metabolic health so you don’t end up on the operating table or in an early grave?
#metabolichealth #artofcharm #drphilipovadia
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Env_TLoQoSE
What triggers our social anxiety?
In today’s episode, we cover anxiety with Dr Wendy Suzuki. Dr Suzuki is a professor of neural science and psychology at the New York University’s Center for Neural Science, and the author of “Healthy Brain, Happy Life: A Personal Program to to Activate Your Brain and Do Everything Better” and her newest book, “Good Anxiety: Harnessing the Power of the Most Misunderstood Emotion.”
Anxiety is typically something we try to avoid, but why do we avoid it, what does science tell us about anxiety, and how can we use anxiety to our advantage?
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbsNFsnJCu4
In today’s episode, we cover the four horsemen of relationship dynamics with AJ, Johnny, and Coach Michael.
We all encounter four dynamics in our personal and professional relationships, so what are they, what is the best way to approach each one to minimize conflict, and in the case of conflict, what makes for the best and worst apologies?
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vlN5FNf1KhM
In this episode, we discuss the challenges that creatives face in becoming successful and answer your questions with Matt Komo. Matt was the head of social content at GoPro and is now one of the most sought after creators in the digital space.
Finding your voice as a creative can be difficult and frustrating, so how do you stay true to yourself while pushing the boundaries of your work, what can you do to balance the quantity of output versus the quality, and how do you get buy-in on your creative vision when you’re just starting out?
#mattkomo #contentcreator #artofcharm
What to Listen For:
► How did Matt Komo get started in film?
► What can you do to develop your confidence as a creative when it feels like you’re surrounded by people making better content than you?
► How do you balance quality vs quantity as a content creator?
► How do you find the balance between your creative side and the business side?
► What can you do get buy-in on your creative vision and get the necessary support to follow through to completion?
► How much of telling a story falls on the medium itself and how do you change the way you tell a story from one medium to the next?
► What can you do to handle the creative differences that inevitably arise between you and a client?
► How do you open yourself up to larger possibilities if you have no frame of reference for what is possible?
► How do you self-assess the difference between arrogance and confidence?
As a creative, it can be easy to get bogged down by comparing your work to that of other people, especially in today’s world where a simple search can result in countless examples to top-notch work. Fortunately, only you have your perspective on life and your story to tell, so your truth and your voice are unique to you. It will take time and hard work to find your voice, but once you do, no one can take it away from you.
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46HL5D9DF4I
In a world where effective communication is paramount, mastering the art of speaking well is not just an option, but a necessity. This latest Art of Charm podcast features communication expert Matt Abrahams, who offers invaluable advice on how to navigate the complexities of everyday interactions and professional dialogues with confidence and clarity.
AJ Harbinger and Johnny Dzubak go over:
✅Strategies for recovering from conversational missteps.
✅Techniques for making real-time decisions during critical discussions.
✅The framework for issuing apologies that are sincere and constructive.
Matt Abrahams brings his extensive expertise to the table, discussing how to deal with moments when communication doesn't go as planned. This is especially pivotal during high-stakes scenarios such as job interviews or pivotal business meetings, where the right words make all the difference.
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0:00 Welcome to the Show
2:13 Stressed Out When We're Anxious
6:51 Scripting Actually Works Against You
11:09 Different Mindset Shifts and Give Specific Activities People Can Do
16:44 Listening is So Important
22:16 Structure Helps us Figure Out What to Say|
28:39 Good Things Happen In Small Talk
35:18 You're Meeting Somebody New
43:45 BOOK: Think Faster Talk Smarter
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Erin Muroski is a comedy writer and actor who was recently selected for Ron Howard and Brian Grazer's content accelerator, Imagine Impact. She's been a top 5 finalist at the Austin Film Festival two years in a row, 1st place winner for the PAGE Awards in TV Comedy, and won Best Original Comedy Pilot in the UCLA Screenwriting Contest! She has taught and performed improv for over a decade.
Most of us will never undergo professional training in the world of improv and yet we engage in improv almost every day because life is improv – so why should you consider taking an improv class, how does improv relate to self-development, and how can an improv mindset help you to relax in social situations?
#erinmuroski #improv #artofcharm
What to Listen For:
► How do you compete in a place like Hollywood with people who claim to be or do things that they don’t even do?
► How should you approach a conversation with someone you look up to when meeting for the first time and why is it such a bad idea to be a fanboy/girl in such a situation?
► What should your mindset be when first meeting someone and what mindset will likely lead to an undesirable outcome?
► What is the value in learning improv and how does it relate to your path of self-development?
► Why is it counterproductive to try to be funny in improv?
► What signs of codependency can you look for early on in a relationship and what can you do to course correct at that point?
► How can a relationship become codependent and what can you do to prevent it?
► How do you make people want to be around you or simply notice you?
► What can you do to make a great first impression?
► How can you fix a bad first impression?
► What can you do to be confident without coming across as arrogant?
► How do you attract people who want the same things you want out of a fling or relationship?
Improvisational comedy (aka “improv”) is all about going with the flow, and when it comes to life, it is much easier to use the flow of a river to your advantage rather than trying to swim upstream or control the path of the river itself. And this idea applies directly to the conversations we have with people, especially when first meeting someone. Many of you will want to control the direction of a conversation and make sure you are able to highlight the good things about you and what you’ve done, rather than listen to what the other person says and allow the conversation to flow naturally by asking sincere questions and relating to what they’re saying without domineering the discussion itself.
Resources from this Episode
Episode 770: Leon Logothetis: Traveling the world relying on kindness: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/770-leon/
Episode 767: How to Master Communication in a Relationship: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/767-communication/
Episode 744: Dating Done Right with Evan Marc Katz: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/744-evan-marc-katz/
Episode 705: Don’t Try to Be Funny – The Art of Improv: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-podcast-the-art-of-improv-705/
Erin Muroski: https://www.erinmuroski.com/
Erin Muroski on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DuchessErin
Erin Muroski on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ErinMuroski
Erin Muroski on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erinmuroski/
Final Rose Material – Erin’s podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/final-rose-material/id1470981617
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E3M0gXr740M