Relationships are a two-way street, but when it comes to communication it’s important to understand people have a variety of preferences when it comes to how love and affection are given and received, so what are those preferences, how can you identify what someone’s preferences are, and how can you implement all of this information to build new relationships and strengthen existing ones? #artofcharm #listening #artofcharmtoolbox What to Listen For -What can you do to strengthen the relationships in your life? -What can you do if you think you’re a great listener but people around you keep complaining about you not listening? -Why is it a recipe for disaster to look for someone to complete you and what should you be looking for instead? -What are the Five Languages of Appreciation and how can you pick the best one for each of your relationships? -What are the three parts of communication and how does your awareness of each part help to mitigate miscommunication? -How do you identify the love languages of family, friends, and coworkers? -Why are openness and vulnerability mandatory when it comes to figuring out the love languages of the people in your life? -What little signals can you pay attention to so you can get an idea for how your loved ones communicate? In order to deepen the connections we have with the people around us, it’s important to understand how the people around us prefer to be treated. Just because you view the giving and receiving of affection one way, doesn’t mean everyone else does as well. Some people prefer to show their appreciation through words, some prefer to show it through gifts, and some prefer the spending of quality time together - and that’s just to name a few. Resources from this Episode Episode 719 Why Emotional Connection Makes or Breaks a Relationship: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/art-of-charm-emotional-bids-719/ The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/book/the-5-love-languages/ The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace by Gary Chapman: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/book/the-5-languages-of-appreciation-in-the-workplace/ The 5 Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/book/the-5-love-languages-of-children/ Learn Your Love Language with this Quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Do you want to turn small talk into smart talk? Get Accelerated ?https://bit.ly/comacceler Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://bit.ly/taocsubscribe Subscribe to The Art of Charm Podcast in iTunes: http://bit.ly/166Lw3U Official Website: https://theartofcharm.com/ Join The Art of Charm Challenge: http://www.theartofcharm.com/challenge/ Follow us on: -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheArtofCharm/ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/theartofcharm -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/TheArtofCharm Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24 Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8 How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8 Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I 5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1EKgUR_MKU

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In today’s episode, we cover the 3 pillars of powerful communication with AJ, Johnny, and Coach Michael Herold. Humans are social creatures and history has taught us that powerful communication can help anyone achieve any goal we have in life, but what are the 3 pillars of powerful communication, how can you strengthen each one, and what are you risking by never becoming a powerful communicator? Do you want to turn small talk into smart talk?  Captivate & Connect  ? http://bit.ly/2N9KDr1 Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://bit.ly/taocsubscribe Subscribe to The Art of Charm Podcast in iTunes: http://bit.ly/166Lw3U Official Website: https://theartofcharm.com/ Join The Art of Charm Challenge: http://www.theartofcharm.com/challenge/ Follow us on: -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheArtofCharm/ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/theartofcharm -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/TheArtofCharm Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24 Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8 How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8 Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I 5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqt0odX3H3Q

Undestanding the voice in your head, is the first step to harnessing the power of your internal dialogue. In this clip we reveal why the voice in your head never stops it's chatter & how we can harness it productively. 00:00 - Intro 00:37 - The true power of your inner-dialogue 03:06 - How to quiet racing thoughts in your mind 05:49 - When being "present" is actually a bad thing 07:39 - Social media & the effect on your inner voice 10:25 - Does "sleeping on it" actually work? 13:23 - Why you can't distance yourself from your inner-voice 14:57 - Helping your loved ones with their inner-voice 19:30 - Ethan Kross's X-Factor Do you want to turn small talk into smart talk?  Get Accelerated  ?https://bit.ly/comacceler Subscribe to our Youtube Channel: https://bit.ly/taocsubscribe Subscribe to The Art of Charm Podcast in iTunes: http://bit.ly/166Lw3U Official Website: https://theartofcharm.com/ Join The Art of Charm Challenge: http://www.theartofcharm.com/challenge/ Follow us on: -Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheArtofCharm/ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/theartofcharm -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theartofcharm/ -LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/TheArtofCharm Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4 Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24 Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8 How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8 Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I 5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k About us: Learn the Art of Charm You’ve spent long enough feeling like you’re missing out on genuine connections, easy relationships, and a fulfilling career path. Stop wishing for better and let us help transform you. Find out exactly what’s been holding you back from the life you want, from your habits to your personality traits. There’s no guessing, no testing, no trying to figure it out. Get a defined, realistic view of where you’re currently at so you know exactly where to go and how to get there. Forget putting a temporary bandaid on things - we’re about actual fixes. Develop a strong foundation of real, genuine confidence you can build the skills of conversation, connection, and persuasion. Work with top-notch coaches who’ve transformed thousands of people just like you into confident, successful high-performers with fulfilling lives, relationships, and purposes. Become part of the Art of Charm community, a group of peers you can connect with and use as a resource as you continue to grow. Being surrounded by those who think like you, understand your struggles, and have overcome the same obstacles you will. In this video, Dr. Ethan Kross teaches us how to master the voice in our heads and speak with confidence by controlling our inner dialogue. This is a free preview of The Art of Charm's "Voice Over" course on Mastering Self-Talk for Confidence and Charisma. In this episode of the Art of Charm, we explore how to get control over the voice in your head and avoid letting it run away with your life. Self-doubt, self-criticism, and negativity are all examples of destructive thoughts that can keep you from achieving what you want out of life. Ways to stop negative thinking: The first step is realizing that these thoughts are not true; they're just a product of how you're feeling on a certain day or moment. The next step is challenging these thoughts by asking yourself whether there's any evidence for them being true - more often than not there isn't! Once you've done this, think about another thought that might be more helpful. #selftalk #aoc #artofcharm ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rmSCzy2BFiU