Vanessa Van Edwards | Captivate - The Art of Charm Podcast Episode 610
This time around, behavioral investigator and body language expert Vanessa Van Edwards of Science of People gives us a glimpse into the science of popularity and practical exercises for maximizing our social attractiveness as detailed in her latest book, Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People. Enjoy!
How do you master small talk?
In today’s episode, we cover influence with Professor Vanessa Bohns. Vanessa is a social psychologist, an award-winning researcher and teacher, and a professor of organizational behavior at Cornell University.
We all have the ability to influence those around us to some degree, so what can you do to understand your influence, grow your influence, and use your influence to help you achieve your goals?
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Download the full episode with David Goggins here! https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-art-of-charm/id212382281
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Reach your next level. ?
The Art of Charm Podcast with @michaelgervais
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Hosted by Jordan Harbinger.
Regular listeners to The Art of Charm who are familiar with O.G. West Coast hip hop legend Too $hort's work over the past thirty years may wonder how he fits in with our usual format.
Then they might consider the value in hearing what someone -- who's not only survived, but thrived in the entertainment industry over those thirty years (with six platinum and four gold albums) -- has to say. Listen, learn, and enjoy!
The Cheat Sheet:
When and how did Too $hort die? (Spoiler: he hasn't, but don't tell Google.)
How and why has Too $hort kept business separate from his personal life?
How did Too $hort emerge from a middle class background to become an O.G. hip hop legend?
What keeps someone going and remaining relevant over thirty years in the entertainment industry?
Can music save lives? Too $hort thinks so, and has a new message for Oakland's modern youth.
And so much more...
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Relationships are built on trust, but that trust must be maintained over the years with intentional conversations to ensure that both people are on the same page - but how do you approach those conversations in a way that is healthy and promotes open & honest communication so that both of you are comfortable discussing uncomfortable topics?
#jillcoleman #honesty #artofcharm
What to Listen For
-How did Jill Coleman get into the fitness industry and find her calling?
-What can you do to overcome the negativity when it comes to having a public life?
-How many relationships actually survive infidelity?
-What can you look for to know whether or not it’s worth it to build a friendship with an ex-partner?
-What are the 2 parts to communication and why will your relationship fail if you don’t understand them?
-How do you stay focused on improving yourself rather than getting caught up in trying to fix other people?
-What is the difference between making something your fault and taking responsibility for it?
-What is the 3 S system to have an honest conversation about something you’re struggling to discuss?
-How do you set boundaries with someone when you’re not sure what the relationship is?
-How do you know when to have the conversation about intentions and expectations with someone you’re dating?
-If you’re feeling jealous or insecure about your partner, should you be honest about it?
-Why is it important to be able to trust yourself before you can trust other people?
-How do you deal with toxic relationships when there are children involved?
Trust is an interesting facet of human interaction. We learn about people by having conversations with them, seeing how they react to a variety of events and circumstances, and understanding the way they make us feel. Trust is something that can take weeks, months, or years to build, can be lost in a moment, and sometimes can never be rebuilt.
Resources from this Episode
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The Best Life Podcast: http://thebestlifenow.libsyn.com/
Jill Coleman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jillfit/
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In today’s episode, we cover leadership and motivation with Dan Luna. Dan formed 3LX Consulting in 2019 to empower leaders through coaching products that combine academics, consulting, and coaching, after a twenty-year career in the United States Navy SEAL Teams.
Leadership is a skill that requires conscious effort to develop, but how do we define leadership, what daily practices can you utilize to improve your leadership, and what can you do to lead and motivate your team to achieve their potential?
Do you want to turn small talk into smart talk?
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Today Johnny discusses possible part 2 of the Los Angeles lockdown. It was an experimental marathon of isolation, social media, and mental health. Nature is cruel, it does not play nice, it doesn't play by any rules but its own.
#artofcharm #Losangeleslockdown2 #coffeewithjohnny
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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