Codependents Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups - Codependents Need To Actively Choose Own Healing Have you closed a door - gone no contact - to be able to open a new door to an active choice to get into your own recovery after a BPD Relationship Breakup? If not, what is stopping you? My second (now re-purposed) Youtube Channel: https://youtube.com/ajmmahari https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.co - In Depth Video Series and more https://ajmahari.com - Ebooks & Audio http://phoenixrisingpublications.com - (Same) More Ebooks & Audio #CodependentsSurvivingBPDBreakup #choices #ajmahari ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xfhgkGMA74U

What Codependency Is Not - Surviving BPD and NPD Relationship Trauma BPD and Narc relationship trauma what codependency is not. Codependency is not how and what it was defined as in the 1940's and hasn't been for at least 20+ years. Codependency is not defined by or within and addiction model but one of a trauma response as is well known in psychology today. What Codependency Is Not - Surviving BPD and NPD Relationship Trauma #BPDandNPDRelationshipTrauma #Codependency #ajmahari ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rlSD0HN1gjg

People with Borderline Personality punish and seek revenge not "Talionic Thinking" but from dissociated dysregulated impulses. The Talionic impulse is just that - not a way of thinking. In my book Punishment & Revenge in BPD I explain the unregulated and unmastered talionic impulse as someone who know it from the inside out. BPD recovery is possible. You can Purchase this Book - in Digital Format Here: http://phoenixrisingpublications.com/shop/punishment-and-revenge-in-borderline-personality-disorder/ Are you a victim of a person with BPD? Are you still there? Why? In a recent Video I answer a question posted below that asks, Can a Borderline Be Wronged? Are BPD Loved Ones Victims of People with BPD? https://youtu.be/lBlPpMcA1bY Counsellor, BPD/Loved Ones Coach and Life Coach A.J. Mahari has an ebook (along with many others) available entitled Punishment & Revenge in Borderline Personality Disorder. Mahari talks about punishment and revenge in BPD for those with BPD and their loved ones. Mahari, who recovered from BPD herself, in 1995, shares, in her ebook, her own mastering of her previously unmastered talionic impulse when she had BPD. A.J. Mahari knows, from first-hand experience that there is something far more important, something much more precious then the fight to feel or be right and BPD recovery is so possible and yet tragically so many with BPD never go through the necessary process to find and realize that recovery. The punishment and revenge of the un-mastered Talionic Impulse is present in all with BPD and can be manifested differently, whether a person with BPD is a quiet borderline or an acting out raging borderline, a high or low-functioning borderline - outside of interpersonal relationships and usually applied to career success or lack thereof. Too many people with Borderline Personality Disorder are seeking to get justice or revenge in the-here-and-now with loved ones or people close to them. Borderlines are really trying to get revenge for or justice for past woundedness that was not caused by the loved ones that it may be directed at and often in abusive ways. http://phoenixrisingpublications.com (Ebooks/Audios For BPD - NonBPD and much more coming in 2018. http://borderlinepersonality.ca http://borderlinepersonality.typepad.com http://ajmahari.ca ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lN6luYz_QaI

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