How would you like to learn any skill 10x faster? Retired Navy SEAL commander Rich Diviney shows us how to learn faster by understanding the skill's underlying attributes
00:45 The difference is in what level of attributes we are in
05:10 How to develop your own attributes
07:05 Determine the attributes you want to develop
11:47 Narcissism is the worst attribute to have
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David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
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The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
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How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
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Boost Learning Capabilities With These Attributes | Rich Diviney
Increase your confidence, charisma, and learning capabilities. In this video I discuss the attributes that are important for you to develop in order to increase your learning capability. Check out my blog at www.richdiviney.com
In this video, I share how to overcome FEAR with a Navy SEALS mindset.
Mental toughness is one of the most important attributes that you can develop for success in any aspect of life and it's also one of the hardest ones to learn.
Here are 3 principles that will help you develop mental toughness: 1) Practice 2) Commitment 3) Accountability
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In today’s episode, we cover chasing your dreams with Ben Nemtin. Ben is a #1 New York Times bestselling author, co-founder of The Buried Life movement, and inspirational keynote speaker who has delivered over 500 keynotes to brands and Fortune 500 companies.
It’s easy to get caught up in the daily grind and forget about all the things we want to accomplish in life, so what can you do to create a bucket list that excites you, surround yourself with people who encourage you to chase your dreams, and share the bucket list in such a way that fires you up and motivates you?
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Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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The majority of issues we face in relationships can be boiled down to 4 types of behaviors we exhibit. So what are they? How do you identify which ones you exhibit, and what can you do to deal with them in yourself, your partner, friends, family members, and coworkers before they fall apart?
#lauraheck #gottmaninstitute #artofcharm
What to Listen For
-How did the Gottman Institute get started?
-How much overlap is there between the issues married couples face versus friends, coworkers, and family members and what can we learn from the overlap?
-What are the biggest issues typically seen in newlyweds and couples first moving in together?
-What is implied when you stand up at the altar to say, “I do” and what should a conversation about those implications revolve around?
-What 3 questions should you ask yourself before entering into a couples therapy situation and how do you use these questions to make sure both of you are on the same page when it comes to expectations?
-What are the 4 problem behaviors that come up in relationships and why is it important to identify YOUR problem behavior before calling out your partner’s?
-Why is it a bad idea to see a therapist without your partner if you’re having relationship issues?
-How do relationship problems express themselves through our emotional, mental, and physical well being?
-How do you deal with criticism whether it’s coming from yourself or your partner?
-What is the difference between complaining and blaming, and why is one ok and the other is not?
-How do you deal with defensiveness in a relationship?
-How can you develop patience when it comes to your partner’s development since we all grow at different speeds?
-What questions can you ask your partner to show your support for their development and assist in it (if they want you to)?
Relationships are a two-way street, so the issues we face while in relationships are a result of one person’s actions and the other’s reactions. This is not to say that one person is always acting and the other is reacting, but when attempting to tackle issues you have in your relationships, you must acknowledge your role in that issue. The responsibility does not fall 100% on you or the other person but is shared between the two of you. This applies to romantic relationships, platonic relationships, professional relationships, and familial relationships.
Resources from this Episode
YouTube: Making Relationships Work | Dr. Gottman: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLXX8wzvT7c
The Gottman Institute: https://www.gottman.com/
Marriage Therapy Radio Podcast: https://marriagetherapyradio.com/
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Where do you even begin if you want to get better at meeting people? Improving your communication skills is an excellent place to start. Communication is important in relationships, and even more important when dating. We’ll dig into best practices, tips and strategies for dating and meeting new people with Dr Laura Berman.
#drlauraberman #relationships #artofcharm
What to Listen For
-What drew Dr. Laura Berman to relationship and sex therapy?
-What is the current state of sex ed in schools and why is it so inadequate?
-How does porn affect the way you get aroused and why is it doing more harm than good?
-What is the fundamental problem with the paradox of choice when it comes to dating and dating apps?
-Why is it so important to think about how you want someone to make you feel and how does clarifying that make dating easier?
-Can you use DNA to find your perfect match?
-What is the best way for you to approach dating in the #MeToo era?
-How quickly should you move from dating app to meeting and why is it risky to draw it out?
-Where can you practice conversational skills in low-risk areas and what happens if you don’t practice these skills?
-How should you go into dating as a parent and why is it so different?
-If you are dating as a parent, when is the best time to bring up that you have a child?
-What can I do if my mind goes blank every time I try to talk to someone I’m interested in?
-How do you keep the intimacy going in a long term relationship?
-What is the biggest behavioral predictor of sexual health in a relationship?
-What is the “want” underlying the desire to “spice it up” in the bedroom?
-What do you do if you realize your partner is no longer attracted to you?
-How do you rewrite your story so you can break out of dating the same type of people?
Remember: A big part of having good communication is being honest with yourself. If you are honest with yourself, you know what you like and don’t like, you know what you’re good at and what you’re not. That automatically filters out potential dates or relationships that come racing in from your dating app. And if you are honest with other people about who you are and what you want, it makes it easier for them to decide whether or not they want to keep spending time together.
Being honest with yourself and with other people saves you headaches, confusion, and time - and time is the most valuable thing we have as human beings.
Resources from this Episode
Dr Laura Berman: https://drlauraberman.com/
Quantum Love by Dr Laura Berman: https://www.amazon.com/Quantum-Love-Atomic-Energy-Relationship/dp/1401948855
Dr Laura Berman on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LoveAndBeLovedBetter/
Dr Laura Berman on Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrLauraBerman
Dr Laura Berman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drlauraberman/
Dr Laura Berman on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCgUqq5xvIZmhMBIHUGn2P4A
Uncovered Podcast with Dr Laura Berman: https://uncoveredradio.com/
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Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Today Johnny discusses the Guy Raz interview, Pathological Compassion and Joe Rogan moderating a presidential debate. Great idea, wrong participants.
#Joerogan #debates #guyraz
2:00 Guy Raz
5:00 Pathological Compassion
18:00 Rogan and Debates
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Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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In today’s episode, we cover emotion efficacy with Dr. Aprilia West. Dr. West is a psychologist and executive and team leadership coach who works extensively with artists, creatives, and entertainment execs to increase their emotional intelligence, psychological flexibility, and resilience.
Emotions influence our thoughts and actions everyday, so what can you do to understand them, understand where they come from, and understand how to manage them so they don’t lead you to make harmful decisions?
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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Today discusses Cancel Culture. What is it? Why it's wrong and how we should think about it. Self-expression is about well being and connection, cancel culture cats that fundamental behavior off at the knees.
#cancelculture #artofcharm #coffeewithjohnny
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Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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In today’s episode, we cover navigating college and your career with Belle Liang and Timothy Klein. Belle is a professor of Counseling Psychology and Principal Investigator in the Purpose Lab and Tim is an award-winning urban educator, clinical therapist and school counselor, and together they wrote How to Navigate Life: The New Science of Finding Your Way in School, Career, and Beyond.
Society places a ton of pressure on kids to follow a certain path through life, but does that path set them up for success or failure, what mindset should we be instilling in kids before they choose a college, and why is the pursuit of happiness leading them away from a fulfilling life?
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Top 5 Guest Interviews of All Time
Kobe Bryant on Mamba Mentality https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Jay Shetty on Overcoming Self Doubt https://youtu.be/OOoURnvTRu4
Eric Weinstein on Overcoming Bias https://youtu.be/dQhOgwu2eZc
David Goggins on Building Mental Toughness https://youtu.be/ueNtejxVY24
Charles Duhigg on Developing Success Habits https://youtu.be/qjydQpvXczo
Top 5 Social Skills Toolbox Episodes
Art of First Impressions https://youtu.be/ioQrinlWzR8
How To Talk To Strangers https://youtu.be/y7FrWZCwi9A
Leaving Toxic Relationships https://youtu.be/GiogVWmQ9Oc
The Art of Compelling Conversations https://youtu.be/JlHa0naefb8
Charismatic Body Language Tips https://youtu.be/_F99kE-OdMc
Top Videos to Sharpen Your Social Skills
How To Talk To Anyone 5 Tips https://youtu.be/Oq-IvIxbHSE
Never Run Out of Things to Say (3 Tricks) https://youtu.be/4H_WsG-1B0U
How to Know if You Made the RIGHT Decision https://youtu.be/M95fX7gNm9I
5 Social Skills Mistakes Logical People Make https://youtu.be/3OSiVa6qldk
Recognizing Emotional Bids (Instantly Connect With Anyone) https://youtu.be/kNyy7ar2g0k
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